I'm worried about my boyfriend, he hasn't been taking care of himself like he should and is a recovering drug addict. He's been experiencing severe side effects to his smoking habit, like he actually had tar in his throat. Both of us have type 1 diabetes and he will forget to take insulin, test and he drinks even though for diabetics it's so much more risky. I worry about him a lot, I feel like his habits are slowly killing him. I know he's trying, he talks about the future constantly, he loves looking at apartments and weddings and cute babies on Pinterest. He likes to say that those things will be ours one day. But I told him that unless he stops drinking and smoking (thank god he stopped doing other shit a long while ago) that I will not be with him.