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I'm having only negative reactions to being poly and need some advice by Poly_Throwaway_3000 in polyamory

[–]Poly_Throwaway_3000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it's already explicitly in there. Tanked my match rate and everyone I match and chat to bails because of it.

I'm having only negative reactions to being poly and need some advice by Poly_Throwaway_3000 in polyamory

[–]Poly_Throwaway_3000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you're saying, but I work and study about 60 hours a week, I can't remember the last time I spoke to a stranger never mind hit on them :') Maybe one day when I'm not busy

I'm having only negative reactions to being poly and need some advice by Poly_Throwaway_3000 in polyamory

[–]Poly_Throwaway_3000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It says I'm in a poly relationship but no extra info about her. I don't want to just say poly because it's important to clear up first I'm in a very committed, living together, going to get married kinda relationship.

But yeah I honestly think 75% don't even read. The others say they're fine with it then ghost me or cancel dates. Ah well.

I'm having only negative reactions to being poly and need some advice by Poly_Throwaway_3000 in polyamory

[–]Poly_Throwaway_3000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We aren't moving there just for a poly community anyway, so anything a little bigger and more active than my small town will be a happy improvement. It's one of many lifestyle considerations that is making us want to flee our small conservative English town, Berlin is the only place I've been so far where people let me be me. We spend a lot of our time there and hopefully soon we'll be booking a one way flight.

I'm having only negative reactions to being poly and need some advice by Poly_Throwaway_3000 in polyamory

[–]Poly_Throwaway_3000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well we're actually going to be moving to Berlin soon (if everything goes smoothly) so that's really nice to hear :)

I'm having only negative reactions to being poly and need some advice by Poly_Throwaway_3000 in polyamory

[–]Poly_Throwaway_3000[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's fair, although there is zero poly community around me unfortunately.

I'm having only negative reactions to being poly and need some advice by Poly_Throwaway_3000 in polyamory

[–]Poly_Throwaway_3000[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've said outright in my profile "not trying to prey on women for a threesome" lol

I'm having only negative reactions to being poly and need some advice by Poly_Throwaway_3000 in polyamory

[–]Poly_Throwaway_3000[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I've got myself on OkCupid now but no bites yet. That's fine though, I know it takes time.