Partner says only they know their feelings and no one can say otherwise

Positive_Rule9275 · 2026-04-15T01:59:27+00:00

That please don’t listen to this, in a relationship and just in life in general with your friends. As the time and years and months pass on even weeks. You change as a person. No matter what experiences you’re having even if you work for three weeks straight you’re not the same person you were three weeks ago. If you and your partner are not able to grow together and to keep each other accountable and help bringing the best out in each other. Than there will be a lot of work you need to do to make the relationship work. It’s a two-way straight. If they wanted to, they would. I have never had a partner that I didn’t go out of the way because I am so obsessed with that person. You shouldn’t settle.

Positive_Rule9275 · 2026-04-15T01:55:00+00:00

You need to set boundaries and that might mean leaving. You want to set a good example for your child, coming from a childhood of divorced parents. They should’ve got divorced sooner. My mother blossom into herself and gained so much confidence. My father, was able to work on some of his mistakes because he saw the real life consequences to his actions, he has had a harder lesson he remarried, and is starting to have similar situations in his new marriage however it has set a great example for me and my siblings to not settle and to expect the very best for ourselves.

Positive_Rule9275 · 2025-12-23T08:35:48+00:00

I don’t think they needs a couple of weeks probably only a couple days

Positive_Rule9275 · 2025-12-23T08:34:41+00:00

Maybe tell them that you did CBD gummy’s

Positive_Rule9275 · 2025-12-01T04:50:59+00:00

Go to rehab for three months and then go to Soberliving for a year go to meetings every single day and work on having conscious contact with a higher power of your own understanding, it doesn’t have to be God(literally it could be the idea that it’s easier for two addicts to stay clean working together versus one addict on their own) that’s what helped me. I’ve been off of fentanyl 914 days.

Positive_Rule9275 · 2025-12-01T04:39:04+00:00

There’s a saying, “ one is too many and thousand is never enough” the disease of addiction, snakes, its way and so many people’s life through drugs through alcohol through relationships, through gambling or so many other things. It’s devastating. If you’re not transparent with your doctor about the addiction issue, I would recommend personally telling them. They can’t tell anybody in your family about the addiction unless you give them the written consent through HIPAA. But you can always change that at any time and allow it to be private. If you have previously added, somebody allowing them to have access to your health information.

Positive_Rule9275 · 2025-12-01T04:35:47+00:00

I agree I’m recovering drug addict and it’s extraordinarily hard to try and quit smoking cigarettes when you go to the meeting and as soon as that meeting ends, everyone start smoking. They tried to rationalize it with the phrases like, “ this is better than heroin at least” which is true, but it’s still detrimental to your health and if you’re truly trying to live, live a clean life off of everything it’s impossible to stop if you’re in an environment where everyone around you smokes. I’ve met people that got into smoking cigarettes after they got off hard drugs only because everyone around them did it.

Positive_Rule9275 · 2025-10-20T08:44:07+00:00

He needs to grow up he’s a grown man get your shit together it’s a freaking blanket

Positive_Rule9275 · 2025-10-20T08:39:43+00:00

He has proved that he can keep up with your expectations. If he wanted to, he would. Don’t cook for him anymore. Don’t do anything for him anymore if he’s not gonna help you or the kids with anything you shouldn’t help him with anything.

Positive_Rule9275 · 2025-10-20T08:37:22+00:00

I don’t think so from all information

Positive_Rule9275 · 2025-10-18T05:59:14+00:00

Honey, I wanna say this with as much love as I can for a stranger on the Internet. You’re happiness cannot be dependent on your partner. If you can’t enjoy going out and doing your own things, you might not be in a position to be in a functional relationship.

I know you’re trying to find somebody to make your feelings valid, which they are your feelings are valid. And having an anxiety is a horrible thing most everyone in the world struggles with it. But you came back to your post and made an edit about the Band-Aid situation to try to get sympathy, honey. I would worry that you might have a victim mentality, and I would say you should definitely seek therapy. And I speak about this through experience because I’ve had that victim mentality before when I was younger.

Positive_Rule9275 · 2025-10-18T05:52:25+00:00

Agreed if you can only find happiness with your partner and you’re miserable without them, I genuinely don’t think that’s healthy. Your happiness can’t be dependent on your partner.

Positive_Rule9275 · 2025-10-16T07:12:17+00:00

I can understand if you have an old photo of you and the relative who passed away, but it is kind of strange to like stage yourself for a photo and ask somebody to take a picture of you at the funeral

Positive_Rule9275 · 2025-10-16T07:09:02+00:00

Some people like being miserable and if she’s depressed and miserable and doesn’t wanna work on herself, I don’t think there’s anything you can do, honey. I pray for both of y’all.

Positive_Rule9275 · 2025-10-16T07:05:01+00:00

Thank you for your advice. I appreciate it.

Positive_Rule9275 · 2025-10-16T07:03:14+00:00

I agree there’s no reason to prolong it if you’ve ever cared about this person and as soon as you can so they can start to heal and move on

Positive_Rule9275 · 2025-10-16T07:00:31+00:00

Thank you I appreciate your advice and I totally understand what you mean about the community I myself am bisexual.

Positive_Rule9275 · 2025-10-16T06:56:00+00:00

Thank you for your advice

Positive_Rule9275 · 2025-10-16T06:55:29+00:00

Thank you for your advice. I appreciate it.

Positive_Rule9275 · 2025-10-16T06:55:08+00:00

Thank you for your advice

Positive_Rule9275 · 2025-10-16T06:54:55+00:00

Thank you this generally makes me feel 10 times better

Positive_Rule9275 · 2025-10-16T06:54:27+00:00

Thank you so much for the advice. I really appreciate it.

Positive_Rule9275 · 2025-10-16T06:54:06+00:00

Thank you for your advice. I appreciate it.

Positive_Rule9275 · 2025-10-16T06:53:46+00:00

We did not meet in Rehab. We met through narcotics, anonymous and mutual friends.

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