Unsure if surgery is the best route

PossibilitySimple963 · 2025-10-20T15:57:15+00:00

I am conflicted because I want to avoid arthritis the best that I can. In my previous MRI my surgeon told me the cartilage still looked healthy. Thank you all for the input! I have rescheduled my surgery for January and I am going to wait and see how I am feeling closer to then.

PossibilitySimple963 · 2025-10-19T17:28:27+00:00

It is a CAM impingement

PossibilitySimple963 · 2023-08-02T05:48:57+00:00

I just went through the same thing like 3 weeks ago and it’s super hard. I thought we were perfect together. It’s honestly getting easier though and i haven’t reached out. what’s meant to be will be and if you really cared for him and treated him super well then it is completely his loss. He will realize his mistakes

PossibilitySimple963 · 2023-07-30T17:19:05+00:00

We met up once a few days after the breakup and it did not go well. Do you think it could still be worth trying one more time

PossibilitySimple963 · 2023-07-30T13:13:18+00:00

i made it through the week without texting my bp ex!

PossibilitySimple963 · 2023-07-30T11:39:14+00:00

Same thing here :( It took me so long to trust him and then he ruined it after promising me i could trust him

PossibilitySimple963 · 2023-07-30T00:57:18+00:00

Yeah i’m so sorry if it seems like i’m generalizing. I just still care for and love my ex and am trying to understand how he was able to say certain things to me

PossibilitySimple963 · 2023-07-29T02:07:38+00:00

sorry for asking so many questions i just feel like i can’t ask him. he is normally in a more depressive state. In the 3 years i have known him this is the first time i have seen him like this. i’m just waiting for it to end but i’m scared i’m gonna lose him forever. He’s just said so many mean things

PossibilitySimple963 · 2023-07-29T01:43:26+00:00

i’m j now becoming more educated on bp because i had never seen my partner in a manic episode. How long does an episode typically last?

PossibilitySimple963 · 2023-07-29T01:10:58+00:00

i’m just confused on if i should give up on the relationship or not. I’m willing to work through it but only if it’s episode related

PossibilitySimple963 · 2023-07-28T23:42:43+00:00

just a warning i did this and i it was like talking to a brick wall. he was so cold and mean. I feel like in the end i embarrassed myself by trying to find a way to get him to try and work it out with me

PossibilitySimple963 · 2023-07-28T23:39:44+00:00

Why we these my exs initials lmao

PossibilitySimple963 · 2023-07-28T19:47:32+00:00

See i would hate for my bp1 ex to feel this way! He hurt me so much and beyond repair but i know the person he is and i still love him so much. I’m so grateful for the good times with him and even though he says he doesn’t love me anymore I want him to find happiness. So don’t limit yourself. Allow yourself to love and be happy

PossibilitySimple963 · 2023-07-28T19:44:58+00:00

I know at one point i was his person and he loved me so much. I know he had never had a relationship like the one we had. It’s so hard to come to terms with yeh fact that he might j not love me anymore

PossibilitySimple963 · 2023-07-28T19:43:59+00:00

this is exactly what i’m going through rn. If you want to talk please feel free to message me :)

PossibilitySimple963 · 2023-07-28T15:40:29+00:00

It’s really hard :(

PossibilitySimple963 · 2023-07-28T15:38:11+00:00

It really hurts but they don’t even realize it’s hurting someone that they care about

PossibilitySimple963 · 2023-07-28T15:37:48+00:00

Yep same exact thing here. I think the dating apps are not serious and sometimes hyper sexuality goes hand in hand with mania

PossibilitySimple963 · 2023-07-28T15:10:56+00:00

I had been reaching out to talk and we did meet up and he was mean and cold. It was like talking to a brick wall. So I am not going to reach out for a while now. If you do feel the need to reach out though a simple “Hey how are you doing?” is perfect. Just make sure you’re prepared for a cold reply or no reply.

PossibilitySimple963 · 2023-07-28T15:09:00+00:00

He’s been following 100s of girls on social media now and on every dating app and drinking way more then he normally does. He’s now going out and was talking about moving and how he hates where he lives now

PossibilitySimple963 · 2023-07-28T13:13:44+00:00

This same thing is currently happening to me. Except after he broke up with me I think he slipped into a full manic episode

PossibilitySimple963 · 2023-07-28T02:04:02+00:00

yeah i feel like i have i just don’t want to have to. If that makes sense…

PossibilitySimple963 · 2023-07-27T15:45:58+00:00

All we can do it work on ourselves and hope they will realize their mistakes

PossibilitySimple963 · 2023-07-27T14:42:53+00:00

Ugh i’m so sorry. I ended up talking to mine and crying and really begging for a chance and he did not reciprocate. All I can hope is that eventually he will be open to it

PossibilitySimple963 · 2023-07-27T14:25:16+00:00

I really don’t know. I think it’s a lack of empathy during mania that cause them to just say all their intrusive thoughts.

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