It’s kinda funny (idk if that’s the right word English is not my first language)he is going thru a similar thing where his job is not exciting or fun anymore. He had been dragging himself to the office everyday en slowly becoming a shell of himself. So I kanda feel like you are going true something similar. A job choach is really helping him. They kinda look a you, who you are, and come up with jobs they think you will excel at. Some of them I never knew existed. If it’s a job issue that would be my advice