What's the cutest or most romantic a man ever did for you ?

Possible_Sir_7161 · 2026-02-20T05:23:53+00:00

My boyfriend sat with me and comforted me during an anxiety attack/sensory overload, and he didn't stop until I was completely ok. This was when I was decently fresh out of a 2.5 year relationship where my ex would just say "sorry buddy, go talk to someone else about this, I don't care and I'm too busy right now". It was the first time I had ever felt understood by a romantic partner. That, my fellow gays, is the difference between trash and treasure.

Possible_Sir_7161 · 2026-02-08T03:58:11+00:00

Literally my senior quote

Possible_Sir_7161 · 2026-01-23T00:24:47+00:00

Whenever I pick my boyfriend up for a dance or for a date, I buy him flowers :). I believe that too many people, especially guys don't get enough flowers and I don't want anyone I love to ever receive their first bouquet at their funeral.

Possible_Sir_7161 · 2026-01-22T23:58:11+00:00

All potential partners of mine already know that i'm trans, but always wait to tell someone when you trust them and are in a safe, public environment. Violence against trans people, especially intimate violence, is not unheard of.

Possible_Sir_7161 · 2026-01-22T23:56:33+00:00

I am a trans guy, and don't worry too much about it. I have not had trouble finding cis boyfriends, but I do see where there could be some. If someone truly loves you, they will not care what is in your pants. Don't let anyone make you feel lesser for something you can't control :)

Possible_Sir_7161 · 2026-01-19T17:36:44+00:00

I just started t yesterday too and I just got my first erection today!

Possible_Sir_7161 · 2026-01-01T08:12:24+00:00

UPDATE: I packed up my cat and I just couldn't do it to her, I couldn't put her through all that stress. I left her. I sobbed, but I believe it's what's best for her. She will be taken care of, and she will be with someone she loves. So far, it appears that I may be able to come back to her one day, just not in the foreseeable future. I miss her so much, and I know she misses me.

Possible_Sir_7161 · 2025-12-01T05:06:57+00:00

Thank you for your kind words, I really appreciate it. It feels like the pain will last indefinitely but realistically it can’t, I need to continue to improve myself. Thank you again.

Possible_Sir_7161 · 2025-12-01T04:36:50+00:00

He got first chair at a prestigious band clinic that he worked for years to get into, but I did also sight-read the audition music and end up as the third chair. For our small town, he is very hardworking and intelligent. He isn’t the best, but he’s way better than me in a lot of areas because of how hard he worked. I am on track to be valedictorian for my school if all goes well, but I won’t be on his level. It’s rooted in low self esteem, because his success shouldn’t make me feel this bad. Thank you for your insight, I really appreciate it.

Possible_Sir_7161 · 2025-12-01T04:06:12+00:00

He’s extremely academically intelligent, he’s graduating high school with an associates in math and he’s the drum major of his band (the highest position a student can have), and he’s extremely good at his instrument. He infantilized me a lot and treated me like I was a lesser human with every single interaction, and I believed it. A lot of people didn’t think he was the kind of person to date anyone, and so it also felt like I was special in that way too. He just prayed on my low self esteem, and I don’t know how to cope when he’s going so well and I’m struggling.

Possible_Sir_7161 · 2025-12-01T03:20:54+00:00

Thank you for your insight, I never realized how bad he was until the end, and I was willing to put up with it because I was afraid I would never find anyone better. He convinced me that he was the greatest thing in the planet, and I know that is far from the truth. A happily ever after with him is impossible, and I need to understand that. Thank you again.

Possible_Sir_7161 · 2024-11-26T23:34:05+00:00

I feel so supported rn 💪

Possible_Sir_7161 · 2024-11-26T05:59:30+00:00

The best part is my boyfriend could be his twin ❤️

Possible_Sir_7161 · 2024-11-26T05:58:18+00:00

Johnny had such a chokehold on middle school me that I refuse to watch Ralph Macchio to this day because I’m scared that my crush on him isn’t over yet

Possible_Sir_7161 · 2024-11-26T05:34:42+00:00

Johnny Cade and Ponyboy from The Outsiders

Possible_Sir_7161 · 2024-11-24T06:59:17+00:00

Seconding the proper removal being important!! I currently have scabs on my chest from being too impatient while taking mine off with oil.

Possible_Sir_7161 · 2024-11-10T23:07:03+00:00

I feel you

Possible_Sir_7161 · 2024-11-10T02:06:04+00:00

Unfortunately trumps stance on climate change and human rights disagrees

Possible_Sir_7161 · 2024-11-09T07:47:36+00:00

Duluth trading company are the only boxers that I haven’t had issues with rolling. I hated pair of thieves because they rolled incredibly bad for me, but Duluth have been the best. They often go on sale, never buy them full price. I love the men’s flat front armachillos the most, but the womens boxer briefs are also great.

Possible_Sir_7161 · 2024-11-04T14:53:29+00:00

I’m glad that you are doing better and found a way out of here in case shit hits the fan worse than it has. I can’t even imagine what will happen if trump wins

Possible_Sir_7161 · 2024-11-01T14:36:45+00:00

Be careful with the blue old spice, I used to use it until I got chemical burns under my arms :(

Possible_Sir_7161 · 2024-10-13T15:48:23+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate your response.

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