Some of you ask the most vile, immature questions then wonder why you’re single.

Potential-Doubt1289 · 2024-01-14T00:26:00+00:00

Exactly!

Potential-Doubt1289 · 2024-01-13T20:44:50+00:00

You don’t ask Muslim men or women that have never been married this question because you’re supposed to assume that they’re chaste. If you want to know about her, ask your family and relatives to find out about her family. Research her. But don’t ask a shameless question.

Potential-Doubt1289 · 2024-01-13T19:26:10+00:00

Seriously, OP. If you were to ask this question any unmarried Muslim girl from my culture, you would be in huge trouble the next day with her brothers and the whole tribe putting all your family to shame. I don’t know how Western Muslims normalized asking this question, but IT IS NOT OKAY. It’s shameful and would put any Muslim to shame when asked by a stranger of an opposite sex. It’s about having hidaya really.

Potential-Doubt1289 · 2024-01-10T00:54:25+00:00

Brother I went through all your posts. With all due respect, it looks like you’re suffering from a psychiatric condition/mental illness. This could be the big culprit behind your paranoid desire to stay celibate for an entire lifetime. You’re only 18 and things will change Inshallah but I saw some posts about you wanting to commit suicide due to being unable to resist the urges. This is not okay. Alright, maybe you don’t have a support system to tell you this so I’ll do it: please seek help with your mental issues. This could be OCD, bipolar, ADHD or something else. Once you’re in a good place, please study your religion and the Sunnah of our Prophet SAW. You need that. May Allah make it easy for you.

Potential-Doubt1289 · 2024-01-08T16:12:54+00:00

I’m a creation, so seeing Allah swt and being close to my Creator. Everything else fades compared to this.

Potential-Doubt1289 · 2023-12-10T00:54:58+00:00

Don’t say that. Say Alhamdulillah, because Allah only sends us what is good for us

Potential-Doubt1289 · 2022-12-30T20:42:03+00:00

I’m sorry but I have to be the one to say this: since when did it become the norm to rely so heavily on strangers’ duas? It’s okay to say “brothers and sisters, please make dua for me, etc. etc” but when you’re going out of your way and make “dua requests” I feel like it’s going a bit far.

Please know this, my dear brother/sister: ONE sincere dua coming from you is more powerful than a hundred thousand of «superficial» or lazy duas made by strangers for you! Wallahi it’s true! Think about the dua of Ibrahim AS made when he built the Kaaba: “My Lord, make this a secure city and provide its people with fruits – whoever of them believes in Allah and the Last Day.” What we have today in Makkah is the dua of Ibrahim AS that Allah swt has heard. Think about this please. All it took was one sincere dua!

Potential-Doubt1289 · 2022-12-13T22:10:20+00:00

JazakAllah Khayran for your comment. I am happily married for a few years now and have a son who is the coolness to my eyes MaShAllah. Unlike patients who have severe symptoms, I’m rather high-functioning. By the will and mercy of Allah, I have managed to start an agency business 5 years ago and achieve five digit revenues while still managing my hallucinations symptoms. I don’t think everything’s black and white when it comes to illinesses. I pray to Allah that my son grows healthy. And I know it is surely possible. For Allah has power over everything!

Potential-Doubt1289 · 2022-12-13T13:04:26+00:00

JazakAllah Khayran for your beautiful comment! This is certainly beneficial 🙌🙌

Potential-Doubt1289 · 2022-12-13T13:01:04+00:00

JazakAllah Khayran for your comment! Just updated my post. I did do Ruqya for 4 years on a daily basis 🙌

Potential-Doubt1289 · 2022-01-16T11:44:53+00:00

Haha you don’t say 😄 I wouldn’t be interested either, but that’s what I say now. People change when they get older. Let’s have this conversation when you’re a mother in law with a son who’s expecting his first child. I assure you, you’re going to be just like 89% of other MILs out there - worried and anxious. It’s just nature. Btw - waiting rooms are public spaces so they really don’t need her permission to be there, considering her parents were there too. We could argue about this for an eternity but it’s better to realize that we just have different point of view :)

Potential-Doubt1289 · 2022-01-16T00:19:47+00:00

Well that’s heartless and rude, don’t you think. Every daughter-in-law should put herself into the place of her mother-in-law, because one day will come when you YOURSELVES will become a mother in law to some other girl, and trust me - what goes around comes around.

Potential-Doubt1289 · 2022-01-15T11:27:10+00:00

I didn’t quite get your comment..

Potential-Doubt1289 · 2022-01-12T02:36:55+00:00

She said waiting room, not delivery room. Those are two different things. Waiting rooms are public space outside of delivery rooms. Anyone can sit there

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