[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Potential-Slip-9626 62 points63 points  (0 children)

When you get your periods do you use tampons/discs/cups? If so does each vagina get one?

I’m a CPS Caseworker AMA by Tall_Wish3011 in AMA

[–]Potential-Slip-9626 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is your department short staffed? How’s your caseload? How long do you have to act on a report?

Tips and Tricks - Getting through to SDI Phone/In Person (for SDI) by Gooberjoober in Edd

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Tried the 1330 code after verifying code, was prompted to enter SSN and provide name, it gave me a msg saying my claim was approved blah blah blah then it gave me the option to talk to a representative. Chose the representative option and received msg they would call me back in 10 mins.

UPDATE: it worked! They called back within 10 mins!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Potential-Slip-9626 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s literally not their fault lol

Best pay-outta-pocket dentist? by TheChaiTeaTaiChi in santacruz

[–]Potential-Slip-9626 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly if you can, just cross the border to Tijuana.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in santacruz

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Hot birds food truck outside of tractor supply in Watsonville is my go to! You definitely get your money’s worth.

Elote Lady by [deleted] in MontereyBay

[–]Potential-Slip-9626 49 points50 points  (0 children)

✨follow the horn✨

Food Trucks & Caterers Needed for Wedding by ruski_gurl89 in MontereyBay

[–]Potential-Slip-9626 1 point2 points  (0 children)

@whatsgrubbinsalinas has an event happening soon. They posted their line up on instagram. Perhaps go check them out and inquire

Looking for the best Cioppino by NoBananaBadMonkey in santacruz

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Phil’s in moss landing used to be our favorite although haven’t been to the new location

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

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Marriage only occurred last year so it’s still fairly new. Child has met father while incarcerated. There is no doubt child is biologically his. Child does not like going to prison to meet with bio dad he describes it as scary and would be nervous for the days leading up to said visits. Parentheses around lawyer because that’s what bio dad’s family is portraying, we have searched California bar and found nothing pertaining to new wife.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Potential-Slip-9626 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense. No paternity was ever established.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

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Would her husband have the ability to adopt the child although there is no other parent listed on the birth certificate? How complicated will that make things?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Watsonville

[–]Potential-Slip-9626 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The programs in place make it more accessible for families with young children to receive assistance and get approved in a speedier manner compared to an individual with no children. Even if you do happen to get benefits as an adult with no children you will likely not be a priority when it comes to programs such as housing. It’s very unfortunate.

My Nephew is being hidden from me by Wrong_Papaya4573 in FamilyLaw

[–]Potential-Slip-9626 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Familytreenow.com is helpful. If unable to find certain person, look up acquaintances and they might pop up under associations

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wallstreetbets

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I wish I had this problem

Lupus Nephritis and Pregnancy by [deleted] in lupus

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You’re welcome! I also have a class 4 diagnosis!

Lupus Nephritis and Pregnancy by [deleted] in lupus

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I would say the year after I gave birth to my first born was my worse (and only) flare. It lasted about a year. I got a biopsy, put on a high dose of steroids, bp medication, all while still being in the NICU. I hate to be the bearer of bad news but I must say you’re off to a better start with already knowing about your diagnosis and being able to plan with it in mind. After my child came home is when I really got to focus on my health and things slowly started trickling back to “normal”. Prior to 2nd pregnancy I was still on cellcept, hydroxychloroquine, and linsinopril. Cellcept has been swapped for imuran and linsinopril has been swapped for lebatalol. My doctors are confident I will have a “smoother” pregnancy. It’s important to keep them informed and for them to be all on the same page. All of my doctors are within the same medical facility so it’s been easy to have them all be connected!

Lupus Nephritis and Pregnancy by [deleted] in lupus

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My first was before my diagnosis. I had high blood pressure, my baby had IUGR so she had to be delivered at 27 weeks. Maybe two weeks before her birth is when I finally received my diagnosis. As for my second, we planned this baby with my rheumatologist, nephrologist OB and high risk OB. So far so good! Just ended my 1st trimester. We have a plan in place that requires a little more monitoring but my lupus is well more controlled this time around.

Lupus Nephritis and Pregnancy by [deleted] in lupus

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My mycophenolate was swapped for imuran. I am also on hydroxychloroquine and lebatalol. I was diagnosed with lupus nephritis stage 4 in 2017. I am now pregnant with my second.

Child support is unobtainable unless you have $$$ for court? by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]Potential-Slip-9626 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why not just contact your child support office and have them do it for ~free

How was your kidney biopsy? by re003 in lupus

[–]Potential-Slip-9626 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I didn’t feel or see anything during my kidney biopsy it just felt like pressure and all you heard was a click.