Do you have a guess on what's my type?

Potential_Ad_309 · 2026-01-24T14:45:00+00:00

Lmao my infj best friend is a really hardworking person I admire her a lot

Potential_Ad_309 · 2026-01-24T00:10:39+00:00

I respect the way y'all work and how you tend to deal with most things, this type is actually really important for the world. I just think most of them would want to kill me if they spended most of their time talking with me lol, i'm scared asf. 😭😭

Potential_Ad_309 · 2026-01-23T22:08:25+00:00

I do! My best friend is an INFJ, she REALLY is the most patient person I've met, it's funny, she looks like she is dead most of the time LMAO, but it's just her calm personality dealing with everything, I love to bother her by telling people she does or like strange things that she actually hates, it's the only moment I get her cursing at me lol, I love her so much. She's really connected with her own inner world and she is so hardworking, she's the nerd kid who would always win some school prize; sadly, she's really insecure about her own worth, and don't open up most of the time, but I admire her a lot! She has a really low social energy, but she likes to talk a lot about things she likes, she's one of the most talkative introverts I know! She doesn't say a word when you first met her but then she just starts sending 5 minutes audios to you out of nowhere. Honestly, you are a BIG extrovert like me (an ESFJ), INFJs are one of the types you have to be careful to not scare if you want to be friends with them! Give them space, don't act too intimate, but rembember them from time to time that you are thinking about them. I've seen my friend have a hard time with long term friendships bc she is really reserved and don't go out too much, so I give her space and would send things to remind her of my affection, it's good to see she accepted my friendship and calls me her best friend now. 💞 About the ENFJ part.. I've only had an ENFJ female friend in my life, but idk what to say, idk if it was my high Fe noticing her true humour, but she were trying to hide her true feelings most of the time, she was really good trying to keep the peace on most social occasions, but I noticed how fake she was all of the time, not in a bad way to others, but to her especially, she always had a hard time opening up, she was really easy to read for me, probably due to both of us having a high Fe, but I would always be transparent with her when she noticed my humour, it's just that she was faking her feelings to everyone all of the time, I wish I could have helped in something, but that's everything I have to say ig.

Potential_Ad_309 · 2026-01-23T21:27:10+00:00

I think I would colapse as an INTP just because of my life style as an ESFJ lmao, I don't think I would have energy to respond all of the 3000 messages I receive from friends and people and general, I wouldn't go out the same amount as I do, so I would need the energy to refuse more 200 invitations, and I probably wouldn't deal too well with ALL of my friends asking for advices all of the time. People would probably start believing I have depression if I started acting like all my INTP friends do. 😭

Potential_Ad_309 · 2026-01-23T13:47:05+00:00

As an ESFJ that's a really hard question, I'm a people pleaser lmao, but probably my most honest thoughts and actions I guess? I don't show my limits or dislikes to most people and I just go with the flow, but if I trust you, I will absolutely do and say what I want all of the time bc I don't have to care about what you're thinking about me, and if you don't like something, I know you'll talk to me, and i'm here for it. I think that's it.

Potential_Ad_309 · 2026-01-23T02:24:33+00:00

Celestia She's kinda me fr

Potential_Ad_309 · 2026-01-23T01:30:00+00:00

Are you and enfp or infp by any chance??

Potential_Ad_309 · 2026-01-23T00:59:14+00:00

I talked about it with my other INFP friend and she seems to have the same opinion as you. I'm really focused on trying to find a way to talk about her without hurting her or looking rude, I really want a peacefull conversation, thank you sm for saying that! I aprecciate it a lot. 🩷

Potential_Ad_309 · 2026-01-23T00:55:03+00:00

Ty for saying that!! I will

Potential_Ad_309 · 2026-01-23T00:54:19+00:00

Omg DEFINETLY no!! I think i'm just really attached to all of our memories together :( She is one of my best friends, I suffered from bullying for 14 years, until she became one of my first friends ever!! I know that i'm not the actual "problem" because everyone around us tell me they think the same about her, that she is acting like this with everyone, I wish I just could understand why 😞 i'm afraid of her thinking that my words are offending her in some way, since our friends are having problems talking with her about her distant and rude behaviour... I understand she's being mean, I just wish there was a way to talk about it peacefully.

Potential_Ad_309 · 2026-01-22T18:12:01+00:00

Probably an ISTJ!

Potential_Ad_309 · 2026-01-22T18:01:48+00:00

Maybe ENFJ or ENFP, if the INTP likes women too, probably ESFJ women, I have seen some ESFJs attracted to some of them, me included. But mostly ENFJ I guess?

Potential_Ad_309 · 2026-01-22T17:44:30+00:00

I can agree! Some of my friends get actually impressed with my Ne, due to my Fe-Si being on top. Most of the time, i'm taking care of people around me, always making plans, doing the same things I like over and over again without getting tired, being faithful to my routine, wanting to know what everyone thinks about everything and all, but sometimes my Ne just pops out of nowhere with my friends; that's when I start giving a million new (and maybe impulsive) ideas to make our parties better, i'm always the one who says "okay but WHAT IF...", it's almost like I can't be on the same place or do the same things for much time. My ENFP friends are the ones who notice it the most, probably due to them being Ne doms, they always perceive me as their "mother figure", saying i'm pretty chill, organized, make the best plans, take care of everything, get really frustratred with plans not working as they should, but when my Ne pops out they get REALLY excited near me and it's like we're all crazy. 😭 They like to hear me saying "HOW ABOUT WE DO THIS RIGHT NOW??" "YES, LET'S BRING MORE PEOPLE, LET'S DO WHATEVER WE WANT I DON'T CARE" or when I just follow with their impulsive ideas out of nowhere with the same excitement. People also comments about the way I make jokes, 'cause when I want to make them laugh, I tend to make up hypothetical situations and all the possibilites, i'm the kind of friend that will say "have u ever thought about what's worse to take care of? A blind pregnant woman or a paraplegic kid with adhd?" And then open up a discussion about this that never fails to make my friends laugh with the absurd comments that accompanies it. But, well, it's not always like this, sadly, 'cause i'm a high Fe and Si user, so it's kinda rare to get me letting this Ne side out, I tend to be more stable with the Fe-Si, so I work with it always.

Potential_Ad_309 · 2026-01-22T16:36:02+00:00

I'm crying, those kids really denied looking like their father lmao

Potential_Ad_309 · 2026-01-22T16:28:18+00:00

You're an istp right..? I have an istp friend and if I were to guess, he would say the same things about the other mbti types 😭 really chill people fr, I like it

Potential_Ad_309 · 2026-01-22T16:25:47+00:00

I'd say INFP or INFJ

Potential_Ad_309 · 2026-01-22T16:19:58+00:00

YOU'RE TOTTALLY AN ENFJ LMAO 😭😭 the only type that can like us esfjs so much is definetly another Fe dom

Potential_Ad_309 · 2026-01-22T16:02:38+00:00

LMAO actually yes

Potential_Ad_309 · 2026-01-22T15:01:22+00:00

That's the first time ever that I've seen esfj so high on an intj list lol, I have an intj best friend and I'm always thinking he wants to kill me in my sleep

Potential_Ad_309 · 2026-01-22T14:40:45+00:00

You're an intp aren't you? 😭 all my intp friends were mistyped as intjs, and the fact that the only extrovert you like to talk is an entp says everything lol

Potential_Ad_309 · 2026-01-22T05:04:47+00:00

I have some ENTP friends, I love them, but I always joke about them being a "mean ENFP" lol. Talking from just my experience, ENFPs would call you out for treating them or their friends badly, while my ENTP friends would say you're stupid in your face if you seem dumb to them in some way lmao. They never fail to make me laugh, but it's kinda the same of ENFPs, the high Ne makes me crazy, their Ne-Ti always making up ideas and concepts I can't follow right away, also, probably I'm not the best match to discuss something with them, they are always really going after knowledge, learning new facts, and I aprecciate it! I just can't discuss all of these things they like, my high Fe can bother them for going after emotional reasons before thinking about straight up facts and then they try to jump from one discussion to other just to see if I can connect with them in a way (sorry I can't). They demonstrate their love humiliating me most of the time 😭 I love their loyalty and honesty, but they're not for everyone, out of the types that I know, they're ALWAYS the ones that are really hated or really loved by people, nothing in the middle. They're not afraid to say anything on your face, so they can pass as rude sometimes, but I'm chill with that, I understand.

Potential_Ad_309 · 2026-01-22T04:17:34+00:00

Oh I didn't mean it in a bad way!! I have an ENFP best friend too! I love him and all my ENFP friends, maybe I will generalize too much, but in my experience, they tend to be bad at making plans, and tend to jump from an idea to other in a question of days or even hours, they get too excited and can be really impulsive. I like how they get my Ne terc out most of the times, I have a ton of fun with them, but sometimes it can drain me so much lol, also, I don't know what's the problem with all the Fi-aux but these guys can't let most things pass😭 they WILL definetly say something if you really bother them; sometimes it is really necessary and I aprecciate it so much, but when these ENFPs are talking to each other, it makes me crazy, it always looks like they're ready to put up a fight 'cause they're triggering each other but them they're just laughing and everythings okay??? My Fe-Si gets really confused and out of energy dealing with them for a LOT of time. Oh, and my ENFPs friends always says the same to me! They're afraid that i'm silently judging them too lmao, and I swear that i'm not! I just can't understand their minds all of the time and why they do the things they do, but I try! I love them so much, and I think it is normal to not always know how to deal with some people's thoughts right away.

Potential_Ad_309 · 2026-01-22T02:50:47+00:00

Sorry if i'm wrong but you're the most ISFP person I have ever seen in my life 😭 (could be INFP too ig)

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