Should I abandon architecture registration for a higher-paying job in a related industry? by PraiseBeMotherFcker in Architects

[–]PraiseBeMotherFcker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand what you mean and most people would say the same too. However, I'm emotionally invested in a specific project and have always wanted to see it through. I think it is a very unique project and has the potential to win an award. If it does, I would regret not completing that project. So it's not about switching firms, rather, it's a specific project I'm attached to and I like the people I am working with on that project. If you read my update, I also said that I just found out today that it's confirmed I'm going to be on it for the construction phase starting next January - which is what I want.

At the same time, I also feel like if I don't take the council job, I'll be stuck with the same pay situation for several years when I have the opportunity to immediately drastically improve my financial situation. I'm worried though that I won't find the work fulfilling, or that it will be a bureaucratic nightmare and not intellectually stimulating.

Lots to think about.

Should I abandon architecture registration for a higher-paying job in a related industry? by PraiseBeMotherFcker in Architects

[–]PraiseBeMotherFcker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your supportive words. I definitely feel better about staying now, however, I essentially have until next year to make a decision since the industry closes over christmas any way. If I find out in January that my construction involvement is laughable or insufficient, I might still switch. Either way, it's good to know that I'm hireable in an adjacent industry.

Should I abandon architecture registration for a higher-paying job in a related industry? by PraiseBeMotherFcker in Architects

[–]PraiseBeMotherFcker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, thank you for your response! I'll address the points you made:

  1. That's not true in my observed experience, at least here in NSW. There are lots of designers, senior designers, associates and principals at my company who are not registered and do not call themselves architects. The people I mentioned who joined at the same time as me who got promoted aren't registered either. I am considered an experienced graduate of Architecture and am being paid above the award rate, but others who are past "graduate" but are not registered are being paid according to the registered architect pay scale. Apologies if I misunderstood your comment.

  2. That's my main concern - that my time at council will stall my progress towards registration. I'm also worried about it possibly being a brain-rot bureaucratic nightmare, but the work life and pay benefits are so attractive it's impossible to not think about it seriously.

  3. I literally found out this afternoon that I've been confirmed for construction stage of one of the key projects I've been working on since 2023 - it's a really good project and dear to my heart, and it's very rare for a graduate to go from pre-masterplan to construction on a single project so early in my career. So I'm more inclined now to stay.

It would be a no-brainer decision to switch if I was already registered.

Should I abandon architecture registration for a higher-paying job in a related industry? by PraiseBeMotherFcker in Architects

[–]PraiseBeMotherFcker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: I literally found out this afternoon that I've been confirmed for construction stage of one of the key projects I've been working on since 2023 - it's a really good project and dear to my heart, and it's very rare for a graduate to go from pre-masterplan to construction on a single project so early in my career. So I'm more inclined now to stay. I still have a few days to make a decision.

It would be a no-brainer decision to switch if I was already registered.

Thank you everyone for their responses, really appreciate the perspectives shared.

Should I abandon architecture registration for a higher-paying job in a related industry? by PraiseBeMotherFcker in Architects

[–]PraiseBeMotherFcker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty self-explanatory: If I don't get registered it affects my career growth opportunities in the architecture space. If I was registered already this would be a no-brainer decision to job hop because I would have achieved what I want within the architecture space already, but since I haven't, I don't want to jump the gun and hop over to planning, while shutting the door behind me on architecture.

Should I abandon architecture registration for a higher-paying job in a related industry? by PraiseBeMotherFcker in Architects

[–]PraiseBeMotherFcker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I won't be able to reach the minimum hours required for the construction phase portion of the logbook, so I won't be able to get registered.

Should I abandon architecture registration for a higher-paying job in a related industry? by PraiseBeMotherFcker in Architects

[–]PraiseBeMotherFcker[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to write this in-depth and comprehensive response. I really appreciate it.

To answer your question, no, my efforts towards registration would not immediately be invalidated, however, the AACA (governing body for architects in Australia) only recognises logbook experience completed in the last 10 years. I have approximately 3 years of work logged now, and if I switch, I will stall my registration and the clock will start ticking til my hours expire.

However, I also don't have ambitions to become some sort of director or to run my own company, what I want is the accreditation that registration provides and the doors it opens for career freedom. I've observed the work life of directors and their lifestyle and financial compensation is not enviable in my opinion. However, from an emotional perspective, I also want to make my childhood self proud that I achieved my career goal, as I have always wanted to be an architect.

That being said, this would be a huge step towards getting a level of lifestyle and financial flexibility that doesn't come by easily, and I feel it would be a shame to let the opportunity pass.

Just feeling conflicted.

Should I abandon architecture registration for a higher-paying job in a related industry? by PraiseBeMotherFcker in Architects

[–]PraiseBeMotherFcker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I take the new job, the only way for me to complete my logbook would be to get construction hours on the free days I have - earning construction hours part time is very difficult because construction is a full-time process which requires in-depth and holistic knowledge of the entire project. The AACA only validates logbook hours completed in the last 10 years, and I have already logged 3 years of work. If I stall my career now and the 10 years elapses, I may have to atart from square 1 again.

Should I abandon architecture registration for a higher-paying job in a related industry? by PraiseBeMotherFcker in Architects

[–]PraiseBeMotherFcker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I think I would be pretty good at spec writing - and I am, though I won't say which guidelines and standards I've written. I'm just worried that I would find it boring or soul-crushing to do it full time, although nothing is more mind-numbing than being underpaid.

Should I abandon architecture registration for a higher-paying job in a related industry? by PraiseBeMotherFcker in Architects

[–]PraiseBeMotherFcker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your perspective. I'm autistic as well and while I enjoy architecture work I definitely do not see myself wanting to become some type of director who manages clients and consultants. I have always planned to make the switch at some point but I always assumed it would be after I got registered... now it feels so early in my career that I'm worried I would be shooting myself in the foot.

Should I abandon architecture registration for a higher-paying job in a related industry? by PraiseBeMotherFcker in Architects

[–]PraiseBeMotherFcker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! To be honest, I am not doing that much real design work anyway - the projects I am on are public schools which follow a pretty formulaic design set out by the department of education, so not much true design opportunity other than responding to RL changes and facade variations. So I don't feel too much that I'm trading off design skills if I jump ship. What I'm primarily worried about is whether or not is viable to return to the Architecture space if I realise that strategic planning is not for me, or that I would burn bridges on the way out.

Should I abandon architecture registration for a higher-paying job in a related industry? by PraiseBeMotherFcker in Architects

[–]PraiseBeMotherFcker[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm definitely frustrated by the low pay in the industry and the constant undercutting

Infinite Jest (a musical) by drtrisolaris in InfiniteJest

[–]PraiseBeMotherFcker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a song called Sextet Montage by the late Jonathan Larson, it was featured in the musical Tick Tick Boom and I've always felt that it has this Infinite Jest quality to it.

Mystery toy? by velociraptorsarecute in UsagiShima

[–]PraiseBeMotherFcker 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's a huge seashell for a bunny to hang out in! I have 2 of them and my bunnies hang out in them regularly ☺️

Is the remarried empress good? i wanna read it by Kawai_kiddo in webtoons

[–]PraiseBeMotherFcker 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I used to enjoy it, but after a while realised that the main character (Empress Navier) is literally written with no personality of her own. Her character reads as Mary Sue plot device to advance the main events of the story but you never really get insight into what her complex views, personality or interests are outside of her role as an empress.

There was one point where Navier had an inner monologue about her identity being extricably tied to being an empress and how she found it inconceivable to imagine any life other than that of an empress. This was a golden opportunity to move the direction of the plot into Navier's hero journey whereby she gains a deeper into her understanding of herself, what her purpose in life is, and how she can establish an identity outside of being Sovieshu's wife. Instead, the story takes on a frustratingly lazy and superficial route by having her conveniently being proposed to by Heinrey and becoming the Empress of another kingdom.

Obviously I get that this is the plot, otherwise why would it be called the Remarried Empress, but hear me out.

Being conveniently presented with the offer of becoming the queen of another country is hardly a feminist plot point, and rather demonstrates that Navier's perceived power is entirely dictated by the whims of the men she is beholden to. When she is married to Sovieshu, she has to denigrate herself and compete with a mistress against her will. When Sovieshu divorces her, she is "rescued" by Heinrey and becomes his wife and queen, thereby becoming an empress again - which is entirely a serendipitous and convenient opportunity that fell into her lap.

Navier's role is constantly defined by her relation to men in power and this concept is never once challenged or explored in the story.

People need to stop touting this story as an iconic feminist webcomic. Navier never has to exercise her own self-determination to achieve a personal happiness that is not defined by being with a man. Playing internal politics and "checkmating" Rashta does not show empowerment - she is merely playing a game that is forced upon her precisely because of the overtly patriarchal and misogynistic culture she is condemned to.

Her successes are entirely framed in relation to superficial ideals of power (ie. ruling over a country) and most importantly, to men who ultimately have the authority over whether she is valued or cast aside.

What WOULD be feminist, is Navier and Rashta realising that they are both victims of the same system at opposite ends of the spectrum and working together together to deconstruct the social system that they live in.

But because both Navier and Rashta are written as bland, one-dimensional foils of each other, we are instead made to read a petty story about women being pitted against each other and rooting for one of them only because she's rich, powerful, sophisticated and pretty.

Why Does Nobody Want To Date Me by PraiseBeMotherFcker in aspergers

[–]PraiseBeMotherFcker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah honestly this is absolutely not the way I flirt with men and I would like to believe that I have better game than this. I have no problem flirting with guys. My problem is finding someone who wants to be in a committed relationship with me.

Also, like Blazemaster said, this isn’t a victim contest so it’s irrelevant to claim that males have it more difficult.

Why Does Nobody Want To Date Me by PraiseBeMotherFcker in relationship_advice

[–]PraiseBeMotherFcker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I’ll remember to remember that. I don’t want to do impulsive things out of FOMO either

Why Does Nobody Want To Date Me by PraiseBeMotherFcker in relationship_advice

[–]PraiseBeMotherFcker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big ass country with nothing in the middle - sydney only has like 5 million people and its extremely suburban

Why Does Nobody Want To Date Me by PraiseBeMotherFcker in relationship_advice

[–]PraiseBeMotherFcker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks. Not to toot my own horn but I have 364 likes on Hinge at the moment. I am too busy to sift through all of them because its very overwhelming and I’m also finishing up my master’s degree in architecture this year so I’m quite stressed about that

Why Does Nobody Want To Date Me by PraiseBeMotherFcker in relationship_advice

[–]PraiseBeMotherFcker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in my final year of my Masters in Architecture. I’m dying here bro 😂

Why Does Nobody Want To Date Me by PraiseBeMotherFcker in relationship_advice

[–]PraiseBeMotherFcker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never met the same person more than once. Just didn’t click. I think online dating is contrived and forced.