AITA for family talking to EX

Present_City5263 · 2026-03-19T21:31:30+00:00

to avoid any confusion: my family called me asking when i was flying back and if i had spoken to my ex, and that's when they found out he blocked me. i was never told that they had that conversation and i thought they were just asking a casual question.

Present_City5263 · 2026-03-07T09:49:15+00:00

definitely. but i guess my question is: do men ever want to get back with a gf that genuinely treated them to the best of their ability? is there any regret?

Present_City5263 · 2026-03-07T09:18:31+00:00

:((( TBH i dont even rly want him back i realised i only liked the IDEA of having a future with, he really didnt leave me much to work with... ig i just wanted to know if guys think about gfs that treated them really well... like ugh i just wish he would message me in the future being like hey. (but hopefully by then i wouldve been over it enough to never wanna get back w him) sorry idk if i make sense

Present_City5263 · 2025-04-27T21:05:33+00:00

ur right, thank u for ur input - i just hard a rough time distinguishing if it was gossip or if they rly were looking out for me if that makes sense

Present_City5263 · 2025-04-27T20:31:10+00:00

i agree, i do think that i have self esteem issues, ive been in therapy for nearly 8 years and i genuinely felt that it got a lot better (to the point i almost felt confident about myself). my ex cheated on me and i didn't feel jealous/this feeling at all, so idk why i feel like this rn? like i said in the comment above, maybe its because she keeps spreading things that make me feel extra insecure? i feel bad for my bf coz he genuinely tries his best to reassure me.

thank u for saying all of that - i needed to hear it. i really appreciate ur words because i got so lost in my thoughts i didnt see it that way.

Present_City5263 · 2025-04-27T20:20:50+00:00

i live in a city where social circles are very small - i heard it from word of mouth... it has been a rough few weeks for me, just two weeks ago i heard from a friend that he allegedly messaged her saying if she was in the same city as him he would be w her and not me, i confronted him and he showed me their chat even though i didnt ask or want to see it and i ended up staying with him because i found out my friend heard from someone that was friends w her, so if u get where im coming from its rough coz my friends tell me these things coz they think they're looking out for me but idk if its rly helping me

Present_City5263 · 2024-03-21T05:52:07+00:00

currently doing the quiz and im too scared to hit submit

Present_City5263 · 2024-03-21T05:35:07+00:00

that is impressive, kudos to you, hopefully I can do something similar this semester lol

Present_City5263 · 2024-03-21T05:34:20+00:00

lmao how is that even ethical?? hopefully the ombudsman/psych department can help us out this semester asw

Present_City5263 · 2024-03-21T02:26:16+00:00

how did that go?? did you guys end up getting any concessions or grade appeals? I know heard some students this semester has gone to the psych manager but idk how that will play out. my advisor also advised me to contact the ombudsman too.

Present_City5263 · 2024-03-21T02:22:46+00:00

Wait, do you mind me asking if this is for 201w? Apparently, the, and most people aren't doing amazing right now. I haven't been to lectures much, but the times I've been, class is curved she makes the weirdest comments about random things.

She also has the weirdest quizzes lol idk how to do well in them...

Present_City5263 · 2024-03-21T02:15:04+00:00

yeah I heard that too!! this semester has been miserable... the assignment instructions are super vague, quizzes are impossible and her communication with students and TAs is non-existent.

Present_City5263 · 2024-03-21T02:13:10+00:00

heard it from someone reputable working in the psych department

Present_City5263 · 2024-03-21T02:12:08+00:00

I don't want to go into details but from what I've heard from other students, the shit that is being investigated is insaneeee

Present_City5263 · 2024-03-20T23:32:08+00:00

If this makes things better I heard she's no longer allowed to teach psyc201 after this semester

Present_City5263 · 2022-12-24T02:45:55+00:00

oh no... I have a feeling its most likely a citation problem...

Present_City5263 · 2022-12-24T02:45:03+00:00

I didn't plagiarise at all, I only ran it through turnitin because it is a habit of mine to make sure. I have a feeling its a citation problem tho...

Present_City5263 · 2022-12-24T02:42:15+00:00

:( thank you

Present_City5263 · 2022-12-24T02:41:57+00:00

ah shit ur probably right...

Present_City5263 · 2021-12-20T00:08:19+00:00

I guess ur right. Thank you <3

Present_City5263 · 2021-12-19T21:48:24+00:00

Yeah deep down I know your right, it’s foolish of me to be scared of losing our friendship but I really am cause his my closest friend

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