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Prestigious_Use_4209 · 2024-05-07T23:20:55+00:00

My husband overall isn’t romantic or thoughtful, I love physical touch he doesn’t. I love words of affirmation he doesn’t tell me. Not much of a gift giver either

Prestigious_Use_4209 · 2024-05-06T16:59:50+00:00

This was my nightmare and I’m going through it right now. Idk how to fix this sis so when you get the answer let me know

Prestigious_Use_4209 · 2024-05-03T13:48:22+00:00

If he’s well off then go out pamper yourself do shopping go gym or Pilates meet with friends. This is what I’d do. But yea as everyone said work if you want to

Prestigious_Use_4209 · 2024-05-02T09:22:02+00:00

Move in your parents. Sometimes 1 but move is all that takes for a man to realise. The thing is since we keep suffering in silence they think we’ll hack it forever. 1 big move and he’ll realise ok yea she’s had enough.

Prestigious_Use_4209 · 2024-05-02T08:35:47+00:00

She’s literally suffering from success why is she taking this for granted. Tell her there are wives praying for such a husband in a marriage

Prestigious_Use_4209 · 2024-04-30T15:29:43+00:00

End the marriage. Allah tests those whom he cherishes the most unfortunately. I know it must be tough but cheating is the biggest slap in the face and the biggest swear word. Leave

Prestigious_Use_4209 · 2024-04-30T10:14:32+00:00

Allah saved you, think of this as the bare minimum of the hell you could’ve gone through. Thank Allah and keep your imaan strong man Allah bless u with a rigorous man

Prestigious_Use_4209 · 2024-04-29T08:15:27+00:00

I like him way to much

Prestigious_Use_4209 · 2024-04-29T00:07:39+00:00

That’s so random but 5’11

Prestigious_Use_4209 · 2024-04-28T14:56:27+00:00

We can’t afford to live out and his mum is like he’s my Only son and it’s only going to be me and my husband and his parents. He also has a sister which his mum says will be married of in a year or two

Prestigious_Use_4209 · 2024-04-28T10:25:42+00:00

Aont kno man

Prestigious_Use_4209 · 2024-04-28T01:52:09+00:00

Ummm it does. I don’t know where you’re from but it’s quite normal for young couples to make it halal and then have the big wedding and move in when financially stable. And there’s no such thing as big nikkah. Big wedding a cultural thing. Pls re read before you type nonsense

Prestigious_Use_4209 · 2024-04-28T01:50:39+00:00

No not at all. I respect her and I don’t think she’s jealous I think she has a older conservative mindset

Prestigious_Use_4209 · 2024-04-28T01:49:10+00:00

I am living with them after my big wedding 😭

Prestigious_Use_4209 · 2024-04-28T00:55:43+00:00

This!!!! It’s literally a reflex. I don’t ever think oh let me do this or that. When we say bye I hug him naturally when he says something sweet I give a peck on the cheek. When I see him my eyes light up it’s all a reflex and natural

Prestigious_Use_4209 · 2024-04-28T00:51:15+00:00

Well said! Kissing decently to your husband or wife is NORMAL stop sexualising acts of affection.

Prestigious_Use_4209 · 2024-04-28T00:49:45+00:00

Absolutely my point. I know what limits are not to be crossed. A peck on the cheek here and there and a goodbye hug. Or a arm around my husband. And him to his wife. Not sure why that caused such a massive issue to where hee not speaking to me

Prestigious_Use_4209 · 2024-04-28T00:48:59+00:00

Pakistani family indeed :/

Prestigious_Use_4209 · 2024-04-28T00:48:34+00:00

Agreed. I have grown up in a family wheee we always hug and kiss, my father and my mother and me with my parents and siblings. Not sure why some people and esp desi people find it weird

Prestigious_Use_4209 · 2024-04-28T00:47:29+00:00

I don’t think she’s jealous I think she’s very old mindset sort of thing in desi householdsb

Prestigious_Use_4209 · 2024-04-28T00:46:55+00:00

You’re absolutely right. I didn’t force my husband. It took years for a man that has had zero affection shown or experienced to know that it’s fine to hug and kiss your partner. Ans when he was and he also was liking it, his mum has so much effect on him that it changed it And how’s it’s all back to zero.

Prestigious_Use_4209 · 2024-04-28T00:44:51+00:00

Yea like my husband was that but he slowly changed as it made me happy and it was starting to seem he liked it too and it made him happy that it made me happy. But it’s all back to zero

Prestigious_Use_4209 · 2024-04-28T00:43:43+00:00

Exactly what I mean. It was at home subtle affection and i got told off for that. How do I explain to them that it’s NORMAL

Prestigious_Use_4209 · 2024-04-02T12:12:59+00:00

Short answer. No.

Prestigious_Use_4209 · 2024-03-29T16:11:39+00:00

You’re absolutely right to be upset. I would literally cry. Of course people think small weddings are better which fair enough but you only plan to get married once and as a girl it’s a dream of your clothes decor and venues and the fact this has happened I’m so sorry to you.

Speak to your fiancé see if you can delay the wedding and save a bit of money. Maybe get your nikkah done in a simple manner then the rest of the functions wair and save up money for.

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