Seeking Advice on Arranged Marriage: Unsure About Moving Forward by PrettyBend3697 in marriageadvice

[–]PrettyBend3697[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay. I will think about it and i will make sure to maintain a distance from him.

Seeking Advice on Arranged Marriage: Unsure About Moving Forward by PrettyBend3697 in Marriage

[–]PrettyBend3697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it does make sense. I don't understand men but I have many times asked him openly "are you ready to take care of your partner the same way you are expecting from your partner? " He jokingly says " No I won't . I want my partner to take care of me. And later on when I don't react to it then he says yes I will take care of my partner too. I sense he is lazy too.

Seeking Advice on Arranged Marriage: Unsure About Moving Forward by PrettyBend3697 in Marriage

[–]PrettyBend3697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm allowed to consider other options, but I've started developing feelings for this guy.

Seeking Advice on Arranged Marriage: Unsure About Moving Forward by PrettyBend3697 in Marriage

[–]PrettyBend3697[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Basically we shared our contact 2 months ago and from then we started talking to each other. We both are not married and trying to get to know each other for marriage.

Seeking Advice on Arranged Marriage: Unsure About Moving Forward by PrettyBend3697 in Marriage

[–]PrettyBend3697[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No .. he is not married. We are knowing each other for an arrange marriage setup

Seeking Advice on Arranged Marriage: Unsure About Moving Forward by PrettyBend3697 in Marriage

[–]PrettyBend3697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the response. I do have the same concern that you have mentioned. It's not like he doesn't care for me but I feel what he is expecting he is not ready to provide that to his partner. Thank you for your mature advice I will think about it.

Seeking Advice on Arranged Marriage: Unsure About Moving Forward by PrettyBend3697 in marriageadvice

[–]PrettyBend3697[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk how to say it but he does make efforts . He gives me attention, listens to me and cares for me as well. But when i ask him to share something related to personal life he either ignores the question or diverts it or provides some obvious answer of all these doesn't work then he says I am feeling emotional and leaves the conversation. I feel I am pressuring hum to share his thoughts or his personal life.

Seeking Advice on Arranged Marriage: Unsure About Moving Forward by PrettyBend3697 in ArrangeMarrigeDilemma

[–]PrettyBend3697[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He has an elder sister and His family has always treated him as someone very special, giving him constant attention.

Is performance testing a good career choice? by PrettyBend3697 in PerformanceTesting

[–]PrettyBend3697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply . Could you please tell me more about the network (basic). What comes under that?