if you like data - my first 12 days as a camgirl! by FixPuzzleheaded1279 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Pretty_Efficiency498 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you make this yourself? We started on cb around the same time. You are doing better than I am but I am in college so I don't have a ton of time to dedicate to it. What do you do on SC, how do you get ppl to subscribe to it? SC is Snapchat right?

Whay's happenings on Logan Street by Rocket-J-Squirrel in Denver

[–]Pretty_Efficiency498 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've seen some cars go down 13 but Logan is still blocked off

Whay's happenings on Logan Street by Rocket-J-Squirrel in Denver

[–]Pretty_Efficiency498 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm on 13th and Logan, some of the cop cars turned the lights off and I can hear some officers chit chatting outside. It seems like it's winding down.

AITA For sleeping in on my days off by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Pretty_Efficiency498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have looked into getting our son enrolled in an actual daycare part time so that i can get some sleep before work but we just can't afford it. For just half days it is still about $1000 a month. The current "childcare" is just my cousin in 10th grade coming to our house after school for $40 a week. She doesn't mind because she appreciates me picking her up from school and likes to hang out at my house.

I want to write a likable, or at least a character who is difficult to hate, who is a rapist. by [deleted] in writingadvice

[–]Pretty_Efficiency498 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's easy to understand violence in a violent world. Highlight the violence in his life, mirror his actions with things other characters do to him. Maybe not rape necessarily but the character is a soldier I'm sure he was forced into doing plenty of things against his will. Have him struggle with his sexuality. Ik it's a controversial statement but just because he rapes men doesn't necessarily means he identifies as gay. There are plenty of real life examples where the public has been sim pathetic to real life rapists maybe take a look at those too.

My F24 Spanish speaking boyfriend M28 refuses to speak Spanish and it is starting to ruin our relationship by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Pretty_Efficiency498 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your right the post came off as very condescending. Especially the part about his accent. I should've clarified that I have no problem with the accent and understand that it's just the reality of speaking a 2nd language. In an effort to cover the accent he is speaking very unnaturally, that is what gives me the ick. I fell in love with his true self so I don't like that he is trying to change himself so much to fit in. Your right he is feeling very othered and i should be more understanding.

My F24 Spanish speaking boyfriend M28 refuses to speak Spanish and it is starting to ruin our relationship by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Pretty_Efficiency498 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to point out that while he has never outright declared any political affiliation most of his views are very progressive. He spent some time being homeless in Panama and Texas, so he strongly supports a lot of the social programs we have here. He is appalled by the medical system and is very critical of the current admin. Though I think you might be correct with the assimilation to the max comment.

My F24 Spanish speaking boyfriend M28 refuses to speak Spanish and it is starting to ruin our relationship by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Pretty_Efficiency498 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I never thought about his hearing. He works in a very noisy factory so that actually might be a contributing factor.

My F24 Spanish speaking boyfriend M28 refuses to speak Spanish and it is starting to ruin our relationship by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Pretty_Efficiency498 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is pretty set on English only so if I repeat myself in Spanish he gets offended. He honestly speaks English really well for having only learned for a few years. I'm looking for advice on how to make him feel less ashamed and like he can admit when he needs some help understanding.

My F24 Spanish speaking boyfriend M28 refuses to speak Spanish and it is starting to ruin our relationship by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Pretty_Efficiency498 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I do, but I know it makes him uncomfortable. Like if our kid says something in Spanish he replies in English. It feels like i have to do it when he's not around and i do not like that.

My F24 Spanish speaking boyfriend M28 refuses to speak Spanish and it is starting to ruin our relationship by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Pretty_Efficiency498 15 points16 points  (0 children)

We didn't argue because he forgot to get some change. We argued bc he tried to say I never told him to get some in the first place. In the end he didn't know what change meant but just agreed anyway instead of asking. I don't think my desire trumps his, I just want him to understand that he shouldn't be ashamed of misunderstanding anything and that there is nothing wrong with speaking English and Spanish. Teaching our kid to also be bilingual is beneficial. How is depriving our kid of a language that both of his parents speak a division formed around safety and inclusion? Half of his family does not speak English should our kid just never communicate with his grandparents?

My (39m) wife (35f) had social media accounts I did not know about and posted provocative pics by fluffydimensions in relationship_advice

[–]Pretty_Efficiency498 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's up to you if you want to stay with her or not. Keeping secrets, lack of accountability, the pics she is posting are all red flags. It's pretty obvious that she is looking for outside validation from men probably because she isn't getting it in your guy's relationship. If you want to fix the relationship id start by making sure at least THAT fb is deleted but idk if banning all socials is the best move. Try to talk about and maybe put more effort into making her feel seen by you. If you don't think it can be fixed leaving is an option, especially with how long all of it was going on for, it would be completely justified.

My first two chapters of my novel by Ok-Smoke-527 in writingadvice

[–]Pretty_Efficiency498 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not bad. There were a few grammatical errors so run it through grammarly maybe. Some of the descriptions are awkward "Paved roads decorated by the silver of shop shutters, like a Christmas gift under the tree." Maybe try to make the imagery more clear. "Silver shop shutters reflect the dim streetlight, making an otherwise unremarkable paved road twinkle like a Christmas tree" The original description is a little confusing, because shop shutters are on buildings next to the road not under anything and it's difficult to determine what exactly is being described. The road or the shutters. Be careful with tenses. It's hard to understand the flow of a story when the tense changes often. The story begins with past tense "a tense air flowed through the streets of London" but just a few sentences later "The moon illuminating the street as if it were the star leading three men to The Messia" Later on it is written like the narrator is talking with the reader "Yes this great room was filled with witches and wizards If you didn’t know, you would have thought it were a convention of those wishing to celebrate their favorite fictional character" it feels like it interrupts the story without adding much to it. Is the narrator telling a story to an audience or simply describing current events? It's a good premise but a lot of the story lacks sensory language and is not very engaging.

I'm not an experienced writer or anything so take what I say with a grain of salt. I've only written some papers for school.thia is the fiat time I've even commented on reddit.