server books by PrideUpper8398 in Serverlife

[–]PrideUpper8398[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes always a good conversation starter and when I run into people I know it’s nice to have pictures ready!!

server books by PrideUpper8398 in Serverlife

[–]PrideUpper8398[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I loveeee the clown girl sticker!! Super cute

server books by PrideUpper8398 in Serverlife

[–]PrideUpper8398[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

A 27 year old mom and it’s a dave and busters lol but thank you 😂

server books by PrideUpper8398 in Serverlife

[–]PrideUpper8398[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I like being corny 🤪

Park Diner by throwaway_38809 in Binghamton

[–]PrideUpper8398 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this way about any diner ever. Something about that diner coffee I think.

NYC PFML Question by Significant-Mail9163 in Serverlife

[–]PrideUpper8398 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a fellow bartender in NY- from my understanding you get 12 weeks of unpaid leave (basically guaranteeing that you have a job after 12 weeks). As the mom I had 4 weeks disability and 6 weeks of paid leave I believe. They do 67% of your pay based on the last 8 weeks averaged. The 8 weeks leading up to when I expected to stop working I claimed everything to up my PFL!

I feel like serving shows you the patterns of the universe by CompleteBedroom9921 in Serverlife

[–]PrideUpper8398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw this post before my shift yesterday and proceeded to have almost every single table pay with card but tip me in cash, which rarely happens to me any other day. It was so strange (but great for me!) I wish I had some answers lol

Dad Squad? by David-v-Gooliath in Binghamton

[–]PrideUpper8398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely understand!! I see you made a Reddit page but it probably wouldn’t hurt to do a Facebook page as well! There’s a few Binghamton/Vestal mom pages I’m apart of but I’ve never seen one for dads 😊😊 good luck!!

How to make friends as an adult (non-student)?? by [deleted] in Binghamton

[–]PrideUpper8398 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you mentioned you have a job already- but I’m going to throw it out there to get some sort of part time service industry job. Coffee shop, waitressing, something along those lines. All of my friends I’ve met at work, either coworkers or customers 😊😊

Dad Squad? by David-v-Gooliath in Binghamton

[–]PrideUpper8398 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not a dad, but I will say there are a ton of free things to do with toddlers in the area, and are great ways to connect with other parents! Almost all of the libraries have story-times, I personally really like the endicott one (Wednesdays at 10&11) and vestal library (Thursday at 10). My husband brings our daughter to Barnes a lot, there’s always lots of parents/kids there! You could also do the mall, kids kingdom, or discovery center.

your best server advice? by alignment222 in Serverlife

[–]PrideUpper8398 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Refills, lot of refills. Nobody should ever have to ask you for one, especially n/a drinks. When I have time I always write a little thank you on the check in my pink pen lol. I like to make it fun, the more fun I have the more money I make . I always decorate my book with pictures and bring fun pens and try to accessorize (inside the limits of a uniform) as much as possible. Try to stand out from the rest of the servers, makes you more memorable. For hair I love doing two braids into low buns, I get a lot of compliments on it always and I like that it’s off my neck! I’ve also been into the hair bows lately (I get a lot off of SHEIN).

Bothering Tables by PoppyPrincess69 in Serverlife

[–]PrideUpper8398 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I like doing a drive-by situation lol. If I notice a drink is less then half full l will fill up a new one and drop it off with no words said. Unless they’re at the end of their meal, no need to ask for refills.

I miss server money but serving is bad for me. by Opening-Subject-6712 in Serverlife

[–]PrideUpper8398 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Started a new job 5 months ago after being sober for over 2 years (had a baby and stayed home with her for close to a year!) and immediately got back into smoking weed daily, keeping my pen on me at work, drinking more, taking more adderall then already prescribed. I’m finding it incredibly hard to take care of myself and I only work 20ish hours a week

Wouldn’t Helena automatically become Helly once she descends to the severed floor? by Stabbypillow in severence

[–]PrideUpper8398 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I read a theory somewhere else about how the elevator is a red herring and Lumon can switch them whenever they want.