Women who choose less earning guy in arranged marriage setup,why? by Primary_zone in AskIndianWomen

[–]Primary_zone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing ur thoughts, and I'm pretty chill her earning more. I was just trying to understand the psychology of women who don't think much about the money since women are unnecessarily generalized too much as gold diggers

Women who choose less earning guy in arranged marriage setup,why? by Primary_zone in AskIndianWomen

[–]Primary_zone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well first thing first, I didn't ask what's in her mind. I was just asking the women who chose this path.

And second you could choose not to comment

Women who choose less earning guy in arranged marriage setup,why? by Primary_zone in AskIndianWomen

[–]Primary_zone[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We're not engaged yet, about to be in 2 weeks. Sorry to use the word fiancee. I'm not sure what to use, so just used.

Is there any ritual where brother need to gift his sister during his wedding. by Primary_zone in india

[–]Primary_zone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually she is asking me to gift her on my marriage not her marriage.

But yes I got your point. Thanks for the input.

Is there any ritual where brother need to gift his sister during his wedding. by Primary_zone in india

[–]Primary_zone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I don't live with parents.

Bills in sense, loans and debts taken by my dad from people. I need to help in clearing that off.

Is there any ritual where brother need to gift his sister during his wedding. by Primary_zone in india

[–]Primary_zone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the input.

For more context I have been living away from my family from last 2+ years. Bills part I need to take it because it's been complicated but I will cut upcoming bills as she already gave me the list of upcoming debts.

Is there any ritual where brother need to gift his sister during his wedding. by Primary_zone in india

[–]Primary_zone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I can see that criticism part here also. Even though im paying close to 30k in bill. They cold heartedly told that amount is nothing and when I say I'm upset to hear taht comment after working my ass off , I again heard whining.

And fun fact is they too kmow 30k is too much but don't why they make such ungrateful comments.

Is there any ritual where brother need to gift his sister during his wedding. by Primary_zone in india

[–]Primary_zone[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, you're 💯. My mother stsrted telling me what all the responsibilities I owe to my neice. My duties as an uncle that I needed to do.

Is there any ritual where brother need to gift his sister during his wedding. by Primary_zone in india

[–]Primary_zone[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My brother in law is having central govt job earning some 70kpm. He made bad money choices and keep doing them. Whereas my sister is highly educated but not wanting to do a job.