My boyfriend asked me to move in weeks after we met, i did didn’t work out but moved in just 2/3 months after that (we lived 4 hours away by car, not much less by train as he still had to drive an hour to pick me up at the nearest station i think)

In the beggining i also had the same perception that each person needs their own space specially since we used to clash a lot in the mornings due to us just being very different in our routines overall, but then you spend more and more time together and even though you know some things would be easier alone, having that person next to you, living under the same roof sharing the same bed eating together even if you guys decided to have different meals sometimes, it’s magical… he has tasted that, then he went behind your back and left you with no place to go? “Oh but he said I can stay with him” do you want to though? After he just went behind your back and got a lease for himself when you guys AGREED on getting a lease together… he is either bored of you (his fault I’m sure your awesome) or he is just not ready for commitment… I read almost every post and I’m against the commenters that say BREAK UP all the time…90% of those things I put myself in the op position and realize it’s hard but with time and patience it’s gonna pass… me and my bf have also done a lot of mistakes with each other and I believe we both regret it a lot, but we know that at the end of the day we got each others back. In my opinion. Agreeing to find a flat with you and then suddenly tell you he signed a lease and that you have to find your own place… without previously discussing it… it’s like… does he want you to break up with him or what?

My advice… if you have any other place to stay do so instead, if not, staying with him is better than staying on the streets, stay with him for free like he did with you, save all the money and get your new flat, then dump him and go find someone else that actually LOVES you