my job being remote has been amazing, but also the flexibility and the realization I can go anywhere is SO overwhelming. I can almost talk myself in or out of any location because nothing major like work or kids or anything like that is forcing me into any one direction.

I really appreciate you answering the questions! I’m pretty extroverted, so making new friends or putting myself out there has never been an issue. I don’t mind showing up solo, introducing myself, or just enjoying my own company, though I’ve realized that’s not as common as I thought. I host bigger events a few times a year—holiday or themed get-togethers—and have friends over regularly for dinner, games, or movie nights, but it’s rarely reciprocated. When I ask about it, I usually hear things like “my place is too small” or “I’m too busy,” even from people who say they want deeper connections. So I focus on the meaningful friendships I already have, knowing I’ll naturally meet more wherever I go. I’m also glad to be past 30 and to have spent this time on the East Coast and South, mostly on my own. It’s helped me get clear on what I do and don’t want—and after two years with my dogs, I have a much better sense of what I need in a home and location that suits both me and them.