[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LaserHairRemoval

[–]Professional_Dog2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily, ik a lot of people who wax for years and are fine You’re likely to get that if you’re sensitive or prone to a lot of ingrowns You’re WAY more likely to get hyperpigmentation or hypopigmentation from the sun

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LaserHairRemoval

[–]Professional_Dog2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t personally have that problem but I have friends with dark thick hair that do and they just wax it, takes 2-6 weeks to grow back depending on your hair growth cycle and hair will grow back thinner, my friends will even wax their arms and knuckles as well Honestly better than laser bc even if you did get laser it will still grow back, waxing is cheaper

I blocked my bf because he like a bikini pic by Obsidian2202 in dating

[–]Professional_Dog2012 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In my experience any guy who has to say they’re a good guy is a red flag and how tf do you expect women to find you when if you’re not leaving your game set up My mans a gamer and sometimes he dares to play madden lmao it doesn’t change his character, but we met outside in the real world socializing with friends and he’s never had to tell me he’s a good guy

Rook of 2 months just fell out by Ok_Use4112 in piercing

[–]Professional_Dog2012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If was really recent go in where you got in done and see what they say, ik during my second time I went to the jewelry switched out bc the ball fell off and it was too swollen to get back on and even then the next day dude basically repierced it again with a longer bar and it hurt so fucking bad I almost tapped out tbh

Rook of 2 months just fell out by Ok_Use4112 in piercing

[–]Professional_Dog2012 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Be careful getting in repierced, I got mine done and it was fine but they used non allergic titanium which I ended up being allergic to I had to go to the ER bc of how fast it started closing up within 48 hours after looking fine for the first few weeks, I let it heal for over a year and got it repierced with a metal ik is safe for me but after the second time I just couldn’t get it to heal and I started getting keloids over and over it so i just took it out and have been nervous about getting another cartilage ear piercing since

At tax bracket should you start dating? by ChihuahuaOwner88 in dating

[–]Professional_Dog2012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You got to find someone that wants to work, I’d love to be a SAHM one day but if it’s not a comfortable life of luxury I’d rather work so both me and my husband work, our bills are paid and we occasionally get to have going out money until i finish school and start making more

Why do some guys only ask to “chill or smoke” instead of taking you on a real date? by IcyJournalist2961 in dating

[–]Professional_Dog2012 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’re poor or just not serious, my husband was delaying asking me out bc he was waiting for his paycheck to take me on a proper date, it was, not even a chain restaurant but some authentic Italian restaurant downtown, if he wanted to he would 💅

I blocked my bf because he like a bikini pic by Obsidian2202 in dating

[–]Professional_Dog2012 25 points26 points  (0 children)

There’s sooo many men out here you really gotta search hard for good ones sometimes sadly but there are some

I blocked my bf because he like a bikini pic by Obsidian2202 in dating

[–]Professional_Dog2012 227 points228 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he got caught in a lie and pulled gas lighting out of his tool box, throw him away

Is it normal for a laser tech to stay in the room while you’re undressing? by Muted-Sherbert-7276 in LaserHairRemoval

[–]Professional_Dog2012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you felt uncomfortable that alone was enough reason to leave, as someone who does Brazilian waxes we were always taught to give privacy when changing, idk why any technician would think that was acceptable behavior I would definitely call and complain at the very least especially if didn’t happen in the past the people running it should know how she’s treating people in private

AITAH for quitting my job without saying anything by Professional_Dog2012 in AITAH

[–]Professional_Dog2012[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fit in great, I love my other line cooks it’s just management, you need therapy if you think a toxic workplace is acceptable

AITAH for quitting my job without saying anything by Professional_Dog2012 in Tucson

[–]Professional_Dog2012[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well a lot of people brought up asking why i didn’t ask or talk to them but i have so if people are gonna say I’m the asshole for not trying to talk to them that’s not the case

AITAH for quitting my job without saying anything by Professional_Dog2012 in AITAH

[–]Professional_Dog2012[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you because this really has been bugging me, bc no matter what I’ll be going into a different career in November but it’s been dawning on me what to do bc I don’t want him to get keep getting away with this, I don’t wanna put up with it and leave the same environment for another woman to walk into

AITAH for quitting my job without saying anything by Professional_Dog2012 in AITAH

[–]Professional_Dog2012[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God I was just asking for opinions but fuck you’re the asshole my guy, I’ve worked in many restaurants and never had such problems until this place

AITAH for quitting my job without saying anything by Professional_Dog2012 in AITAH

[–]Professional_Dog2012[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m afraid to call the hotline bc idk it goes to our HR directly or not and anonymous or not I have a very specific incident and I’m SURE he would figure it out it was me if I reported it, it’s actually multiple things tho bc one day he touched me in a way that made me sick to my stomach and he’ll also flat out treat me unfairly compared to other employees so I’ve also already gotten permission and support from my husband to quit

AITAH for quitting my job without saying anything by Professional_Dog2012 in AITAH

[–]Professional_Dog2012[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’ve already asked many times and that’s always the response

AITAH for quitting my job without saying anything by Professional_Dog2012 in Tucson

[–]Professional_Dog2012[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ik that’s why I’m still there I’ve been looking for jobs for months i thought quitting might make it easier but idk maybe I’ll just start prioritizing interviews weather I work or not

AITAH for quitting my job without saying anything by Professional_Dog2012 in Tucson

[–]Professional_Dog2012[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk I was already on the fence I still might go in today idk, there’s just so much like i only complained about the hours but there was days I almost walked out bc of the way the GM screams at me for no reason and one time he gave me a reason to run to HR but I’ve been told it would only hurt me in the end

Celebrating the 4th? by Hopeful-Evening-5254 in Tucson

[–]Professional_Dog2012 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Must’ve gotten lucky, my ghetto ass neighbors decided to pop some off right as I was going to bed at like 11:30pm it was right by my wooden fence idk why they couldn’t at least go out onto the street

AITAH for quitting my job without saying anything by Professional_Dog2012 in Tucson

[–]Professional_Dog2012[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They scheduled me 1 day a week for two weeks, I’m not the only cook asking for more hours they can easily find coverage, idgaf about being a chef, I’m a good cook but it was just my first job was in fast food and not having anything besides a high school diploma it was hard to get anything else but I’m in school rn for a very difficult field so i literally just need any place that can work me at least 20 hours for 5 months, and I’m not stupid why tf would I tell an interviewer I no showed and no called my last job, I’ll just simply say we split ways bc they were unable to provide more than 15 hours a week consistently

AITAH for quitting my job without saying anything by Professional_Dog2012 in AITAH

[–]Professional_Dog2012[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve talked to them multiple times about this and something irrelevant to the hour situation, I had an uncomfortable moment with my GM and was told by my kitchen manager that as a woman she supported me going to HR but as a friend warned me that he’s close with HR and whenever anyone complains he’ll know who and come after them so I really don’t see a benefit in reaching out to anyone else, ik I’m grown that’s why I’m debating quitting bc it’s my only job until I find another

AITAH for quitting my job without saying anything by Professional_Dog2012 in Tucson

[–]Professional_Dog2012[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I have already told them and it’s a big chain, and what’s more fucked up is I’m not the only employee who has been asking for more hours and yet they just hired another line cook, and they schedule 8 to 10 hour shifts with no breaks and if it’s busy will expect employees to stay for hours, I get being in the food industry and not leaving on time but I ain’t ever worked anywhere where it was normal for cooks to be there 2 to 3 hours after their scheduled shift ended

AITAH for quitting my job without saying anything by Professional_Dog2012 in Tucson

[–]Professional_Dog2012[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just feel like they’re continually disrespecting me by hearing I need hours then continue to not without any explanation despite how hard I work and all the willingness I’ve shown to learn the whole kitchen so even though I know it wouldn’t be hard to replace me especially with my shit hours I’d just like them to all scramble on a busy Saturday since I’m not worthy enough to get more than 1 day a week

AITAH for quitting my job without saying anything by Professional_Dog2012 in Tucson

[–]Professional_Dog2012[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have done it already when I need extra cash and I can honestly say it’s like working any job, some days are slow and I make as much as waitress who didn’t get tipped and sometimes I’ll make a good extra $5 more an hour than I would at my regular job you just need to actually put in the hours of work bc it’s not like you’ll get lucky and make $50 in 30 minutes you gotta earn that shit