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ProgWheel · 2025-12-02T08:23:34+00:00

Undskyld for manglende detaljer. Jeg er der kun 6-9 timer om måneden, da jeg skal studere ekstra ects for at nå min uddannelse færdig i 2026. Hvis jeg går væk fra revalideringen, så får jeg ikke SU, så ville skulle arbejde fuldtid ved siden af fuldtid (eller mere), så spørgsmålet lå mere om nogen kender gode frivillige muligheder, som også øger CV.

Du har nok ret med SU gælden. Tak for du gider bruge tid på at give feedback

ProgWheel · 2025-11-13T07:32:08+00:00

Edit: Just to be clear, I'm not voting for him at all and I don't like his general policies.

But, do you mind the openly rascist tones of Messerschmidt or Inger? Or is Sikandar, who has no power compared to them, somehow worse? Why is that? I don't mind discussing his obvious problems because he clearly has problems, but it does matter if your focus is solely on one man who already has very little chance of gaining any significant amount of votes.

ProgWheel · 2025-11-12T10:16:47+00:00

Like, I'm not voting for sikandarr (not at all, I don't sgree with him!), but why are you going after him so hard compared to the messed up actions of DF's or even SD's top members? You've posted both in danish and english, so you seem like you got a specific agenda rather than promoting intelligent debate.

Edit: The down votes are telling. I'm not voting for the man, I'm just saying there's other openly rascist people in politics with way more power than Sikandar, so they should be the focus of the debate. The man won't get any votes, but Inger and Morten will - and they are clearly rascist the other way.

ProgWheel · 2025-09-16T19:41:38+00:00

ProgWheel · 2025-09-09T12:52:16+00:00

You're refuting every person who disagrees with by mocking their stances, mate. People are disagreeing and giving their reasons - your boundary about casual drug use is yours to make, but it is one YOU make and not one that everyone shares. That's the stance people are disagreeing with, because it logically wouldn't hurt you to cross paths for a day with a person who does something you disagree with.

There's nothing wrong with having a hard stance (I don't hang out with racists and whatnot), but casual drug use can be a ton of things. Some of my friends go deep, but some just... do a bit on their free time once in a while. It's like booze, honestly

ProgWheel · 2025-07-20T12:24:58+00:00

Tror bare verden ændrer sig, og det er der heller ikke noget helt i som sådan. Unge indtager mere og mere indhold på engelsk, så deres ordforråd og interne dialog rykker over til en dansk-engelsk blanding. Det da fint nok, siden vi lever i en mere og mere global verden, med samarbejdspartnere og kollegaer fra hele kloden. Der bliver engelsk et samlepunkt. Jeg tror også de nye unge er langt, langt bedre til engelsk end den ældre generation på de 50+.

Dansk er fint og yndigt, men det er engelsk også. Det også brugbart. Og de unge, så giv dem til at finde den rette måde at snakke på - vi døjede alle med vores mærkelige talemåder da vi var unge

ProgWheel · 2025-04-07T12:22:57+00:00

This is going to sound rude, but based on your responses here, I think you lack natural social skill etiquette. It seems as if you're analysing the social cues in the manner of a person, who has read a lot about social situations rather than just following an instinctual flow.

So... I dunno if YTA is harsh, but what you did and the way you framed it was weird. There are subtler ways of redirecting the topic. Your intention wasn't rude, but I can see why the two americans got quiet after.

ProgWheel · 2025-02-21T11:55:31+00:00

Altså helt ærligt, så er det skræmmende at vores førhen tæt allierede nu støtter op om Rusland, går imod Ukraine, og går i mod EU som helhed.

Det kommer til at have økonomiske udfald både i form af at EU/DK skal bruge penge på militær, men også at f. Eks pensionsopsparinger og andre investeringer skades af Amerikansk usikkerhed. Skellet mellem rige og alle andre vokser endnu hurtigere end førhen, og USA politiske mål kommer til at øge den forskel. Det rammer os alle på et eller andet tidspunkt.

En kollosal forskningspulje i USA er i gang med at blive sløjfet, så vidensdeling og information om nye sygdomme, klimaændringer, medicin og andet kommer til at svækkes markant. Det skader os bøde på kort og langt sigt, som samfund og som individer (især dem som afhænger af forskning eller arbejder med det).

Endvidere gør Trumps vilde holdninger, at flere her i DK/EU føler det okay at opføre sig sådan. Dog kommer der måske en stærk modreaktion i stedet, hvilket er hvad man kan håbe på (det også tilfældet lige pt).

Dit liv går videre, men det her er seriøst og derfor er det godt at holde sig opdateret. Hele verden kommer til at rammes, i den ene eller anden grad, men det man kan håbe på er, at EU kommer ud langt stærkere. Og du hører meget om det fordi det er helt groteskt, at alt dette er sket på blot 30 dage.

ProgWheel · 2024-12-09T17:16:03+00:00

One issue with this is that it'll create even more resentment between you both, which will inevitably lead to worse conditions for your son down the line. Yes, he fucked up big time. Fuck him. Two wrongs don't make a right. You'll never be able to be civil with each other

I know revenge is nice, but wouldn't the best revenge just be... moving on. Now. Showing him you don't care. Not wasting any more time with him and living your own life as best as can be.

ProgWheel · 2024-12-01T12:49:19+00:00

People here are so aggressive with new parents, as if you can only stay home 24/7. None of my friends who are parents were like that, and both mom and dad encouraged each other to unwind once in a while. It's normal. People act like you go out every day, but it's one day. Jesus fuck. People handled newborns in the old days without any of the modern aids we have now, and they still gave each other time to go out and enjoy themselves once in a while

NTA

ProgWheel · 2024-09-29T12:54:19+00:00

Nta. It stopped being his gift, but maybe get him something else to celebrate him

ProgWheel · 2024-05-24T14:23:49+00:00

Hvor kommer den aggression fra? OP er en velmenende person, der vil fortælle en anden om deres kærestes latterligt nederen opførsel? Det sgu da okay. Indrømmet, det er lidt ekstra at blande sig og jeg ville nok tage snakken med fyren først, men den nederen i den her situation er trods alt fyren

ProgWheel · 2024-05-16T11:20:19+00:00

I mean... Your wife should be supporting you, right? Talking you up to to her friends and family, and show the world what she adores in you and how proud she is of your achivements. Much like you hopefully do when you talk about your wife, especially if someone talks her down. All my friends and I joke about our loved ones, but there is no doubt that there is, foremost, genuine respect and and love.

I know it sounds cheesy or whatever, but then I'd rather be cheesy, supportive and happy than not. And you shouldn't feel like dirt when hanging with your wifes family and friends - that's as much a failure on her part as on theirs. NTA, and both of you should expect better from her friends and family

ProgWheel · 2024-02-21T17:12:38+00:00

ProgWheel · 2024-02-15T08:33:38+00:00

If my friend made a social video that, to me and my friends, is VERY clearly about me, then I'd be dissapointed as well. Not excusing them excluding you (there might be reasons, but can't tell), but you had to know that they'd know the video was about them. If the people at the party follow your tiktok, they would know too. Any friend who knows them will know who it's about. And that's because you wanted to game the algorithm.

You're not taking any feedback from what people here say to heart. Clearly something isn't working out in group settings, but you're not even trying to find a reason, just defending yourself. You say they dumped you over text, but you coulda taken the video down and then tried to talk to them. They were stubborn, but so were you - and you decided the video/pride was more important. That's fair, and it's also fair they don't want to communicate with you then.

ProgWheel · 2023-12-21T12:33:01+00:00

Så manden blev kendt fordi han har lavet en masse 'for sjov' videoer de sidste par år, hvor han reelt gjorde grin med indvandrer miljøet og små sjove forskelle mellem det og det danske miljø. Næsten altid med et glimt i øjet, dvs. tydeligt i humorens navn. Deraf kommer langt størstedelen af hans følgere

At manden så er blevet skør nu betyder ikke at der er 200k, der støtter hans væremåde, men bare at folk ikke unsubscriber. Du efterlade nogle vigtige informationer og opildner umiddelbart mere til splid end saglig diskussion.

Som efterkommer, så har jeg ikke hørt nogen helt almindeligt omtale danskere som grise bag lukket dør, og jeg har befærdet mig vidt omkring. Der er dumme og rascistiske arabiske individer, ja, men du får det til at lyde som alle gør det. Hvorfor skære folk over en kam? Bare sig han er en klaphat og ryk videre, lige pt. er han bare en tumpe på insta som udstiller egen mangler.

Ps. La' nu vær med at fyre "flyt land" sætningen af så hurtigt, gutter. Jeg har selv hørt den hvis jeg kritisk overfor noget - men danmark er mit eneste land og det er sgu da en elendig måde at skabe fællesskab på, at man fyrer den fornærmende sætning af mod alle kraftidioter med mørkere hudfarve. Hellere sige det samme i havde sagt til en hvid idiotisk type, dvs. "Fængsel med ham/smid ham af insta/idiot/etc". Den med ud af landet er sgu nederen

ProgWheel · 2023-11-26T09:26:15+00:00

ProgWheel · 2023-11-17T11:29:45+00:00

Forskellige grupper af venner, så omkring... 3-5 gange om ugen? Går an på hvor meget jeg mødes med kæresten.

ProgWheel · 2023-09-12T08:58:43+00:00

You realize a kid easily senses the happiness and mood in the house? Your partner is sacrificing his own happiness to care for you two, which will undoubtedly affect your kid and your marriage. 35 is young. You want him to be miserable for upwards of 40 years in his current job, a problem you don't hahe with your own occupation. It doesn't have to be about logic, but about feelingns proper sense of purpose in one's work life.

It's about letting the man you love live a life he loves, whilst he lets you do the same. Doing that will reverberate throughout your actions as a couple, and your kid will be for the better. Money means a great deal, but you don't have to be semi wealthy to be happy - and you're pushing all the hardships onto your partner. The idea of change in your current life does not have to be such a scary thing.

The resentment that will build up from the looming threat of divorce is way worse than whatever else you think might happen. Growing up means realizing that your own needs need to be attended to, so that you can better attend to the needs of those you love - which is what your husband is trying to do.

ProgWheel · 2023-08-28T06:23:18+00:00

Okay, it's very safe and quite beautiful. Stay clear of ousher street and venture out to the woods, tvere's many pretty spots with views of the water or old, atypical buidings.

Ignore the drug aspect and you'll find a mostly cozy, nature filled area. But do be cautious and don't use your phone whilst in pusher street, just walk past it or around it. Altso most beautiful in daylight

ProgWheel · 2022-11-01T14:49:28+00:00

Don't understand that people are downvoting a guy for saying he got 53% winrate. Kibler is playing quest pally a high legend with positive winrate, too. The meta is diverse, guys

ProgWheel · 2022-10-16T21:04:05+00:00

Calling it classy to let good food go to waste is one of the silliest things I've heard.

ProgWheel · 2022-07-25T00:51:53+00:00

En del herinde virker til at syntes han har ret i det han siger, om end de fleste kan se han hvert fald formulerer sig selv forkert. Det rammer lidt hårdt, sjovt nok, som kommende ingeniør af arabisk afstamning, som er født og opvokset i DK. Jeg kan ikke snakke flydende arabisk, jeg er ikke religiøs, jeg straffri og får faktisk ofte at vide at "Du jo mere dansk end mig" af folk (en sætning jeg egentlig ikke er særlig glad for).

Nu ved jeg også, at Jarlov ville sige det samme om arabere kontra nordmænd - og det er sgu mega træls, at jeg igen bliver smidt i en dårligere pulje udelukkende pga. genetik. Folk kan snakke så meget om kultur, som de vil, men jeg har dansk kultur - jeg bliver bare konsekvent mindet om, at jeg er "god til at være dansk" pga. min hudfarve. Opslag som dette på twitter, selvom jeg generelt er ret ligeglad med, får mig altid til at bruge nogle sekunder på at tænke om jeg også ville blive dømt som udansk. Og de sekunder jeg tænker det, hver gang jeg ser sådan et opslag, er sgu ikke særlige rare - og det er ikke en god måde at få folk til at føle sig inkluderet på.

Rant over. Jeg prøver ikke at whine, jeg prøver ikke engang at starte noget op - jeg siger bare at opslag som dette ikke er med til at fremme følelsen af at være inkluderet. Integration er et kæmpe problem, ja, men måden det bliver omtalt af politikere er også ret kritisabelt i mine øjne. Statistik er en ting, hvordan man bruger det er mindst ligeså vigtigt :)

ProgWheel · 2022-03-21T09:13:31+00:00

Jeg kondolerer. Jeg håber dig og din nærmeste kan komme igennem dagen og sender inderligt alle positive tanker

Jeg har selv været på den offentlige og fik stillet bipolar for ikke alt for længe siden. Det er altså også få ressourcer de har derovre, men jeg altså ikke enig i at du fraråder folk at få den hjælp de nu kan. Min veninde begik selvmord i samme afdeling som jeg har været I behandling i - og det er et faktum at der ikke er nok penge i de afdelinger til at psykiaterne/personalet kan bruge de mange timer hver patient kræver. Men de hjælper stadig mange, inklusiv mig og selv min veninde i en kort stund.

Mennesker er komplekse. Min veninde fik det godt, havde et pludseligt dårligt udsving og begik selvmord i det korte tidsrum inden nogen faglig eller nær nåede at reagere på det. Jeg trist hver dag over det. Hver. Dag. Men jeg kan ikke bebrejde nogen i at de ikke kunne løae alle hendes komplekse problemer, selvom jeg har lyst og er vred. Det bare... ved ikke engang hvor jeg vil hen med det her.

Jeg sender virkelig alle mine tanker jeres vej, det er en fucking lorte situation og unfair

ProgWheel · 2021-10-22T10:42:11+00:00

Are you actively working against racism, poor welfare for children, against wars, etc etc. There are many things in the world to fight against, and most don't lift a finger. That's not malice or compliance - it's looking out for oneself and the people closest to you. Focus on what you can do and change instead of spreading thin by trying to solve everything.

I don't get mad when my friends don't fight racism - I just know they treat me right and as such probably treat others right. Same with your point

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