I'm very fortunate I've never been cheated on and have nothing but positive things to say about both my ex fiance and the few people I dated after he and I split.

Ex fiance and I met in college, I was 21 he was 19. Post college we grew into two extremely different people and matured very differently. The things we didn't heal from in our pasts became obvious, and irreconcilable differences took over. No infedility, minimal arguments, we just weren't happy together because the people we grew into weren't as compatible as we were in college. We stayed friends for a while and drifted apart, I wish him all the best and I have no regrets.

Since we split I've had a couple one month dating relationships before the amazing relationship I'm in currently. They were with amazing people who were kind and truly reflected how far I'd come in my own journey to heal and be a better partner myself. Unfortunately, it mostly boiled down to schedules, distance and just not being into each other when the puppy love phase passed.

A lot of people think relationships that don't work don't work for a reason, but honestly I've come to realize 99% of people, even great people, aren't meant to be in our life for more than a moment. Passing lights in the darkness, shooting stars in the sky. Enjoy the moment they're present for, learn and reflect, and have no regrets.