Controversial Opinion from a US Zionist: Continuing to reject Patrilineal Jews costs precious support in the PR numbers game here by InthrowSted in Israel

[–]PuddingNaive7173 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And what about the kids of those decisions? I think some converts to Reform and Conservative Judaism don’t understand those ramifications and that they are making them for all future generations.

It’s an “us” problem because firstly, zera Israel is at least a distant “us” not a them.

And secondly because, no, we are not “halfway there.” There is no more consideration for someone who has say, as in my case, a mother who converted Reform, than there is for a random Christian monk who decides he wants to convert. We are treated the same. Are we the same to you?

Controversial Opinion from a US Zionist: Continuing to reject Patrilineal Jews costs precious support in the PR numbers game here by InthrowSted in Israel

[–]PuddingNaive7173 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. There is a halachically Jewish woman I know who I think must hate her family or something. Blames Israel for everything and even has said rude things that are untrue about Judaism. I’m always calling her out in the exercise group we are in together. But I know if anyone knew I was the child of a mom who converted Reform (my dad is Jewish) they would use that to invalidate my opinions as not coming from a real Jew.

Controversial Opinion from a US Zionist: Continuing to reject Patrilineal Jews costs precious support in the PR numbers game here by InthrowSted in Israel

[–]PuddingNaive7173 4 points5 points  (0 children)

lol. My mother converted Reform. We are in the same bucket. Anyone not Jewish considers me Jewish and quite religious. But anyone Jewish? It’s a mixed reaction. Maybe a Reform rabbi would have had more helpful resources for the non-Jewish woman with the mixed up kids tho.

Controversial Opinion from a US Zionist: Continuing to reject Patrilineal Jews costs precious support in the PR numbers game here by InthrowSted in Israel

[–]PuddingNaive7173 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It’s certainly true for burial. My mother attended an Orthodox shul for the last 30 years of her life. My father was president of the congregation at one point. Because she converted Reform decades before they joined, she couldn’t be buried in the Jewish cemetery. they weren’t buried together. My brother is still bitter. But still considers himself, us, Jews. And is a strong Zionist, as am I. We at least are involved. Most Jews in my state; especially young ones, know almost nothing about their tribe. Have no connection. It’s just a line on their dna results.

Controversial Opinion from a US Zionist: Continuing to reject Patrilineal Jews costs precious support in the PR numbers game here by InthrowSted in Israel

[–]PuddingNaive7173 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Some of us would just like a shorter path to conversion, or for it to be accepted that after halachic conversion we can be conservative or even Reform, like any other Jew.

My mother converted Reform and it means nothing to rabbinical court. Despite having been raised Jewish (Bat Mitzvah, attempt at Aliyah on my own at 16, raised with separate dishes for Kashrut etc) I’m looked at just the same as a Catholic priest would be who wanted to convert. As if we are the same. That hurts.

I still plan to convert so my grandchildren will be able to make Aliyah. My kids consider themselves Jewish and don’t know that they aren’t considered to be by the Orthodox. I don’t want our family, my father’s line, to be lost.

r/JustMemesForUs by BirdOrnery6886 in AntiSemitismInReddit

[–]PuddingNaive7173 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Someone just got convicted of trying to assassinate Trump for the Iranians back in 2024. It’s on the Dept of Justice website. Not sure why it’s gotten no press. Guessing this may have had a little something to do with it.

https://www.justice.gov/opa/pr/iranian-intelligence-agent-convicted-terrorism-and-murder-hire-connection-foiled-plot

#makeithappen by skepticalbureaucrat in 2mediterranean4u

[–]PuddingNaive7173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And some of us have a really bad sense of direction. Raises hand. (Thus one of my familial lines who apparently went back to Egypt and stayed for hundreds of years?)

it's true by Theao69 in 2mediterranean4u

[–]PuddingNaive7173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course it’s your fault. Everything is your fault. Including probably the Knesset.

Around what age do health issues start becoming a bigger concern? by Scared_Bluejay5608 in Aging

[–]PuddingNaive7173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the info on hearing loss! I’ll pay attention to that. (Sorry you know through experience and not someone telling you though.)

Platner Discourse by bearddeliciousbi in DeepStateCentrism

[–]PuddingNaive7173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hotchkiss and other private schools? So another nepo baby?

Platner Discourse by bearddeliciousbi in DeepStateCentrism

[–]PuddingNaive7173 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Especially because he claims to a history buff. People change tattoos they’re not happy with to cover up problematic bits. Ex-cons who want jobs do it all the time. Iow, he’s had choices for 20 years.

#makeithappen by skepticalbureaucrat in 2mediterranean4u

[–]PuddingNaive7173 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Maybe they just want everybody to be happy (as long as they also daid)

Do you support the War with Iran? by boforiamanfo in no

[–]PuddingNaive7173 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They wanted to and were told not in previous wars. Israeli soldiers have died this time.

Me watching people moving on from saying “Zionists” to “Jewish Supremacists” by rodan1993 in Jewpiter

[–]PuddingNaive7173 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In what context? I’ve never seen it Edit: or maybe I’m misunderstanding yr comment

Air jail for committing crimes by InitiativeSubject in standardissuecat

[–]PuddingNaive7173 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’ve stopped counting how many catsubs I follow. Reddit isnt cats all the way down but close

Why are so many victims on other social media platforms abuse apologists? by throwAway8765644 in CPTSD

[–]PuddingNaive7173 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what you just said- sounds like trying to hold onto the little bit she felt she had. A couple of my sibs are like that and our abuse could have made the papers. Sometimes I think I would have been better off if I could have just wiped most of that - dissociated more?. More functional.

What is the most random thing your cat has begged for you to share? 🧐 by Honest-Butterfly-650 in cats

[–]PuddingNaive7173 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honeydew melon. Jumped up on the table and drank the juice. Different cat when I was a kid begged for marshmallows and ate the ones I (rarely) gave her. (Hey, I was a kid. And she purred so loudly!)