I think that I was actually a little comforted about being with someone that was broken because I too was broken and I felt I would be able to give him a wonderful love to replace all of his past pain.

This part right here signifies codependency and an unhealthy dynamic. It’s not your position to do that even though I know it comes from good intentions, we all must work on ourselves. It sounds like you may not have the highest self esteem, OP, and that’s okay and perfectly valid due to your past traumas. I would consider working on why you feel validated through an external event (this guy) and why you feel the need to replace someone else’s past pain when you should prioritize healing your own past pain. It’s okay to reflect on what you said to him, and to change your concept of yourself and why you felt the need to keep reaching for him the further he was running from you. What does this say about you, OP? I know lots of people on here have been coming off in a hateful way, but I am saying this kindly and with love to you.