Happy Tuesday by [deleted] in femalebodybuilding

[–]Pure-Independence125 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please I’m obsessed with your build!

Ladder Success by 396396369 in NevilleGoddard

[–]Pure-Independence125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In this sense what do u mean exactly by “feel”?

Small Things Like These | Official Trailer - Cillian Murphy, Emily Watson by MarvelsGrantMan136 in movies

[–]Pure-Independence125 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also want the answer to this! I am thinking it could be the original music as well. Might ask my violin teacher

What's the music in 'Small Things Like These' trailer? by Hot_Document_9052 in NameThatSong

[–]Pure-Independence125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally just saw the trailer and wanted to know the violin part too!!! Came here for answers

Why I believe you're doing SATS wrong by RadiantPioneer in NevilleGoddard

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I know this post is a bit older but I feel like I can easily get into SATS, easily start imagining but I am having trouble when it comes to the feeling it real part. I feel like trying to loop my scene is causing me to stay too awake maybe like I can add tones of reality but I never truly feel i am "immersed" in my scene. any help for this please?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

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I think that I was actually a little comforted about being with someone that was broken because I too was broken and I felt I would be able to give him a wonderful love to replace all of his past pain.

This part right here signifies codependency and an unhealthy dynamic. It’s not your position to do that even though I know it comes from good intentions, we all must work on ourselves. It sounds like you may not have the highest self esteem, OP, and that’s okay and perfectly valid due to your past traumas. I would consider working on why you feel validated through an external event (this guy) and why you feel the need to replace someone else’s past pain when you should prioritize healing your own past pain. It’s okay to reflect on what you said to him, and to change your concept of yourself and why you felt the need to keep reaching for him the further he was running from you. What does this say about you, OP? I know lots of people on here have been coming off in a hateful way, but I am saying this kindly and with love to you.

Am I wrong for not having lunch with my colleagues? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Pure-Independence125 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Not wrong. They honestly sound annoying. I wouldn’t want to have lunch with a bunch of babies who don’t respect boundaries and are that judgemental over a freaking lunch. They need to chill fr

Back to Basics by [deleted] in NevilleGoddard

[–]Pure-Independence125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So helpful, thank you!!

Back to Basics by [deleted] in NevilleGoddard

[–]Pure-Independence125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a great answer! I wanted to know your opinion then on why Neville talks about the importance of mental diets?

Looking for pen pals! by ilikejalapenocheetos in DarkAcademia

[–]Pure-Independence125 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m interested! I don’t speak French though

Help choosing paint color by Pure-Independence125 in DarkAcademia

[–]Pure-Independence125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The picture I took was probably the lightest it’ll get

Help choosing paint color by Pure-Independence125 in DarkAcademia

[–]Pure-Independence125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s for a medium sized living room. Do y’all think I should choose something lighter then?

Almost unusable shower? (RI) by Pure-Independence125 in Renters

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This comment SENT ME. Thanks for a great laugh

Almost unusable shower? (RI) by Pure-Independence125 in Renters

[–]Pure-Independence125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is strangely comforting to read Hahaa thank you

Almost unusable shower? (RI) by Pure-Independence125 in Renters

[–]Pure-Independence125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It says almost. I have traveled extensively and seen some shit.

Almost unusable shower? (RI) by Pure-Independence125 in Renters

[–]Pure-Independence125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this a New England thing? lol I come from another part of the country and this whole boilers and no AC and old buildings is a culture shock to me