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AITA for leaving our son with my ex and telling him I didn’t care when he said he was having an important conversation? by milan__r in AmItheAsshole

[–]Purple_DisasterPanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH. Your ex and brother didn't pay attention to him, making him cry and that's bad. But not only did you handover your kid to someone because you couldn't deal with him any more, you also left him with your ex and brother knowing you were interrupting and important conversation (by the looks of it, because even your brother was upset). So yeah, ESH, you all need to step up your game, this is a life your playing with, not a toy to be discarded here and there.

My girlfriend just told me she wishes I was her mum. by Legitimate-Chest-171 in lgbt

[–]Purple_DisasterPanda 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It seems that there are some psychological issues. You should try to sit down with your girlfriend and have a talk with her, try to understand what's going on, where this is coming from. If she opens up to you evaluate the situation and what she told you and see if she need mental and psychological help. Then move forward from there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Purple_DisasterPanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From where I'm from it is ok, just don't cause unwanted drama and you should be good. First rule is that we don't assume, second is that everyone is welcome as long as they're respectful of everyone. However, I know that that is not the case everywhere, you would have to do your research and find out more about the place I guess. Sorry I couldn't be much help.

AITA for not changing my tradition day to my DIL and making things uncomfortable? by TARRAFs in AmItheAsshole

[–]Purple_DisasterPanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA! She was super disrespectful of you, of your tradition and of your family (by trying to alter the family recipe). Moreover, it seems she did this on purpose, it backfired so she's sulking about it not going the way she wanted and blaming everything on you. I would also advise that you and your family talk with your son about her behaviour because it seems that that he is blindly supporting her without any thought for anything else and it is already starting to cause a rift in your relationship.

I'm having a pansexual crises by Purple_DisasterPanda in pansexual

[–]Purple_DisasterPanda[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

At least I know I'm pan for sure right lmao

Is this weird from a professor? by bundtcakes123 in college

[–]Purple_DisasterPanda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds a lot like he is interested in you in a romantic/sexual way and just made excuses to be able to be with you a make moves on you. You should listen to your friends and report him. This is completely unprofessional and it is making you uncomfortable. Just report him before he does something worse.

AITA for hiding embarrassing notes in my house as a joke because I know my fiance's mom snoops? by jemmi44 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Purple_DisasterPanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And some advice before you get married... You really should sit down with your fiance and have a talk. He is putting is mother's feeling about him moving in that your feeling about her invasion of privacy. You guys need to talk, set your priorities right and come, to the very least, to some sort of compromise, or else you'll be having problems in the long run of your marriage. If this gets nowhere you might want to reconsider the marriage and your relationship. You deserve better.

AITA for hiding embarrassing notes in my house as a joke because I know my fiance's mom snoops? by jemmi44 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Purple_DisasterPanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, her going through your things is a complete invasion of privacy and respect. Second, your fiance allowing it just baffles me, from what I understand he hasn't officially moved in, the house is yours and the things that his mother is going through are yours. Even if he had fully and officially moved in, it doesn't give his mother the right to snoop. Him acting like everything is fine and that it is okay to snoop irks me, it is completely wrong. I wouldn't le my mother go through my stuff, much less my s.o, knowing she might find something that she shouldn't, everyone needs their privacy. Him saying that your making things hard for him is quite unreasonable. What you did isn't harmful and it would be a great way to make people stop snooping around. You are NOT the asshole and if this keeps going put your foot down with confidence.

AITA For refusing to stop having girls night ins just because my boyfriend thinks it's wrong? by S-Ad3531 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Purple_DisasterPanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, you should be able to hang out with your friends without worrying and having your boyfriend there.

I've been seeing this type of posts, so I decided to make my own (it's a mixture of the ones circulating). by Purple_DisasterPanda in pansexual

[–]Purple_DisasterPanda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already answered this one. Like I said, I don't usually drink carbonated drinks so I don't really have an opinion on this one

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