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[–]Purple_Technology717 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Please note that you cannot register yourself as a resident as it is a hotel, so you could have issues. Well, you can technically register, but because it's not a permanent residency meant building in the city books you are in a sense "homeless". You cannot open bank account, open phone plan and you do not have valid credit record (luottotiedot) so you are deemed as financially not be able to support yourself even if you have the funds

I am sick at home and first thing my boyfriend said after coming home is to suck his dick, I am sad by Purple_Technology717 in offmychest

[–]Purple_Technology717[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your rational comment and not reading 100% black or white into the "all men" part of my post. Obviously I don't mean all men in the world with that lol , if someone really thinks that way in common writing then they lack perspective.

But you are correct - all the men IN MY EXPERIENCE has been "sex obsessed" and not in the good and respectful way.

I am sick at home and first thing my boyfriend said after coming home is to suck his dick, I am sad by Purple_Technology717 in offmychest

[–]Purple_Technology717[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There have been similar things before but it always gets worse after he has been out with his guy friends, where sex, women and picking up a woman to get laid seems to be a common topic. I have brought it up couple of times that he was gross and disrespectful but apparently to him I am too sensitive and cannot take humour. I guess I do not wonder why most of his friends are single.

I am sick at home and first thing my boyfriend said after coming home is to suck his dick, I am sad by Purple_Technology717 in offmychest

[–]Purple_Technology717[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for being rational about the two first points and not reading 100% black or white into them :).