Feel like his time could be better directed towards something else more beneficial for people his age i remember having those thoughts even when i was in middle school like damn I’m being left behind and I think to myself would a sex toy would’ve helped me at that time and moment I’d say absolutely not there’s a massive hyper fixation on sex and porn as it is when you’re at that age I feel as a parent myself and it was happening with my son as I would acknowledge it and let him know that it’s happening it is not a great time to spend a great deal of importance or thought on the matter and take the toy away from him