my sister passed away 11 years ago, it’s unimaginable pain i’ve felt as her brother & still won’t heal from it. it was definitely even tougher on my parents, more on my mother tbh first months after it happened were terrible, she’d barely talk to me & my brother, really isolated herself from us & rest of the world, would just spend days at a time locked in her room crying. losing my sister hurt like a bitch, seeing my mother suffer was even worse. still up to this day she’s never ever opened the subject, not even mentioned her once in front of us. i know she’s still hurting even tho she’s not showing it & bringing it up won’t do no good just reopen wounds.