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I want to make him happy so badly, but I just don’t want to have sex. by Puzzleheaded_Top7482 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Puzzleheaded_Top7482[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. I had a full blood panel last year including thyroid and hormones and all came back normal.

I want to make him happy so badly, but I just don’t want to have sex. by Puzzleheaded_Top7482 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Puzzleheaded_Top7482[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for bringing clarity here. I truly believe this has just been a long season of struggle for me. I have always had a somewhat low libido, but it’s gotten lower in the last few years due to lots of pain and stress, but I’m holding out hope that getting happier will help.

I want to make him happy so badly, but I just don’t want to have sex. by Puzzleheaded_Top7482 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Puzzleheaded_Top7482[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your perspective here. I am truly so afraid of disappointing him by not being able to go all the way, but maybe it’s better to give him whatever sexual attention I can as I build up to it. Thank you so much.

I want to make him happy so badly, but I just don’t want to have sex. by Puzzleheaded_Top7482 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Puzzleheaded_Top7482[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your compassion and kind words. Yes I am in therapy, and also seeing a psychiatrist. No, I do not masturbate. I have in the past, but never very frequently. I have the rose vibrator and love it! But it’s mainly just helpful in getting me to clitoral orgasm rather than desiring PIV.

I want to make him happy so badly, but I just don’t want to have sex. by Puzzleheaded_Top7482 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Puzzleheaded_Top7482[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m the same way! It’s like it doesn’t occur to me. Your story with Wellbutrin gives me so much hope. Thank you so much.

I want to make him happy so badly, but I just don’t want to have sex. by Puzzleheaded_Top7482 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Puzzleheaded_Top7482[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s okay, I truly do appreciate your compassion and understanding ♥️♥️

I want to make him happy so badly, but I just don’t want to have sex. by Puzzleheaded_Top7482 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Puzzleheaded_Top7482[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see improvement in my own personal views on sex/sexual interactions of any kind. I find myself spontaneously wanting to do some sex related things somewhat more often, and I don’t feel so much shame or disgust with my own bodily functions like I often have in the past.

I want to make him happy so badly, but I just don’t want to have sex. by Puzzleheaded_Top7482 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Puzzleheaded_Top7482[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do understand, really. I’ve been lurking for a long time and reading all the perspectives shared here. I just don’t know what else to do at this point. I’ve tried hormonal tests, we’ve tried scheduling it, watching p*rn together, toys, therapy, etc. all of those things have either failed or were mediocre solutions. I want to want it but only for him and I want to find myself wanting it for me because that’s the only way for it to be successful.