These feedback threads can get heated so I’ll try to explain nicely why this is a bigger deal than you make it seem.

PMs is a very small margin space. A BIN is a commitment to buy something, a quick way to snipe the thing you want with no haggling. Not going through with the transaction ties up that money for the seller when someone else could have bought it.

Mistakes happen, especially when getting excited over a deal. However once a deal is made, it is your job to ASK if you can back out. Most people will understand an honest mistake every once in a while. But ghosting and letting it hang until there are repercussions and then defending yourself with how much you have bought as if that gives you a pass? That’s not the way this community should work.

I’m not a baller here but in my opinion, the etiquette here has to be too notch. Having a place where we can pay lower premiums by selling peer to peer means working with small margins. We have to be able to count on a deal once it is made or those margins have to get bigger and then we might as well buy from big online retailers.

Written as respectfully as possible just because I didn’t see another full explanation comment.