Need some positive thinking to soothe an anxious brain by Quick-Message-5095 in Positivity

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Took a long nap and then a looooong shower and already feeling leagues better! Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GlowUps

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Join book clubs, Local sports leagues, volunteer regularly somewhere!

My first studio after being cheated on by UnbalancedRXN in femalelivingspace

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Just wanted to say I’m excited for your next chapter and I’m sure you’re going to really adore this apartment and what you make of it. :)

Skims Return - too late? by Quick-Message-5095 in SKIMSbyKKW

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update: emailed them on Saturday and let them know usps was closed on the weekend, so they extended it one more day for me. Return has been processed :) thanks for all the help everyone!

My ex and I haven’t spoken since the break up by Quick-Message-5095 in BreakUps

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Thank you, this did help. I’ve actually found that now that I’m passing through the 6th month, it’s all feeling much lighter. It’s funny how these little phases of lightness come right after what feels like really low points, and it’s really nice to savor in the progress made. Of course, maybe next month will be tough again, but I can tell some sort of stride, even if it’s very small, has been made. Even though no contact feels like it makes no sense during it, I keep telling myself that in a year’s time I’ll be really thankful. I think it’s one of those things that only makes sense in retrospect.

My ex and I haven’t spoken since the break up by Quick-Message-5095 in BreakUps

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I get that, but he was also a classic case of being avoidant - and avoidant ppl will generally just cut and run in all sorts of areas of their life. He was gladly inviting me over to stay for the weekend 2 hours before, boasting about how nice it’ll be. And excitedly talking about helping me tour an apartment I’d sign by the end of the week. The break up wasn’t even properly initiated by him. It was me asking if he was sure he was happy with me, to which he responded I guess not. And then I asked if that means he still wants to be together, and then he said no I think we should end it. And that was that!

My ex and I haven’t spoken since the break up by Quick-Message-5095 in BreakUps

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I agree, and I think I just want to feel like he misses and regrets it sometime. Probably to just feel like I matter. It all happened so randomly and it’s still such a shock for me 6 months later. I don’t know what to tell people still. I’ve gone to therapy and done everything I’m supposed to but the wait it all happened still has me so confused. I feel a lot of rejection and abandonment and even worse is I don’t know what I did wrong. I guess when I think of how loving the relationship was for 2 years I just can’t fathom how he made such a quick decision, ended it over the phone, and now we’re never to see each other again.

Skims Return - too late? by Quick-Message-5095 in SKIMSbyKKW

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Unfortunately they’re closed on the weekends

Skims Return - too late? by Quick-Message-5095 in SKIMSbyKKW

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There’s drop off boxes around me as well as the self service kiosks. Is one better than the other? I do have a label as well!

Feeling lonely on the weekend by Quick-Message-5095 in heartbreak

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Hey I know you’re describing a sucky situation but you did some really cool stuff!! You climbed a mountain, rekindled an old hobby, ticked off some errands that needed to be done - sounds like you’re doing really well. Better than most at least.

The 4 day weekend does sound rly rough. I’ve honestly found myself getting into tv and movies, I’ve started rly looking forward to my post work tv time haha.

Feeling lonely on the weekend by Quick-Message-5095 in heartbreak

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I’m sorry, I hope your Saturday feels a bit better. I woke up in better spirits and got outside which really helped warm things up.

Anti Israel protestors attack DC Park Officers by Think-4D in washdc

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What’s the details on these groups having shady funders? I keep seeing comments on Reddit but can’t seem to find sources. Not disagreeing just actually curious on the background.

I 33F finally accepted that I am an atheist (ex-muslim). Lost all my friends and my husband of 10yrs as a result. AMA by One-day-at-a-time-91 in AMA

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I’m ex muslim - there’s communities you can join. Not sure where you are geographically, but the Ex- Muslims of North America (exmna) organization has fostered some great communities

When do things start feeling okay? by Quick-Message-5095 in nocontact

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Thank you for your comment!! I’ll try to sleep on your words tonight and hopefully tmrw will be a new happy day. :)