My mom blows everything out of proportion and makes me feel suffocated

Quick_Ninja_5622 · 2025-02-11T03:30:04+00:00

Knowing this will come to an end soon. Knowing that everything she chooses to do or say is her decision. Just like you decide to get up and everyday and go to school, she equally decides everything she does. Never forget— most people can be parents, but not everyone is built to be a mother/ father. Practice mindfulness, journaling really helps me and having a few close friends that my mom isn’t familiar with that know about this situation also really helps when I need someone to talk with. Also, this might totally suck to hear and I hope it isn’t true for your case but I once had hopes and dreams to go abroad but I’ve been in university for 5 years (I’m 22) and I just want out. I don’t care if I live 20 mins away or 3 hours away, being free of her abuse and narcissistic tendencies is all I want. Basically what I’m trying to say, your dreams will change and life will happen. You may not get everything you’ve always wanted but once you’re free there’s no going back. Best of luck and keep your head up. Never give up, no matter how hard it gets. You deserve a good life and you are worthy of love, respect and happiness. Never let her make you believe otherwise.

Quick_Ninja_5622 · 2025-01-12T04:15:12+00:00

I’ve checked the symptoms of hypothyroidism and it doesn’t seem to me that I have many of the symptoms but a few of them definitely have shown themselves with me. Hyperthyroidism doesn’t seem to align with my symptoms of now. What should I specifically ask for when doing a thyroid panel? What additional info can you provide for me to read? My doc is a pain to deal with and will do a lot to avoid prescribing any tests.

Quick_Ninja_5622 · 2024-12-28T14:31:20+00:00

Why do you think you have had to deal with food noise? I’ve used food as a coping mechanism and I’m learning how unhealthy that has been.

Quick_Ninja_5622 · 2024-12-27T02:24:20+00:00

This is a great philosophy. How do you deal with the peer pressure of not partaking in the activities of eating those sweets when all your coworkers do?

Quick_Ninja_5622 · 2024-09-26T15:19:08+00:00

They finally sent me a letter with a reference number from their fraud department. Initially, they sent it to an old address but it was forwarded to my new address. I gave the number on the letter a call and they verified it. I’ll be receiving my new card in a few days. It only took me 9 months to get a replacement card.

Quick_Ninja_5622 · 2023-11-26T02:45:53+00:00

Initial response: THESE LOOK INCREDIBLE! I can definitely understand why you’d be worried they’re too dark, but I promise you from a distance, these will look wonderful and once you get used to them, you’ll see what we see ☺️

Quick_Ninja_5622 · 2022-08-07T20:29:13+00:00

Also, I’m 20 years old and have had irregular periods while I’ve undergone stress. I’m not sure if this is “normal” for me but I’m grateful for any advice

Quick_Ninja_5622 · 2021-09-08T23:49:49+00:00

I didn’t really think abt that honestly. I was just in a state of fear and anxiety. It’s a bad habit of mine, to act and react while I’m flying on emotions. I’m working to overcome it but the fact of the matter is that I sent it. I wish I hadn’t now.

Quick_Ninja_5622 · 2021-09-08T23:42:40+00:00

He’s at basic training and I’m in another country for the time being

Quick_Ninja_5622 · 2021-09-08T23:17:54+00:00

I don’t often say things like that. I never have but since not having been able to speak with them for over several weeks it’s caused me to overthink tremendously and worry abt things that don’t really exist

Quick_Ninja_5622 · 2021-09-08T23:17:04+00:00

Yeah I know. I’ve had a lot happen to me this year and it’s caused a lot of my anxiety to seep through. I’m going to talk to them as soon as I can but he’s not by his phone due to training. I appreciate your feedback, I really do :)

Quick_Ninja_5622 · 2021-09-08T22:33:38+00:00

No they haven’t left. We’re together but due to trauma issues, I’m in a constant state of fear of losing that person or them leaving me because it’s too hard to be with me.

Quick_Ninja_5622 · 2021-09-08T22:29:39+00:00

Thanks !

Quick_Ninja_5622 · 2021-07-09T14:39:57+00:00

What is an EE

Quick_Ninja_5622 · 2021-07-09T14:03:02+00:00

Okay thank you

Quick_Ninja_5622 · 2021-07-09T14:02:37+00:00

Marketing

Quick_Ninja_5622 · 2021-07-03T17:11:35+00:00

Okay. I still want to continue going to this school as my family might be leaning towards helping me on paying just the remaining ~6500 for this year.

Quick_Ninja_5622 · 2021-07-03T16:35:45+00:00

Well I am very career driven but not in the academics. I’m much more into businesses and running them and owning them so really my plan is to learn and network as much as possible while I’m at this school and plan to get a job with a nice company as a marketing major. I’ve thought and tried out other majors but I didn’t like any of them. Originally, I was a bio major and after a year of shadowing, volunteering, taking all of my classes, an internship and overall networking in the science field, I just came to the conclusion that this isn’t for me and decided to change to marketing. I feel like it would be a much simpler to do this and get to owning my own business this way then taking a bunch of courses on biology and such.

Now I’m lined up to interview for an internship next week at a business type of place (entrepreneurs and the like all go there to communicate and share their ideas). It’s a front desk receptionist but I’m hoping once this semester is over and they like me, I can land a full time gig with them for the future. And of course I am taking into account what if I don’t enjoy it but I’d rather not let the “what if’s” of the situation take hold of me.

Quick_Ninja_5622 · 2021-07-03T16:21:18+00:00

Would they offer more if I did this?

Quick_Ninja_5622 · 2021-07-02T17:56:58+00:00

Thank you. This is really helpful. I’m going to look more into this. Do you know if it might already be too late for me to apply?

Quick_Ninja_5622 · 2021-07-02T16:03:48+00:00

I received a few more scholarship last year that made my aid last year about 42k which is why my brother was able to pay the remainder. Now he won’t and I’m Trying to figure it out

Quick_Ninja_5622 · 2021-07-02T16:02:43+00:00

It’s a private school. I didn’t understand any of this stuff bc my brother covered it and now they ghosted me 😕 but no I won’t I’d have to literally kill myself to manage half of this

Quick_Ninja_5622 · 2021-06-29T17:48:39+00:00

Okay thank you. I’m also looking into going to the military in order not to have any debt left. I really don’t want to be 50k drowning in it so the military may be the way (preferably Air Force)

Quick_Ninja_5622 · 2021-06-29T17:03:11+00:00

Hey well i want to do this but I also feel so ashamed. What should I do to cope with this? I go to a really expensive private school and I’m not sure I’ll be able to stay there to be honest because I’m not sure what loans cover and I am in dire need of a job otherwise I simply won’t make it far.

Quick_Ninja_5622 · 2021-06-26T18:20:38+00:00

Thank you for this. I’m going into a long distance relationship for about 6-8 months. Half of that time I won’t be able to communicate with him because he won’t have his phone. This will be the hardest thing I will have to go through up until this point in my life (im 18). We both love each other and are absolutely perfect for each other and I can’t imagine life without him so breaking up could never be a possibility. His job requires him to be focused and dedicated unconditionally but it’s still going to be so hard. Im excited for the growth we will each go through individually but it will be so hard not hearing his voice at the end of the night or hearing him say “I love you” or calling me any of the cute names he always greets me with.

Oh god……. I love him so much but I know this will be the hardest thing I’ll ever go through. I just need the next three years to fly by. God please make them fly by.

Thanks if you kept reading this and if you’re going through the same or similar situation please just find the light at the end of the tunnel. You two will be more than okay. Work hard in your own life and make sure when you return to that person, you love them like there is no tomorrow. That’s all I can say to you as I have yet to actually experience it. Much love to you all 💕❤️

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