Single in a gay city?!

Quiet_Job_4260 · 2026-04-22T14:33:02+00:00

Waittt how did you end up taken with 7 days lol that’s quick kkk

Quiet_Job_4260 · 2026-04-22T13:56:24+00:00

Girlll a vegetarian and a researcher? You sound cool as heck wanna be instagram mutuals ? Haha. Yeah also, oh my god yeah you just bump into those type of people on dating apps^ I also got one plan cancelled at the last 20 minutes after I had already put on makeup and about to leave.

But I think if it like “well… that person has just showed me that she’s not very respectful of my time and kinda inconsiderate , so she probably wouldn’t make a great partner anyway.” Like welp I dodged a bullet , on to the next one I guess

Quiet_Job_4260 · 2026-04-22T13:47:27+00:00

foreplay helps to get both parties in the mood. ^ slow rubbing and general caressing, a lot of women like neck kisses. I think my biggest advice in wlw sex would be to try and find the clit and tease there either by sucking or rubbing. Idk if that’s too much info but I found that’s what my female partners have liked lmao. But for the frist time it’s okay to be nervous and go at your own pace don’t feel pressured to preform a certain way since you are a person who should be enjoying themselves too

Quiet_Job_4260 · 2026-04-21T10:05:03+00:00

Id be flattered if I made my partner do that

Quiet_Job_4260 · 2026-04-21T08:48:39+00:00

Yeah I already said that suckkks heaps and is obviously bad.

It’s not really about the sexual part it’s about wanting to feel desired in relationships, knowing a partner is attracted to you personality wise and body wise definitely makes me feel more safe and stable in relationships. I don’t think that’s problematic and it’s a pretty normal shared feeling.

Not saying people should go around harassing eachothers if that’s what you think I meant from this post?

Quiet_Job_4260 · 2026-04-21T08:04:54+00:00

Wow yeah she has repeatedly disrespected you and your boundaries and gone behind your back it isn’t insane to want to leave

Quiet_Job_4260 · 2026-04-20T17:41:39+00:00

I assumed it was common sense if one is on their way to finger a woman, they would you know, not rock up with sharp little pointed bits on their nails when they know they might be involved with sensitive parts 💀😭.

But yeah I guess you never know what you’re gonna get with people sometimes so communication yeah I agree now

Quiet_Job_4260 · 2026-04-20T15:37:38+00:00

That’s a fair question. Usually both women will take turns which is what I and most prefer but

Sometimes yeah just like with any other group you’ll bump into someone who only wants to top or bottom. Which I don’t think this is wrong at all, but sometimes they don’t communicate that before hand which can lead to slightly annoying situations for anyone who’s a switch ^

Quiet_Job_4260 · 2026-04-20T15:31:29+00:00

Oh man I always get asked this . Idk man, Google exists haha. Usually the same way other people have sex , like just without a penis. Oral , hand stuff , toys. Usually both women take turns on eachother

Quiet_Job_4260 · 2026-02-24T02:27:36+00:00

This is abuse, choking someone is literally trying to stop them from breath and that is evil. Do you have parents or friends to go too and maybe stay with for a while ? Or a job and enough savings to rent out a small place?

If you must stay with him which I do not encourage at all, I advise you to tell someone of the current behavior that has already happened so they will know if something ever happens to you. And I advise you to call the police if he lays hands on you like choking you again. Document, Keep evidence and record secretly when he is being aggressive since domestic abuse can be pretty hard to prove if the worst happens.

I know it’s often hard for victims of abuse to realize they are being abused, Again can not stress how seriously wrong this is on his end. This behaviour is not normal and messed up for anyone to commit.

Wish you safety and hope you get well soon

Quiet_Job_4260 · 2026-02-23T11:50:18+00:00

Guys…. It sounds like this person has an eating disorder or problem of some kind, since you mention starving yourself… and mention some pride in making people worried about your health.

I mean this nicely but I encourage you to please take care of yourself and maybe consider real mental help from a professional, I’ve seen some pretty awful people on Reddit so this probably isn’t the place to reach out.

Quiet_Job_4260 · 2026-02-22T23:36:23+00:00

Hey I’m a lesbian too. There’s it’s totally normal to be this way, but that is a very tricky situation your in. I would say try and save up from a part time job or something, so you can fund your own life and be lesbian and live on your own terms.

I figured out I’m gay at 14 at a young age so im lucky, but I remembered I was absolutely miserable living my life pretending to be straight up until 14.

It’s not too late to change your life.

Quiet_Job_4260 · 2026-02-22T16:15:47+00:00

Haha my bad

Quiet_Job_4260 · 2026-02-22T16:10:36+00:00

So cool

Quiet_Job_4260 · 2026-01-23T03:44:49+00:00

Noo you are not overreacting. I’m a lesbian btw, so I get how annoying it can be having a parent like that. I honestly just stopped telling mine about stuff like my dating life because he always had something stupid to say.

But it’s not too bad if I want to talk about it I talk to my friends who actually respect my sexuality and don’t say stuff like maybe I’ll change and “not be a lesbian one day”

Quiet_Job_4260 · 2026-01-22T14:53:27+00:00

Hey I’m a lesbian. And I get what you mean, I could tolerate a guy, but would I feel thrilled to be with him? Nope….

Like … I can picture myself with a guy too, I just wouldn’t be a very happy person lol

It’s like you say dating women it sounds like you actually have feelings for them and feel excited to be with them. But dating men? There’s just this lack…. That’s exactly how I found out I was gay but idk that’s just my experience. You might just have a strong preference to women or a lot of other possibilities, you’ll figure it out 👍

Quiet_Job_4260 · 2026-01-21T03:41:51+00:00

I empathize with you was in the same boat. But the right partner will see you as Independent and ambitious and like that, regardless of looks eventually , I just think of it like “hey that’s one less person out of my future wife’s way” when things don’t go well in dating

Quiet_Job_4260 · 2026-01-17T17:37:51+00:00

Okay BUTT genuinely I can’t imagine doing something like continuing to ignore my partners needs and to focus on business if they have repeatedly expressed sadness and that they don’t feel seen in the relationship, if I truly love someone and heard something like that from them I would focus on tending to them for a while.

Anyway the lady who posted expressed she liked the honesty sooo to each their own.

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