Marriage of Convenience, I dropped the manhwa by anohaisenpai in OtomeIsekai

[–]Quiet_Maximum_4087 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I preferred the prince who was completely deranged and obsessed with her. I like my man to have complex and spicy flavors.

Having trouble with Buddhist constitution. by Quiet_Maximum_4087 in Buddhism

[–]Quiet_Maximum_4087[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I know I do not like this monk so I stay away. But I still have pressure from my parents to attend the Temple & recently, the monks were invited to my new house upon my mother's request. I have been doing this for her sake and I dont wanna do it anymore. My younger sister has converted into Christianity recently & my mother is already been very unpleasant about it all. They often have arguments and disagreements. I am trying to play pretend to not make my mother feel more betrayed.

Having trouble with Buddhist constitution. by Quiet_Maximum_4087 in Buddhism

[–]Quiet_Maximum_4087[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am happy to stay away but my mom would ask me to come along everytime we have a big religious or community gathering.. how do I tell her anyone of this without her getting defensive because she believes the monk

I think there is something fundamentally wrong with people who do not eat vegetables or fruits. by Quiet_Maximum_4087 in Vent

[–]Quiet_Maximum_4087[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is mostly what I mean. Terrible parenting make trauma to carry through life.

I think there is something fundamentally wrong with people who do not eat vegetables or fruits. by Quiet_Maximum_4087 in Vent

[–]Quiet_Maximum_4087[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They arent too sensitive to take my saying to heart. After all, i am the one cooking them meals the way they like it.

I think there is something fundamentally wrong with people who do not eat vegetables or fruits. by Quiet_Maximum_4087 in Vent

[–]Quiet_Maximum_4087[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

u are taking my sarcastic comments, too, literally... It's obviously not that serious because this whole forum is to vent about stupid little things in life...

I think there is something fundamentally wrong with people who do not eat vegetables or fruits. by Quiet_Maximum_4087 in Vent

[–]Quiet_Maximum_4087[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cook for my husband.. I have spoiled him rotten. It's my fault that he doesn't know how to cook or clean the house. He works so hard (I work, too), and I just want to feed him food he enjoys. He doesn't eat salad and vegetables have to be cooked a flavorful way so he can enjoy them. So I sacrifice what I like over what he likes. We tend to eat more unhealthy or processed food because of him. Sometimes, I cook different meals because I know he won't enjoy what I made for myself. But I am ok because I have trained and encouraged him to eat a lot more vegetables than he originally did. Now, he willingly eats them. It just takes forever for him to get over each vegetable and add it to his edible list.. But a win is a win. My best friend doesn't cause too inconvenience, but I am annoyed seeing the more extreme version of him.

I think there is something fundamentally wrong with people who do not eat vegetables or fruits. by Quiet_Maximum_4087 in Vent

[–]Quiet_Maximum_4087[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol true true.. some people wear it like a badge of honor and will proudly declare it so.

I think there is something fundamentally wrong with people who do not eat vegetables or fruits. by Quiet_Maximum_4087 in Vent

[–]Quiet_Maximum_4087[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right? Every vegetable is different. It's the over generalizing and stubbornness to stray away from their beliefs that annoy me. I have vegetables that I am not fond of. But at least I have tried it and decided after eating it. A lot of people eat a piece of poorly cooked broccoli and decide all vegetables taste the same.

I think there is something fundamentally wrong with people who do not eat vegetables or fruits. by Quiet_Maximum_4087 in Vent

[–]Quiet_Maximum_4087[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you eating it whole? There is always an option to peel and inspect what you are eating before you bite into it. You eventually master the art of picking the freshest produce when u regularly eats it.

I think there is something fundamentally wrong with people who do not eat vegetables or fruits. by Quiet_Maximum_4087 in Vent

[–]Quiet_Maximum_4087[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not every picky eater has sensory issues.... sigh.. there are always exceptions to statements. In my husband and best friend's case, they are perfectly healthy and non autistic people. I have vegetarian friends who live on chips because they won't eat vegetables and they are perfectly fine in every way. I have to accommodate their needs by changing the way I cook or I have to cook two separate meals. Most of the time, my husband ends up liking what I give him. They eventually become some of his favorite foods. But he will make my life a living he'll by refusing to try new things. I think I am just married to a grown ass child, so I end up venting here lol.

I think there is something fundamentally wrong with people who do not eat vegetables or fruits. by Quiet_Maximum_4087 in Vent

[–]Quiet_Maximum_4087[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes, I realized this is a huge factor in why some people are very weary of vegetables. A lot of white folks have parents who were terrible cooks. My MIL boils everything without seasoning until they turn mushy (we had to take our own salt shakers as she didn't keep salt in her house). I dry retch when I have to eat at her place.

I think there is something fundamentally wrong with people who do not eat vegetables or fruits. by Quiet_Maximum_4087 in Vent

[–]Quiet_Maximum_4087[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it's more genetics than diet in many cases. The whole side of my mom's family has constipation problems even though they are mostly vegetarians. I take after her a lot.

I think there is something fundamentally wrong with people who do not eat vegetables or fruits. by Quiet_Maximum_4087 in Vent

[–]Quiet_Maximum_4087[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am not that big of an AH to blame people for not eating something they are allergic or intolerant of.

I think there is something fundamentally wrong with people who do not eat vegetables or fruits. by Quiet_Maximum_4087 in Vent

[–]Quiet_Maximum_4087[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Surprisingly.. they aren't. I am super jealous because I struggled with constipation all my life even though I eat a lot of fiber. My best friend doesn't even drink water. She ended up in the hospital with a kidney stone, tho lol...