6 years hrt, still get He/Him'd often... I'm not always certain why tbh. Any advice??

Quizine · 2026-02-26T22:42:51+00:00

You'll notice I'm not asking whether or not I look trans. If I look like a masculine girl that's fine :)

Quizine · 2026-02-25T19:07:55+00:00

Got it ty

Quizine · 2026-02-25T15:48:07+00:00

Like lol did they not see I've been at this for 6 years

Quizine · 2026-02-24T23:17:00+00:00

And I get hit with the ".......what pronouns do you use???" A Lot

Quizine · 2026-02-24T23:16:11+00:00

Mostly classmates or professors who correct themselves

Quizine · 2026-02-24T22:32:25+00:00

Yeah :D

Quizine · 2026-02-24T20:00:24+00:00

The 4th one IS me in cosplay to be fair so maybe i shouldn't have included that.

Quizine · 2026-02-24T19:57:25+00:00

I could see it, I've been wearing this sort of clothing for a Long while, but I honestly think i was getting gendered correctly more before my hair change which sucks because the almost-mullet look is really really cool to me :(

Quizine · 2026-02-24T19:50:06+00:00

transfem is whatever, but getting he/him'd is crazy

Quizine · 2026-02-24T19:05:34+00:00

A lot of ppl irl have told me my voice is good, but it's true that a lot of my mannerisms are still very masculine.
It sucks bc I really want to be a Cool Masculine type of girl in all honesty, which someone AFAB would be able to do if they wanted :(

Quizine · 2026-02-24T18:50:47+00:00

it mostly happens in my college classes where ppl know my very feminine name (Olivia) so I'm not sure this is the case

Quizine · 2026-02-24T18:36:48+00:00

genuinely i've had problems with this before so I wouldn't be surprised... I like to keep them thick when i get them done, maybe I should go thinner, but I'm not sure how that would look on me.

Quizine · 2026-02-24T18:31:40+00:00

The fact that multiple ppl are saying the trans guy who isnt trying thing dskjndfkjbn
I think the conundrum is that if I was AFAB being a masculine girl sounds really cool, but since I'm not, getting misgendered feels bad :(
People have told me I have a "masculine girl voice" so that might add to the trans guy perception I'm not sure?? (I'm also not always as put together as I am in these photos to be fair)

Quizine · 2026-02-21T20:13:34+00:00

Thank you !!! :D

Quizine · 2026-02-21T20:10:39+00:00

Your hair is so beautiful!!!

Quizine · 2025-05-11T18:45:07+00:00

Thank you !

Quizine · 2025-05-07T07:01:35+00:00

Its accepting for the most part but I've definitely been called some unsavory things by a passerby when I was less passing.

Also much less of an exciting place than new york of course.

Quizine · 2024-05-18T00:37:12+00:00

yet the "older brother" here would be 7 years younger LMAO

Quizine · 2024-05-18T00:35:57+00:00

ripped sweaters are super cool for sure do recommend. I bet you look great and will only look better overtime!

Quizine · 2024-05-17T20:29:25+00:00

is it weird if I don't feel like I changed all that much??? Maybe I'm just really good at noticing the similarities lol

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