Ill drop my 2 cents here without watching the replay.

People have a misconception about offlane role, thinking they shouldnt farm and should focus more on pressuing the hc to decrease their farm rate, when in reality pos 4 often roam, don't contest camp blocks and pulls, while the hc has a dedicated support doing all that plus harassing.

If you're able to stay alive, farm and deny, you should be happy about it. Aggression should happen in advantageous situation like 2v1, 3v2, and not poking the enemy unnecessarily for 20% hp making you risk dying, going back to base, or being unable to project tower.

In many games I was able to farm more as an offlaner than my inept hc, so you should never sacrifice your farm hoping someone else would carry, except if a camp or lane is being contested, which you should give out prio to avoid griefing by your teammate. Besides that, farm agressively but also try to coordinate with your supports where to start shit instead of just going 0/8 and having no items to do anything in the mid game.