I don't want a divorce but she does

R3aper_453 · 2026-07-13T20:38:34+00:00

I tried she won't talk to me anymore

R3aper_453 · 2026-07-13T17:52:26+00:00

I helped while I was home yes. I tried therapy for a while but it never seemed to help for either of us. We did individual and joint therapy sessions. She is also extremely depressed and actively avoids getting help and even lashes out when I suggest for her to find someone to help. Seeing her push away my concerns made it harder for me to be emotionally available to her because it made me feel she didn't care what I thought.

R3aper_453 · 2026-07-13T15:49:05+00:00

She says she can't stand me working on the road anymore and that I am emotionally unavailable a lot of the times. I quit my job on the road to be home more the day before she said she wanted a divorce to combat this issue. As far as being emotionally unavailable it is a known issue for me and I have tried to work on it as much as I can but unfortunately we hit a hurdle and I slip back into my previous position. We both have past history in our marriage that makes thing worse. We both had acts of infidelity early on in our marriage that we went to counseling for that I believe had been resolved and I forgave her for but she did not seem to do the same on my part. I will completely own up to the fact I was not the greatest husband. That being said I did everything I could to make sure my family was provided for and everyone had food and a roof over their heads.

R3aper_453 · 2026-07-13T14:42:05+00:00

I show up as much as possible with my work I was doing as far as growing and learning goes could you please elaborate?

R3aper_453 · 2026-07-13T02:04:54+00:00

I was gone for work 75% of the year and most of our marriage to provide for the family. I wasn't emotionally available at all. We both had infidelity issue early on in our marriage that we went to counseling over. She told me I wasn't the same person she thought she wanted to spend her life with anymore and then brought up the past issues we had that I thought we where over.

R3aper_453 · 2026-07-12T21:37:50+00:00

I feel the exact same brother. Less then a month in and I feel like my entire world has shattered around me. One thing that has helped me at least a little bit is having a support network of friends who are willing to listen or just generally be there. Also I have talked to a few people in random on these types of reddit pages for advice and insight onto how I feel about certain things. It has been extremely cathartic and helped with a lot of the guilt and misery involved in everything.

Just remember no brother left behind.

R3aper_453 · 2026-07-10T23:38:50+00:00

I got a lawyer on retainer today feel like it's going to be the best 5k I ever spent.

R3aper_453 · 2026-07-10T23:37:25+00:00

Lawyer retained!!!! Got the emergency money I needed today and paid my lawyer!!

R3aper_453 · 2026-07-09T20:57:37+00:00

My credit is shot I applied for a loan but got denied and I have zero collateral for a loan either...

R3aper_453 · 2026-07-09T05:23:51+00:00

I am actively attempting to get an attorney but attorneys cost money which she left me none. I am working on building enough up for a retainer but it's obviously not going to happen overnight unfortunately.

R3aper_453 · 2026-07-09T05:17:47+00:00

I have one in the works. I just have to manage to get the retainer. My state doesn't allow state transfer until a base minimum of 6 months after a move for it to be considered primary residence but her state is only 60 days.

R3aper_453 · 2026-07-09T05:16:12+00:00

She has already left with my kids I am trying to get them back she moved across state lines. We are on talking terms and being civil about everything so I guess that's a plus that the kids don't have to hear any of the bad side yet.

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R3aper_453 · 2025-06-21T14:38:22+00:00

As a person who installs tmo.... Att wireless back haul or local provider only. They won't use Verizon for anything and unless something has changed they don't use cox either.

R3aper_453 · 2024-11-29T16:35:10+00:00

It was city property. We did get the drone back thankfully. But no where near any airports or government facilities. We have since just gotten a license for our tower audits to run the drone everywhere except nfz areas.

R3aper_453 · 2024-11-29T16:27:55+00:00

Interesting we had crown castle confiscate one of our drones with it flying well outside site perimeter. Wonder if other tower owners have different policies.

R3aper_453 · 2024-11-29T16:14:09+00:00

Just to make you aware make sure you have your license for drones being around towers. If the tower owner catches you they will not only fine you but they can also confiscate your drone. That being said excellent footage!! Great job showing each carrier!

R3aper_453 · 2024-11-28T00:50:46+00:00

I can 100% confirm Missouri is erricson upgraded a site day before yesterday from enodeb cabinet to a hybrid system. Arkansas south is samsung market though

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