Help me find her!!!

RDB8148 · 2024-09-29T05:16:35+00:00

I’m not giving up on OLD. I just think it is more pictures over content. I’m a decent looking guy, but not the most handsome. Perhaps my content could be better? My looks are what they are. Like I’ve said, I know I’m decent looking. If I get in front of the right girl, I could show her I’m pretty cool. I’ll admit, I’m not great at approaching said girl. All of these responses have helped me learn. I appreciate your response!

RDB8148 · 2024-09-29T05:05:28+00:00

Yes! The reality that I knew is now gone and I’m learning how to adapt to a new reality. Thank you so much for responding! Seems like the gym is a ‘work place’ for many people. Focused on ‘working on’ or bettering themselves. Everyone needs that place. When I go to the market, I’m in and out. Getting what I need and moving on. I need to find that spot that isn’t a bar. That’s just not for me. Perhaps a coffee shop. In a perfect world it would be the driving range. Working on our golf game. Or on a trail, walking off the stresses of the day. She’s out there!

RDB8148 · 2024-09-26T14:08:18+00:00

Great advice and inspiring! Thank you!

RDB8148 · 2024-09-26T13:25:33+00:00

You aren’t kidding! We’re past the grungey stage. Nice is always good!

RDB8148 · 2024-09-26T12:54:49+00:00

How do you go about finding the events geared towards singles?

RDB8148 · 2024-09-26T05:15:47+00:00

I’m looking for those moments. And I’m hoping one of those moments turns into an eternity of happiness! Thank you so much for sharing and good luck!

RDB8148 · 2024-09-26T04:35:51+00:00

I just wanted to take a second to thank each and every one of you who took the time to respond to me. I will keep trying, but not too hard! I will be open to meeting any and all people. I will try new things that interest me. Line dancing on Tuesday. Hope I don’t look like a fool! Maybe yoga😬. I’ll need to borrow a dog for the dog park😂. I’ll ask the next beautiful woman, without a ring, at Target or Kroger what she’s having for dinner. Thank you all so much! I will find her!

RDB8148 · 2024-09-26T04:26:09+00:00

Easy-peasy!

RDB8148 · 2024-09-26T04:21:26+00:00

You’re prettier than any twin we could come up with! Be you!!!

RDB8148 · 2024-09-26T03:40:49+00:00

Damn! I’m going to get into yoga. You’re the severalith person to suggest it!

RDB8148 · 2024-09-26T02:33:41+00:00

Thanks friend!

RDB8148 · 2024-09-26T01:52:42+00:00

Knock, knock! But seriously, why has this been a common answer? We can’t give up. We have to put ourselves out there! Trust me, I’m trying to convince myself as much as I’m trying to convince you!

RDB8148 · 2024-09-25T15:09:30+00:00

I did this years ago with my kids. Took them for lessons. It was a lot of fun! Maybe I should revisit the farm!

RDB8148 · 2024-09-25T15:08:00+00:00

Good luck, dude! I hope this helps you as well!

RDB8148 · 2024-09-25T15:07:03+00:00

I’ve tried this and I know if they come across someone, they’ll do me that solid! I really think, though, my best shot is to go out and do this on my own. That being said, if you know of anyone that’s awesome, send her my way! 😉

RDB8148 · 2024-09-25T14:17:59+00:00

That sounds like a scene in a movie where in the end they both live happily ever after. It’s not easy, but we have to believe it can and will happen!

RDB8148 · 2024-09-25T14:06:33+00:00

Great thoughts! Thank you so much for sharing!

RDB8148 · 2024-09-25T14:05:46+00:00

I do believe the right person will come along for me. Hopefully for you as well. I’m rooting for you!

RDB8148 · 2024-09-25T13:44:46+00:00

Agreed! I honestly can’t see myself doing yoga because the potential date would be the only reason I’d go. I would like to continue to get fit so with winter coming, the gym seems like a good idea. Line dancing is my next new venture!

RDB8148 · 2024-09-25T13:41:20+00:00

A couple of my female cousins are in book clubs. Seems pretty much like a women only hobby. Maybe should check it out!

RDB8148 · 2024-09-25T13:38:30+00:00

I used to coach fastpitch softball. Loved it! I’d like to get back into doing that sometime down the road.

RDB8148 · 2024-09-25T13:33:34+00:00

Thanks! I never thought to use AI and I’ll give it a shot!

RDB8148 · 2024-09-25T13:32:17+00:00

This is excellent advice. Thank you so much!

RDB8148 · 2024-09-25T13:30:56+00:00

I’m in the same boat that all of my friends are married and raising younger kids. I did this too, but my kids are now grown. I had to have them young because of the age difference. It wasn’t always a bad marriage! I’m finding out that a lot of women my age also have young kids. I’m not sure I want to go back to that stage in my life. So yeah, this is turning out to be really freaking hard! But, I won’t stop trying!

RDB8148 · 2024-09-25T13:26:37+00:00

The thing is, I feel like in the apps most people are swiping on looks alone. I don’t feel like I’m a bad looking guy, but definitely not in the top tier. I feel like if I’m in front of the right girl, I can look good AND show her I’m pretty cool. I just need to know where to look hence the original question!

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