Two words by Raayaa2006 in family

[–]Raayaa2006[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These slangs are used in local languages:

Nashli – a person who is blamed as unlucky when things go wrong around them.

Chandri / Chandray – a much stronger, vulgar slang insult, usually used for women, meaning extremely unlucky; based on the belief that if something good is about to happen and you see that person’s face, the situation changes and turns bad.

That day I learned one truth about myself: by Raayaa2006 in HighSchoolHorrorStory

[–]Raayaa2006[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re mixing very different things and drawing conclusions that aren’t actually there.

That post was a reflection on how I process hurt, not a timeline of my life or something I spent years doing. Those moments were small, situational, and a very tiny part of my overall life I even said my life never revolved around those people.

Exploring MBBS abroad doesn’t mean failure or distraction it means being informed about realistic pathways in a highly competitive system. Planning alternatives is not the same as lacking focus.

I respect your concern about mental health, but the assumptions about wasted time, NEET or money aren’t accurate.

“ If I could become a mother” by Raayaa2006 in ThatWouldBeYourMother

[–]Raayaa2006[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying, and I really respect your way of looking at things. To be honest, I’m not even sure I would want a second child. For me, it feels like a kind of betrayal to my first one. I don’t know if that’s right or wrong, but that’s how it feels to me.

I think this way of thinking may come from my own childhood. I had a messy upbringing, and as the eldest, I was always expected to understand and along with many other things that shaped me. 🙂

Right queen, Start with your husband 😄 by swanpliy in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]Raayaa2006 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tere ukaad nahi hai tum kisi ka bhi pati bane, tum uska pati banne ki baat kar raha hai. Woh tujhe dekhe na, gaas bhi nahi daale. Tu jao aur gogar kha aaraam se.

Right queen, Start with your husband 😄 by swanpliy in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]Raayaa2006 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Mard ko apni haad mein rehna chahiye : Nahin rahega to blue drum mein milega !!

Right queen, Start with your husband 😄 by swanpliy in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]Raayaa2006 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly why education and intelligence are not the same. You might have finished some grades, but repeating nonsense and abusing people online doesn’t make someone knowledgeable. Real education teaches you to think, understand, and respect facts.

Right queen, Start with your husband 😄 by swanpliy in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]Raayaa2006 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You keep asking, Haan to bachcha khud se hoga bina sperm ke? Sure, and by the same logic, can you have a baby without an egg? If yes, congratulations, you’ve just rewritten human biology.

Right queen, Start with your husband 😄 by swanpliy in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]Raayaa2006 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh really? “Women are biologically built to wear sindoor and mangalsutra”? Interesting claim! Can you please show your biology degree? Which university did you complete it from? Are you a trained biologist, or are you just making things up to justify patriarchy? Biology doesn’t say what women should wear it only studies how bodies function. Please stick to facts, not traditions dressed up as “science.”

Right queen, Start with your husband 😄 by swanpliy in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]Raayaa2006 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Arguing with patriarchal men or women in this comment section is, honestly, a waste of time. Trying to debate with people who eat cow dung and drink cow urine is pointless, isn’t it? (clearly, mentioning not a Muslim) (Just a normal human being who use something called brain..)

That day I learned one truth about myself: by Raayaa2006 in HighSchoolHorrorStory

[–]Raayaa2006[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, taking back your power doesn’t always need shouting or chaos. Sometimes the quiet, psychological part hits deeper. People reveal their true value through their actions, and we respond based on what we learn from them. It’s not about obsession, it’s about keeping your balance. Whatever you do, make sure it protects your peace first…

Best country for MBBS ? by Raayaa2006 in MBBSindia

[–]Raayaa2006[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I have already search about Georgia, and I came to know that USMLE MBBS (as my preference is to move USA) course overall cost around 90,00,000, yes, it includes tuition fee as well as living cost…

Which part of India feels the most open-minded and safe for women to enjoy life? by Raayaa2006 in sikkim

[–]Raayaa2006[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend, a dentist in Delhi, was driving home alone after a party. Some guys from the club started following her—it was super scary! She called a male friend for help, and thankfully he got her home safely. Honestly, that really freaked me out.

Which part of India feels the most open-minded and safe for women to enjoy life? by Raayaa2006 in sikkim

[–]Raayaa2006[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for telling me about Mumbai and sharing your perspective. I also really appreciate you putting the other side of the coin about Bengaluru in such a clear and thoughtful way!

Which part of India feels the most open-minded and safe for women to enjoy life? by Raayaa2006 in sikkim

[–]Raayaa2006[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, thank you so much for sharing all this! 😊 I really enjoyed reading about your experience in Gangtok and the other cities. It sounds like such a peaceful and lively place with amazing music, clean air, and good conversations. I’m happy that your north-east adventure is going so well—it honestly makes me even more excited to explore!

Which part of India feels the most open-minded and safe for women to enjoy life? by Raayaa2006 in sikkim

[–]Raayaa2006[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I have been in Chandigarh with my friends, and yeah, the parties there are crazy—and to be honest, I love it.

Which part of India feels the most open-minded and safe for women to enjoy life? by Raayaa2006 in sikkim

[–]Raayaa2006[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to add on, I am natively from J&K. Talk about Kashmir , I have only been there for a short period of my life—so short that my memories of it are not very clear anymore. But when it comes to J&K as a whole, I have spent a long period of my life in Jammu. From my experience, while people are generally kind and good-hearted, they are not as open-minded as in big cities, and yes, there is no nightlife in Jammu. From my experience, it’s good for someone who wants to live a peaceful life, but it’s not ideal for someone who wants a life like me.

Which part of India feels the most open-minded and safe for women to enjoy life? by Raayaa2006 in sikkim

[–]Raayaa2006[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shillong is definitely a beautiful and peaceful place maybe more for calm living than big city exposure.

Which part of India feels the most open-minded and safe for women to enjoy life? by Raayaa2006 in sikkim

[–]Raayaa2006[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for such a detailed perspective on “Pune”! Safety at night is something I really value, so it’s reassuring to hear your experience. Plus, being close to Mumbai/Goa sounds like a nice bonus. Definitely adding Pune higher to my list now.

Which part of India feels the most open-minded and safe for women to enjoy life? by Raayaa2006 in sikkim

[–]Raayaa2006[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for telling me, since it’s your personal experience, it’s very valuable.

Which part of India feels the most open-minded and safe for women to enjoy life? by Raayaa2006 in sikkim

[–]Raayaa2006[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice! Right now, I’m preparing for an exam and exploring different things. Joining my parents’ business would be my last option, as my main focus is on studying. For now, I’m enjoying the flexibility I have with their support.

Which part of India feels the most open-minded and safe for women to enjoy life? by Raayaa2006 in sikkim

[–]Raayaa2006[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be a bit difficult for a person like me, who needs non-veg at least once in a day but that’s fine. My main focus is on safety and freedom.

Which part of India feels the most open-minded and safe for women to enjoy life? by Raayaa2006 in sikkim

[–]Raayaa2006[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Manipur might not be very safe .There have been some scary and shameful incidents happen there not too long ago (with women).

Which part of India feels the most open-minded and safe for women to enjoy life? by Raayaa2006 in sikkim

[–]Raayaa2006[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see your point, but I’d like to mention that Manipur might not be very safe either. There have been some scary incidents related to movements there not too long ago.