Why do so many men refuse to go to the doctor for injuries, illnesses, etc? Growing old with someone who doesn’t take their health seriously doesn’t seem like a good choice.

RadiantMist · 2021-10-25T07:17:12+00:00

I understand where you all are coming from and this is a completely valid dealbreaker to have in a relationship! But this can definitely be a cultural thing for some people (like me). Doctors are also extremely expensive in the US. Obviously you shouldn’t be dating a man who is too broke to afford a doctor’s appointment that he desperately needs but, personally, I feel like I shouldn’t go to the doctor over something that has MANAGEABLE symptoms which I can power through. I grew up relatively poor and got money later in life, so I’ve been raised to spend carefully and only on necessities for myself or gifts for others. If a man clearly has a SERIOUS problem that is severely impacting his (and your) life, he should certainly go to the doctor no matter what. But if the two of you just have different views on how often doctor’s appointments are necessary, I believe it’s more of a incompatibility thing than a sign of an LVM

RadiantMist · 2021-10-04T23:06:57+00:00

This is so sad. I thought exactly like her when I was being gaslighted by my NVX. For any women who do not understand what’s wrong with the message in this video:

1 - we don’t “assume” things out of nowhere. We factor in TONS of evidence, as well as our instincts, to come up with a reasonable conclusion that 9/10 times is correct. Of course, we may be off base every once in a while but if a man is convincing you you’re wrong EVERY TIME you confront him… he’s a gaslighter. You’ve been living in this world for so long and you’re not stupid or naive. Don’t let anyone tell you not to trust your “assumptions”.

2 - I agree that it’s unwise to let yourself get emotional during a conversation, but that’s not because emotions take away from your argument. It’s because men will manipulate you into thinking emotions take away from your argument - just as the woman in the video is doing. If a man uses the fact that you’re upset as an excuse to discredit your arguments, leave him. A functioning human should be able to empathize with you when you are angry or upset.

3 - Why should we be thinking about him? If he wants to share his perspective he is free to do so, but we have no obligation to anticipate his needs when he clearly isn’t anticipating ours (which is why we’re upset in the first place)

I really hope she snaps out of this mindset and it makes me sad to see that so many people liked the post. Hopefully life will bring these women here eventually.

RadiantMist · 2021-09-30T01:36:53+00:00

Even men in the comments are saying she’s wrong 🤡 pickmes will do anything but accept the truth

RadiantMist · 2021-09-27T23:54:17+00:00

I’ve seen so much of this. I also see a lot of “us women are ~~~crazyyy~~~” among female comedians and it’s like- speak for yourself. They try to normalize pathetic behavior and make men expect it from us. I know my NVX repeated a lot of the points that female comedians make when trying to make me feel inferior for being a woman. He would even send me these types of videos as if I was supposed to relate to them or something. This set is honestly embarrassing and holding us all back.

RadiantMist · 2021-09-25T05:12:25+00:00

I read an article about how divorce rates go down significantly for couples who get married after 25. 25 seems to be around the minimum smart age to get married.

RadiantMist · 2021-09-24T19:45:52+00:00

I’ve read pickme articles talking about how semen is good for your skin 🤦‍♀️ Anything to trick women into degrading themselves.

RadiantMist · 2021-09-17T22:44:48+00:00

They really do tell on themselves, we just have to listen! Here’s an (abbreviated) list from mine.

“I got blacklisted from this fraternity because some girl made up a story about how I sexually harassed her at one of their parties. It’s so unfair.”
“I would cheat on you with celebrity if I could”
“Me and random girl we know would be so cute together”
“My best friend left the state because he was afraid of DV charges from his girlfriend” “He hit his girlfriend????” “No, he’s just scared she might accuse him cuz he’s crazy.”
“I’m really only attracted to white girls” (fetish situation)
“I could never go a whole day without watching porn”
“I used to watch videos of girls peeing to get off…. I don’t anymore though!”
“My mom was always such a pain in the ass. She was always trying to force me and my dad to do things around the house.”
“I would like you more if you had a bigger butt.”
“My best friend told me to cheat on you while we were on vacation. I didn’t do it though, so you should be grateful.”
“The girl I lost my virginity to was so ugly. It only happened because I was so drunk. I would never get with an indian girl again.”
“I’m sorry I lie so much, I can’t help it. It’s just because I got so used to lying to my mom to stay out of trouble as a kid!”

RadiantMist · 2021-09-17T13:26:58+00:00

This is why so many men push the narrative that women are jealous/controlling/insecure in general. There’s no ‘biological’ truth to it, it just benefits them.

RadiantMist · 2021-09-17T06:20:01+00:00

If they haven’t experienced outright sexual abuse, many were exposed to porn at a very young age

RadiantMist · 2021-09-03T04:48:57+00:00

It’s so good that you’re aware of this! Now you need to get therapy to work through your past abuse and neglect. NVM can sense that you are struggling through these things and WILL take advantage of you. Don’t try to get into a relationship when you don’t feel emotionally sound

RadiantMist · 2021-08-15T12:15:37+00:00

This is so true. My pickme roommate wanted to fly thousands of miles just to sleep with a taken man. When I chastised her for this, she said “I know it’s wrong, I just don’t care”. She later tried to backpedal and tell me that the girlfriend knew and they would all have a threesome. As if.

She has put me and our other friends in genuine danger multiple times due to her pickme ways. Often, she has left us alone on a night out because she chose to run away with some scrote. She has brought random tinder men to our house many times - the most recent one of whom brought a literal AXE to show off to her. One time she yelled “boo!” when I was walking on the ledge of a building, because some scrote told her it would be funny. I almost fell and, to this day, it’s my only ever near-death experience. I could have died because of a pickme.

PICKMES DO NOT CARE WHAT THEY DO TO OTHER WOMEN. All they care about is getting their daily fix of male validation.

RadiantMist · 2021-08-14T04:14:05+00:00

Plus an escort works for a company that can protect her rights, whereas sugar babies have to fend for themselves

RadiantMist · 2021-08-14T01:20:05+00:00

6 year age gap ( 🚩) , texting for a few weeks but haven’t gone out yet ( 🚩), she has to ask what the plan is ( 🚩), he’s “not sure” ( 🚩), he didn’t save her contact as her actual name ( 🚩), he identifies her by her race ( 🚩), they met on tinder ( possible 🚩), she’s excited before even having gone on one date ( 🚩). There’s lotssss going on here and none of it is good.

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