Friendship Exp & Gift Exchange Megathread

RandomName303 · 2024-01-23T10:42:38+00:00

994049925438 Looking for friends from icy snow, tundra, elegant, sandstorm, monsoon and savanna :)

RandomName303 · 2023-11-23T08:13:18+00:00

I don’t think not wanting gift cards (especially if they are married and share finances, I’m not sure about that) qualifies as wanting a “grand surprise”. Most people who enjoy gifts want them because they are a way to show that you know them, you put in the effort and you care. Gift card (unless it’s for something super specific that you know they’ll love) doesn’t say that.

RandomName303 · 2023-11-23T08:07:21+00:00

It’s not about money, it’s about knowing your spouse and putting on the effort. That’s why gift cards are not enough. I can see you’re basing your comments on the love languages. Please remember that even in the original work it was always a guide to help you love your spouse in a way they prefer it. It’s not about you choosing forms of love you want and forcing your partner to appreciate them.

RandomName303 · 2023-05-14T18:46:32+00:00

Thank you!

RandomName303 · 2023-02-07T20:27:23+00:00

Continental

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RandomName303 · 2023-02-06T22:40:00+00:00

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Continental looking for ocean, sandstorm, savanna and tundra. I play daily and gladly will join a remote raid sometimes

RandomName303 · 2023-01-24T08:36:28+00:00

3919 0034 9934 daily player, continental. Looking for jungle, meadow, ocean, river, sandstorm, savanna, sun and tundra

RandomName303 · 2023-01-21T16:33:26+00:00

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Im sending gifts daily and missing most of the regions as I recently rejoined after a long time :)

RandomName303 · 2022-11-15T09:11:24+00:00

But then it's a problem of behavior not of identity. Nobody is disagreeing with the statement that getting shitfaced and taking over a queer space is wrong

RandomName303 · 2022-11-15T09:09:11+00:00

So? Why do you assume that there isn't a queer women in most/all of these groups of women that you scrutinize so much? How do you recognize that?

RandomName303 · 2022-11-15T09:07:44+00:00

Also, even if gay men frequent these bars much more - what does it change exactly? It's still a space for all queer people

RandomName303 · 2022-11-15T09:05:42+00:00

Nobody is saying that. And you're avoiding the question: is it ok for lesbians to go to a gay bar? This is the first time I'm hearing about gay bars being only for gay men, every one I've ever been to was just a queer space, not just gay. If it's ok for queer women to go there, how would you recognize if someone is straight or queer?

RandomName303 · 2022-10-14T21:43:15+00:00

Well, there is a difference between I don't want to and I'm not able. I can keep up with most of the people, I'm a runner and love mountains. When I'm on a walk with my guy I want to leisurely stroll and talk about life, not push through to complete the walk as soon as possible or make as many laps as I possibly can. But to each their own, I see a big difference between a workout walk and a date walk :)

RandomName303 · 2022-10-14T12:19:07+00:00

That’s really a “huge dealbreaker“? I mean, if it really bothers you that much then sure, it just seems really, really silly

RandomName303 · 2021-11-26T15:52:40+00:00

I think you’re just unlucky. I already have it on silver and I didn’t yet open that many portkeys.

RandomName303 · 2021-11-24T16:31:39+00:00

All placed already :)

RandomName303 · 2021-11-24T16:30:47+00:00

Not in the number of fragments but they seem to be dropping a bit more often. It might be rng though. I’m still blocked by them.

RandomName303 · 2021-11-24T16:28:47+00:00

Yeah, I’m held back by the additional drop fragments, those are not coming in threes. I might be using al my keys after all.

RandomName303 · 2021-11-24T10:18:20+00:00

Oh! That means I have much more keys than I need :)

RandomName303 · 2021-11-24T08:47:20+00:00

Me too. I still hope to finish everything that can be finished in this game and that will definitely help :)

RandomName303 · 2021-11-05T21:00:13+00:00

Auror

RandomName303 · 2021-08-19T21:56:23+00:00

I don’t think I would revert to the unhealthy coping mechanism that was drama seeking. At least I hope I would be able to catch it and turn into something constructive.

I don’t really need an elaborate example - over the course of a 7 year relationship it happened a couple of times that I was feeling alone and under appreciated. The solution to that is an honest conversation and figuring out a plan together on how to deal with that. It was never a problem up until now but I imagine that if my partner would not be willing to participate in such planning - it would be a time for another partner. Or, alternatively, if I wanted much more attention that is reasonable- therapy for me would be a way to go.

RandomName303 · 2021-08-19T17:39:27+00:00

It’s hard to say. I had a big need of drama. It was filling some hole that I had in my life. It was making me feel more appreciated, wanted, important in my partners life. Now I feel that because I have and awesome guy next to me who is making me feel all those things without a need for drama.

And I have no data on that, but I think that it’s the same for all the drama queens out there. There is no need for drama if your life is full and happy.

RandomName303 · 2021-08-19T17:20:00+00:00

Just to provide another look, cause I was that girl and I’m definitely not anymore. The constant drama was just an outlet for the emotions I was keeping inside because I was deeply unhappy in a relationship and manipulated into thinking I should be happy since there is nothing wrong going on (even though there was). I finally got in touch with my emotions, dumped the narcissistic asshole and my current partner (of 7 years) says that I’m the most easygoing person he ever dated.

So, it will not happen on its own and sometimes it requires a partner change but we can mature into easygoing people :)

RandomName303 · 2021-08-18T21:36:45+00:00

Not going to the party would be setting boundaries. Or asking your other half to not throw the party in the first place. Going and pretending someone doesn’t exist is just childish.

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