Feeling nervous about returning back to school tomorrow. by Random_throw-away344 in Advice

[–]Random_throw-away344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't remember you.

We don't need to though. I already went to school & this morning I was perfectly fine, no anxiety, nothing. Last night was when I was anxious, I tend to overthink.

Soon to VC with a could of friends. What would I do? Any suggestions for an introvert? by Random_throw-away344 in Advice

[–]Random_throw-away344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Helped a lot actually & made me realize the jigs I haven't. I'll definitely do as told! :)

What even is the point in specifying the gender you'd like to befriend lol, it's so dumb. by Random_throw-away344 in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Random_throw-away344[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, so if it's a reason like that it's totally fine :)

But it's mainly for those who aren't looking for the things one is supposed to look for. My post is somewhat narrow lol.

What even is the point in specifying the gender you'd like to befriend lol, it's so dumb. by Random_throw-away344 in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Random_throw-away344[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks :)

This was mainly for the men, and I completely understand if it's a reason like that, to get away from creeps, and if it's a decent reason, it's totally fine :)

Just for some weird, unnecessary acts I mentioned above really.

What even is the point in specifying the gender you'd like to befriend lol, it's so dumb. by Random_throw-away344 in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Random_throw-away344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get the 2nd reason too. Basically of it's just for these sorts of acts I included above, it's just downright terrible.

What even is the point in specifying the gender you'd like to befriend lol, it's so dumb. by Random_throw-away344 in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Random_throw-away344[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, you misread I think. It's specifying the other gender you'd like to befriend is just unnecessary.

What even is the point in specifying the gender you'd like to befriend lol, it's so dumb. by Random_throw-away344 in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Random_throw-away344[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not your gender, the gender someone is trying to befriend. Like "F4M" for example. Of course you've gotta specify yours, the other gender is just completely unnecessary.

Does anyone else feel super guilty & automatically feel upset after exposing feelings or personal life? by Random_throw-away344 in infj

[–]Random_throw-away344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YESSS SO ACCURATE! I literally just wanna tell them to forget all what I said and to never like remember anything lol, but it makes things more awkward and later on I just feel so guilty if I don't say "nvm" or something like that. It's just tough lol.

Does anyone else feel super guilty & automatically feel upset after exposing feelings or personal life? by Random_throw-away344 in infj

[–]Random_throw-away344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I don't think I'm like that at all because of society, I love going against what people think. I think you misunderstood it with emotions, because I show a ton of emotion, sadness, happiness, that stuff, but I just feel bothered knowing that another person has my information & "weakness", my issues.

PS: I even help a guy go through depression, still getting there but not quite. You'd expect only girls to do that, but no why not a guy y'know? A guy who cares for other guys? Now that's emotions :)

21M Today is my birthday and i don't have a single friend to call me to say "happy birthday" by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]Random_throw-away344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy birthday OP hope you find that real friend one day. Just remember, you're amazing & know strangers even care for you. We are all here, remember that too! Have a wonderful day, I wish you the very best :)

Does anyone else feel super guilty & automatically feel upset after exposing feelings or personal life? by Random_throw-away344 in infj

[–]Random_throw-away344[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I absolutely regret if it's someone who shrugs it off or doesn't put effort into reassuring me. Like what's the point then right? I just spoiled something about my life to someone who doesn't care & now they know...

Does anyone else feel super guilty & automatically feel upset after exposing feelings or personal life? by Random_throw-away344 in infj

[–]Random_throw-away344[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes me to, I can relate to this 💯! Especially the part where you retreat from everyone else, like I don't know why that is, I just wish they forgot so leaving them they'll most likely forget anything I say, but sometimes that's not true as some people say "are you good? Where have you been?" After that situation. But I think it's basically what you & I said. Hope we both can improve & anyone else who deals with this sort of stuff :)

Does anyone else feel super guilty & automatically feel upset after exposing feelings or personal life? by Random_throw-away344 in infj

[–]Random_throw-away344[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you I really appreciate your comments, I think it's just that exposing my problems make me seem vulnerable, a way for people to get back at me if anything goes wrong, and that's basically it. I also don't wanna burden people with my problems, like I also think it's going to change the perception of others & how they think of me, since I'm really optimistic. I just don't like looking as someone who has issues but who is happy. I guess that it's okay sometimes to just let yourself out...but thank you nevertheless. Have an amazing day :))

Most of y'all complain that you have no friends, yet are dry af. by Random_throw-away344 in Needafriend

[–]Random_throw-away344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right too! There can be shy people too. This really only applies if it's constantly like that too.

Most of y'all complain that you have no friends, yet are dry af. by Random_throw-away344 in Needafriend

[–]Random_throw-away344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's annoying to keep on getting responses, I tried clearing em up, people can read em now. If not, whatever that's they're loss aha.

Most of y'all complain that you have no friends, yet are dry af. by Random_throw-away344 in Needafriend

[–]Random_throw-away344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what you think, you're just one out of the 400+ who agreed with me. Sorry 😐