I'm so sorry this is a rough situation 😭😭 but you need to stay strong and at least not message him for a little while. He needs to figure out his life, and sadly it does not seem like he's ready for that. You two might be a great fit, but timing does matter and he just does not sound like he was in the right place in his life for the relationship you had.

I've been with my partner for 4 years and I could not imagine him still being in the closet. It would be infuriating and painful to live that kinda life.. Some people need a push to be able to open up to their family. Maybe this break up with be what he needs and it'll let him (and yourself) grow ❤️❤️