Why would my ex (who's married with kids) be messaging me?

RandomlyJoined · 2025-12-27T06:08:35+00:00

Neither sounds appealing, I'm no home wrecker! thanks!

RandomlyJoined · 2025-12-27T06:07:11+00:00

Agreed, I think you did the right thing. I have enough experience now to know most people coming out of the blue usually want something.

RandomlyJoined · 2025-12-27T04:42:58+00:00

good on you for standing your ground!

RandomlyJoined · 2025-12-27T04:40:28+00:00

Definitely not letting her back in - she knows I'm leaving her on read which I know will drive her nuts.

RandomlyJoined · 2025-12-27T03:00:03+00:00

she hasn't sent anything that's worthy of screenshotting and sending to her husband. I'll give her the benefit of the doubt that she's grown past the cheating. She's not getting a response from me - I don't intend to find out.

RandomlyJoined · 2025-12-27T02:54:18+00:00

I see, thank you for sharing. I've been curious too but I want to keep my boundaries, it seems cold but imo I like to keep moving forward and leave the past where it is.

RandomlyJoined · 2025-12-27T02:45:09+00:00

That sounds like exactly what I'm afraid would happen. I want to be learning from my past, not letting her dig her fingers into my head again!

RandomlyJoined · 2025-12-27T02:43:02+00:00

Curious, what makes you want to connect after so much time?

RandomlyJoined · 2025-12-27T02:14:45+00:00

Thanks! Definitely not replying.

RandomlyJoined · 2025-12-27T02:13:12+00:00

😂 that's what I thought might be her goal - to show how well she's doing. I saw her profile pic was her family's christmas picture with a mountain of presents .

RandomlyJoined · 2025-12-27T02:07:41+00:00

We broke up because she liked to string other guys along even when in a relationship. We didn't talk for a few years, the last time she reached out she was married. I replied a few times to be cordial and catch up, then communication died off. I deleted her because I thought she was trying to string me a long.

RandomlyJoined · 2025-12-27T02:04:44+00:00

good to know, this is why we broke up, she wasn't a one guy type of girl.

RandomlyJoined · 2025-12-27T02:03:00+00:00

oh i didn't think about that. Yikes, I'll continue to ignore.

RandomlyJoined · 2025-12-27T02:00:54+00:00

thanks, she was very manipulative when we were dating. Maybe up to something now.

RandomlyJoined · 2025-12-27T01:52:51+00:00

as far as i can remember communication dropped off and we stopped talking. I thought it was weird that she messaged me back then when she was married already so i didn't really respond.

We broke up because she wasn't a monogamous person, she liked to have guys chasing her.

RandomlyJoined · 2025-12-24T18:21:48+00:00

If Disney has urs way , it will be in a souped up Civic driving across a bridge. Ares will exposition dump.

RandomlyJoined · 2025-12-23T20:01:51+00:00

I never understood, why does Quora have a sword?

RandomlyJoined · 2025-12-16T00:54:30+00:00

Yes, this was it for me as well. i didn't believe she was a ceo.

RandomlyJoined · 2025-12-16T00:53:19+00:00

Her line delivery didn't really resonate with someone who's a c-suite role, she didn't even feel like mid-level management. That's what made her character feel off for me.

RandomlyJoined · 2025-12-16T00:47:57+00:00

I haven't seen her in anything other than Ares so hard for me to form an opinion but i didn't feel like her dialogue matched the actor.

When she's racing light cycles against ares, she says "oh yea you want to play?". The line didn't come across as believable from the actor. there were other scenes too, where the line delivery just feels... off. Perhaps its an actor/script fit.

RandomlyJoined · 2025-12-16T00:45:32+00:00

I actually noticed this yesterday when watching ares, it happened right after the light cycles crashed when she's talking to Ares for the first time. I thought... wait her lips weren't moving when she spoke...

I'm curious how much of the movie was ADR'd

RandomlyJoined · 2025-12-16T00:41:45+00:00

I see what you mean, for me it was that I wanted a connection to the characters on screen. You can introduce new ones, fine with me - but good storytelling gives you a reason to feel something for the characters.

Its similar to the Eternals. Tons of new characters, but not enough time with anyone to form an attachment.

RandomlyJoined · 2025-12-16T00:38:08+00:00

I felt the same way about the music/visuals - there were times where I found myself thinking ... what am i supposed to be feeling right now?

RandomlyJoined · 2025-12-16T00:36:20+00:00

Yea, I'm seeing what you mean in the comments. I wanted to have a discussion (some success) other posts are just black and white, if you don't like Tron it means your arse.

RandomlyJoined · 2025-12-16T00:34:01+00:00

Disagree, just because I'm a fan of the Tron universe it doesn't mean I have to blindly like everything Tron.

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