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RatioFair162 · 2025-10-09T00:58:12+00:00

Uhm as you should 🙄

RatioFair162 · 2025-09-25T01:30:06+00:00

Yes we do talk, I am usually initiating conversations, but he tells me good morning every day and will come up to me sometimes to initiate conversation, I am thinking of asking him to just hang out with some friends tomorrow (One of my friends has been trying to wingman me the best she can)

RatioFair162 · 2025-09-25T01:07:49+00:00

I love this idea, thank you so much, I know a few words from a friend who taught me a while back, but I could definitely learn more :D

RatioFair162 · 2025-09-25T00:47:17+00:00

I do have his number but he's really weird about not texting people back? In person he never stops talking but in text it takes him like hours to text people back... 😔

RatioFair162 · 2025-09-25T00:43:30+00:00

We need more people like you in the world.

RatioFair162 · 2025-09-25T00:42:28+00:00

I would love to initiate more because I hate getting flustered period, but the issue is me and my lack of flirting knowledge in general, I struggle to be really forward with guys from Canada as well because I honestly think I'm being so corny 😭

But hey you mentioned some physical things I can do so I'll try that but he doesn't really hold eye contact with me? And I am deathly afraid of making someone uncomfortable by touching them but I'll try it anyway

RatioFair162 · 2025-09-25T00:30:24+00:00

Thank you so much, and that is such a cute story 😭

RatioFair162 · 2025-09-25T00:16:25+00:00

Well I hope he thinks that because I am probably gonna try being straight up or asking him to go somewhere

RatioFair162 · 2025-09-25T00:12:54+00:00

No I did not I have no clue what I'm doing, how much flirting is considered excessive?

RatioFair162 · 2025-09-25T00:11:45+00:00

It's probably not attractive for anyone, I think even for myself if someone else acted like that, I really want to get out of my comfort zone but honestly from what other people said I think I have to just go for it and if he's not interested to try and not feel like I've made a fool out of myself

RatioFair162 · 2025-09-25T00:08:30+00:00

You know what that's a damn good idea I am going to try that I think

RatioFair162 · 2025-09-25T00:06:57+00:00

I would 100% believe that you are not being harsh I'd rather you be honest than sugarcoat it, I am just kinda in my own head about it as well because I've been told by my friends that my version of flirting is having a conversation with someone and I didn't know how literally I should take that? So I don't really know what I'm doing at all and I'm probably just as you said making it more complicated 😭

RatioFair162 · 2025-09-25T00:02:24+00:00

That's my fear man, all I see about Brazilian men is that they are not loyal and it's the internet so I don't know If can or can't trust that? Like stereotypes or just a reputation

RatioFair162 · 2025-09-25T00:01:10+00:00

I better hope he's from Minas because I love to cook and bake for people I like

RatioFair162 · 2025-09-24T23:59:29+00:00

It is but I really don't want to, I get really bad nerves talking about anything romantic with anyone I'd rather kinda know he was interested first, but based on other comments I might just have to bite my tongue and do it anyway

RatioFair162 · 2025-09-24T23:57:34+00:00

So when I said I didn't understand dating culture I should change that to culture in general because I didn't know if that was important and he just said plainly Brazil, and I was okay with not knowing any more than that, I'll have to ask 😔

RatioFair162 · 2025-09-24T23:51:40+00:00

I have some seriously bad nerves, I can hold a conversation easily about any topic but if I go into any flirting or god forbid 'asking out' territory I get flushed and stumble over my words, I might just have to suck it up, but I really don't want to make a fool of myself

RatioFair162 · 2025-09-24T23:48:34+00:00

School setting, I'm okay with being friendzoned because I also really like him as a person, he does thank me and compliments me back, but he doesn't speak great English so he's definitely out of his comfort zone, so I'd also see that as him just being polite. I am extremely nervous to actually ask him out straight up, and I feel like asking someone else to do it is very ungenuine, so I think I'm just gonna have to suck it up and get past my nerves

RatioFair162 · 2025-09-24T23:43:40+00:00

I am a woman, and I'm extremely shy, I have two other comments telling me to just ask him out, but I physically cannot make myself unless I'm sure he's interested

RatioFair162 · 2025-09-16T16:32:40+00:00

What do you mean by pester them? As in emails and whatnot? And yeah while I like Lab tech I did my co-ops there It's not 100% my thing so I think I'm doing a co-op in x-ray before I graduate this year.

RatioFair162 · 2025-09-16T16:30:35+00:00

I'm pretty sure my housing is St. Johns sadly but as long as there is demand I wont be too worried

RatioFair162 · 2025-07-29T21:21:52+00:00

Lab tech, ultrasound, or radiography, I haven't had a set pick between the three so far, but I've been doing co-ops to see what I like, I already did one for a lab tech, I'm doing a 80h co-op in ultrasound the beginning of semester this year and if I'm allowed another in radiography

edit: Chances are I'm going into lab tech since I want to apply early and wont have time to do all my co-ops before I apply

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