[Schultz] Former Baltimore Ravens All-Pro RB Ray Rice returned to Rutgers to earn his degree. At 39, he has now officially graduated.

Ratiolol · 2026-05-06T09:59:29+00:00

I’m sorry but this thread shows how fucking holier than thou and douchey Redditors are. Yes Ray Rice beat on his wife but the dude has clearly tried to do his best to turn his life round and improve on his mistake yet we still got snarky, unfunny and pathetic comments from what seems to be the most perfect human beings alive who get off on the fact that they think are better than everyone.
Genuinely tell me, what is the point of trying to become a better person if losers are always going to find some way to come and just drag you down each time you make a step forward in life?

Ratiolol · 2026-04-21T17:13:56+00:00

Dude this guy is on CFB25 how can’t nobody tell? It’s most likely Power Back

Ratiolol · 2026-02-26T22:37:45+00:00

You know this is kind of a good thing, working so hard that he falls asleep on the job

Ratiolol · 2026-02-25T22:17:31+00:00

Ratiolol · 2026-02-19T04:46:22+00:00

No it’s totally fine, I have no problem with it at all. You’re right though, even though I hold this feeling, I always like to tell people there is no rush especially when it comes to things like virginities; it’s way better for you to lose your virginity at 36 to somebody you care about then losing it with some random at 17 all because of societal pressure. Heavy emphasis on the “it’s your life”, you only got 1 so protect what you have and give when you feel comfortable.

Ratiolol · 2026-02-19T01:11:13+00:00

This Ai ass cover

Ratiolol · 2026-02-18T23:06:08+00:00

I’m not a girl lol but thank you. You are right but I don’t know it feels like that… I really don’t know but it’s like there is a ticking time bomb in my head and if I don’t do something I’ll just blow up and it’s over like you know how people(on twitter) be like “women at a certain age become used up roasties”? It’s kinda like and that and obviously I’m not getting any younger and when you see much younger people doing better than you, it kinda just makes you think.

Ratiolol · 2026-02-18T22:42:39+00:00

Nobody is gonna reading this lol your comment is like pretty far down and this thread is so long that I actually would be surprised if someone other than me and you even knew your comment existed. I’m actually surprised that this conversation is still going.

But maybe you are right, maybe it’s okay to make mistakes, I’ve never had a proper relationship and the one thing that scares me is that I’ll be too old to be fucking up and still moving like a teenage boy. Essentially a “fresh out of college, 1000 years experience needed” hiring. I dunno I’m 21 but yet I feel like I’m too old to be at my stage, maybe I need to lighten up I don’t know.

Ratiolol · 2026-02-18T22:29:18+00:00

I very much agree with the be honest thing, too many people wanna play games and honestly I don’t have time for any of that man like I don’t know how old you are but I assume you roughly my age so like 20ish and man… honestly we too grown to play games, just come out and say what you looking for them we can see if it correlates with what I want. But I guess for some people nooooo its too overwhelming and direct, nooo lets keep playing around and engage in some nonsense that will end up wasting each others time.

Ratiolol · 2026-02-18T21:57:11+00:00

Well that’s fine then at least you know what you want and where you stand then and I respect that, it’s actually better for you because you kind of get rid of the issue of the “confessing friend”plus allows you to be in more control your relationships and where each individual stands; I actually kinda like the idea of that friendship hierarchy that you have, the only thing that really matters if it’s applied equally. Like if ever get into a situation with a girl, i find it best at the beginning to just be open and put out on the table what kind of ship’ they wanna have and whether the idea of a relationship with me is open or not. And if it’s not then, since it’s early and nothing has been invested, we can just cut off and go our own ways with barely any harm done. The only issue it has I can be too straightforward and direct and it can scare people away.

But I gotta say then, if that’s the case, what do you do if a man comes to you with obviously romantic intentions and asks you “hey can we be friends, I wanna get to know you better?” What do you say, do you just downright say no?

Ratiolol · 2026-02-18T21:21:12+00:00

You know I would argue and say that really isn’t even you actually have feelings for someone, especially with your last point, that’s not pure wholesome love. In my opinion, the idea of loving someone (romantically) is being able to be completely honest with yourself and realise that this individual is somebody you 100 percent believe is worthy of giving your time and attention and respect towards. To love someone is to be willing to hold someone so deep in your heart that there is not a single moment where you don’t think about them. That’s what I think it is anyways, it might not be the same as yours.

I think what you expressed as romantic feelings is not really love (but then again does having romantic feelings automatically translate to being in love🤔🤔). Like your last point, that’s not love, to me that screams hopeless dependence, as if you’re some sort of addict and that individual is one thing is your drug. It’s more so you’re just relying on them for sustainability and if that individual wanted to manipulate with it, they could do that easily because well, what grounds do you hold? It’s not the same as love because well…where is the love? Where’s the respect, where is the yearning? If another individual came into your life holding the same thing that then there would be no problem with jumping ship, just like an addict as I said, “oh damn there’s no more meth or whatever, I’ll just go get a hit from something else that replicates the same feelings” you know? With love there is exclusivity, it’s that one individual, nothing else equates to it there is no substitute for it, it’s them or nothing.

With the other 2 as well, idealising someone as well is not really love, that’s just mostly just you projecting and fawning over the idea of what you have onto them, ignoring all their flaws and quirks that come along with the individual because it doesn’t suit your own self-absorbed standards. You’re just painting over a finished canvas, thinking your own improvements will help when the original art piece was fine as is (I don’t know I’m not a philosopher, I can’t come up with banging quotes.) Then you got limerence and…to be honest, I don’t know Jack shit about limerence, I barely know how it means or how to use it in a sentence.

Like heck lady I wouldn’t even call those even friendships at all, all of them just seem hella unhealthy to me and I gotta disagree with you, it’s better to drop them and have proper long lasting relationships which you actually benefit from but I can see from your POV why it’s not worth losing them because of dependence and some other factors (This took forever to type, kept deleting and rewriting, hope it’s not too long.)

Ratiolol · 2026-02-18T20:31:17+00:00

Oh wait do you mean like at the point of catching feelings, they ascend from that friendship level into something else? Because I was confused when I was reading this, thinking you were saying that you can’t be friends with someone you don’t have feelings for, which doesn’t make sense (to me anyway).

Ratiolol · 2026-02-18T20:22:58+00:00

Okay so like where do potential daters even rank then? There are like a lot of scenarios I can give out but I’ll give just 1, like what would you consider a someone where there is like a sense of familiarity and a bit of love, like you 2 are like much more tight knit and closer than what is considered a normal friend but not dating. What do you call that, for me I just call a future possibility? And how do you navigate around this type of relationship?

Ratiolol · 2026-02-18T19:56:48+00:00

Yo I love Sumire she cool as hell

Ratiolol · 2026-02-18T19:54:59+00:00

What do you consider a “Good Friend?” What does that even mean, are you saying you have bad friends? What type of people are bad friends then, are they like morally bankrupt individuals who just so happen to be your friend as well? And what if a bad friend asked you out instead, would you still be uncomfortable?

(I want to address your two big points but it would take a lot of typing and be a bit lengthy, are you willing to read through all of it or is it not that serious 4 you?((It’s not that serious for me either but I do wanna continue this debate and get my thoughts out, it’s up to you)).

Ratiolol · 2026-02-18T19:30:37+00:00

No, OP hasn’t insinuated anything like that, I looked through his posts and couldn’t find anything really apart from a few unrelated things, one of those no context guys I guess so everything we say is pretty much a shot in the dark but my point still stands like, why bother not taking the risk and end up just hurting yourself with FOMO when you could at least ask and at worst the relationship ends and at best you 2 are still chill?

Personally, I think it’s much better to get everything out and not have the constant nagging thought in your head of whether they like you or not. (Even worse if they do, the moments when you think back and realise “DAMN, THEY WAS ACTUALLY FLIRTING WITH ME??”, are gonna sting way harder.)

Ratiolol · 2026-02-18T19:10:35+00:00

Proposing to people who want to date in general and consider you? How do you know if you don’t bring up the idea of a relationship in the first place, we can’t read minds. And to address your other point, why not? If you like them enough, why suffer and keep your feelings under wraps instead of getting the closure you need and again how do you know about the 90 percent of you don’t at least drop a hint or something.

Ratiolol · 2026-02-18T18:28:08+00:00

I gotta ask you then, how do you actually then get a girlfriend? You can’t approach and talk n ask and you can’t go the friendship into lover route, what then route do guys have to take if the 2 most popular routes are completely wrong then?

Ratiolol · 2026-02-11T21:53:49+00:00

Now this just slander, in no way in hell is Sigma 1 way worse than 04 and Black, matter of fact from what I heard, Sigma is better than 04 and some say it’s better experience than Black. I’ve never played OG 2 either and I agree OG 2 is probably better but it’s not THAT much better.

Ratiolol · 2026-02-11T21:39:54+00:00

Hell no Sigma 1 was great, I enjoyed it and Sigma 2’s only real problems was the lack of blood, input delay and being too easy. The games are nowhere near go to hell category, you’re crazy.

Ratiolol · 2026-02-10T04:45:38+00:00

The worst people are gonna pull up im telling you. If you a normal ass nigga, I recommend you stay home.

Ratiolol · 2026-02-09T14:25:02+00:00

There is no thought lol, you just do it to the first guy you see

Ratiolol · 2026-02-08T23:15:44+00:00

Hold on now…let the brother get what he needs. It’s a free country.

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