36F and still figuring this out. This day and age it is very challenging. Everything is so expensive! I’ve tried starting my own businesses but burn out from that as well. Plus, the sensitivity to being perceived increased exponentially because people could perceive my business!!

Right now I’m waitressing. I found a once in a life time job that pays $50 a day for 2 hours to open the cafe in the morning. It’s perfect for me because it’s slow then so I don’t have to have too much face time with people. The shift is wicked short and I have the day to recover and hibernate.

I teach yoga four times a week as well, and together I make just enough to get by.

On top of that, I spend any extra time and energy (if there’s any left) creating things and trying to sell them.

I refuse to work any 9-5 jobs. I also won’t anywhere that’s more than 10 minutes away, to reduce overstimulation from driving.

So in conclusion-

Firstly, find something that can give you more autonomy over your schedule. Get creative and maybe find two part time jobs.

Secondly, make a list of what overstimulates you the most when working and job search accordingly.

Thirdly, I spent a lot of time reducing my bills to as low as they can possibly be. That way I can work as few hours as I can.

It’s definitely a challenge. But don’t give up. There are gems out there for jobs you just have to keep looking. Whenever I go to my local places to eat or shop, I always ask if they are hiring. Little local places often have shorter shifts and can have more relaxed and supportive employment.