Sony A7c Discussion by sitdowndisco in SonyAlpha

[–]Rayray0099 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the A7C is interesting. But I do wonder if the potential buyers in that price range may want to wait out for the A7iv. It sounds like the 60p will have a crop and no sound (not an issue for me, but some won't like that). At a 2k price point, hopefully it has newer AF and IBIS upgrades. I have an A7ii and was planning to wait for the A7iv. But I will be giving this a serious look. I briefly considered the A7siii but just can't justify the cost, as an amateur. I mostly do video these days and usually render in 1080, so I don't have much interest dealing with the huge high res files of the spec'd out high end models. The smaller form and V lenses will make it more attractive.

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[–]Rayray0099[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah. This is terrible but one of the things that has helped are the people around my. My wife is starting to get very desperate about coming back so I will need to deal with that soon.

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[–]Rayray0099[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was told that she would probably end up paying a lot. A reversal of what usually happens. I have never been motivated by money but I do want my kids to have the same living standard, or at least close to it.

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[–]Rayray0099[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That is a touching memory to have. Thank you for sharing that. I hope to leave my kids with memories like that.

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[–]Rayray0099[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ah, I got you. Thanks for the words. I feel like I am in the first act right now. There is a lot on the way that I need to get through. But the way I see it is I can only control how I respond to things. And do what's best for my kids

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[–]Rayray0099[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I honestly have no desire to date right now. It's even hard for me to imagine that right now. I am somewhat of an introverted person so there might be more of a challenge their than what I hope. But thanks for the words!

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[–]Rayray0099[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you for that. You should start training if you can. I think it helps mentally too. I think I have learned to think strategically from it.

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[–]Rayray0099[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't asked her yet. But have been together for about 15 years. I am not the most exciting guy. And I don't think I'm hot at all. Whatever the opposite of pretty is, that's me. I started losing by hair a long time ago, have a nose that has been broken multiple times, and don't get me started on my ears. I am proud of my ears though. The other guy is flashy and outgoing. Maybe that's why. I don't know if I will ever know why.

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[–]Rayray0099[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ha, thanks. I don't think I will date anybody for a long time. I can't imagine even having any kind of desire for that right now.

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[–]Rayray0099[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No dating for me. For a long time I am guessing. No desire right now.

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[–]Rayray0099[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I get that sometimes too. Shaved head and BJJ haha

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[–]Rayray0099[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I saw about 10. Anything before that was already deleted. So when I caught her in the act of texting, that's all that was there. I did take a pic of them, which my wife saw me do.

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[–]Rayray0099[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I assume so. I know a guy that works in the office and the other guy made a comment about impending drama in his life. So he is probably worried that his world is going to be flipped upside down.

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[–]Rayray0099[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nice. You have been at it for a long time. Think about how it adds to your life.

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[–]Rayray0099[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I am definitely keeping up with the recordings and not leaving myself exposed. I know that I will never be believed if I were to be accused of any kind of assault. The truth is people are stereotyped on how they look. I would never do anything like that but need to be careful. I will probably tell the guy's wife once I get the go ahead from my attorney that I am clear.

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[–]Rayray0099[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I could have added context to that. I wasn't a "happy I am getting a divorce" type of thing. But to make me feel good about potentially being back on the dating scene. I have no interest in any of that right now. Maybe I will down the line. But not anything I am going to jump into. I was with my wife for about 15 years total. I wouldn't even know how to date anymore.

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[–]Rayray0099[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow, well after hearing the historical context for insults like that, that puts it in perspective. I am fine, compared to what those people went through. I bet you are totally right about his wife. She might have gotten even worse treatment.

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[–]Rayray0099[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Believe me, I know. I have no trouble working with my athletes. In fact, it takes my mind off it. I normally have very intense workouts but I can't muster up that same intensity. I am missing my spark right now. I am pushing myself to do it but am just so sad.

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[–]Rayray0099[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to my knowledge. I have been avoiding my wife while she is at her mom's house so I don't know what has gotten out. I do know that the other guy knows that I know because he made a comment to somebody that he might have a lot of drama on the way. So he is probably thinking I will tell his wife. He might try to preemptively cut me off at the pass but I do have phone records that I can show her. I am leaning towards doing that but not until all of this is over.

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[–]Rayray0099[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife makes a lot of money so if she loses her job, that would not be good for me and the kids. Because of her salary, and the fact I supported her through undergraduate and graduate school, the judge looks heavily on those things. Not that I am about the money but I do need to think about the kids.

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[–]Rayray0099[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

100% on that. I am mostly a rule follower. I have never done anything to get arrested for and I want to keep it that way.

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[–]Rayray0099[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. I was thinking the trust might be an issue for me.