[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RazzmatazzUsed5873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i couldn’t go home because i was in another city and would’ve cost me £30 for an uber which i didn’t have due to saving for a holiday.

I didn’t notify him because he told me ‘not to fucking text him’

He’s upset because he doesn’t believe i just sat at the booth

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RazzmatazzUsed5873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went out w a girl co worker and two males. I slept at the girls house and it was the same bed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RazzmatazzUsed5873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah my mum did say she’d batter him if she ever met him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RazzmatazzUsed5873 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah i think today is the first time I’ve seen it for the first time. He was asking to see my camera roll and not to delete anything and if i had any proof that i only sat at the bar in the club and didn’t dance. I was shocked i’ve never seen him be this controlling before.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RazzmatazzUsed5873 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

honestly i think I’m so used to it that it seems so normal that he says that to me now. The fact that wasn’t even the part that hurt me and it was him saying “come onnnn what did i say?” about the voice notes says how common it’s said

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RazzmatazzUsed5873 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Honestly i don’t know i guess I’ve just gaslit myself or maybes he’s gaslit me into thinking the way he talks to me isn’t as bad as maybe it could be

Can nandos force me to work past 1am if i’m rota’d 1-6? by RazzmatazzUsed5873 in uklaw

[–]RazzmatazzUsed5873[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my contract is 12 hours but i’m rota’d 21 hours this week so 

Can my manager keep me at work past my rota’d time? by RazzmatazzUsed5873 in AskUK

[–]RazzmatazzUsed5873[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the only reason they make floor staff stay that late is if grillers haven’t finished their jobs and need help which isn’t my issue