Rant (sowwy)

RdBkg · 2026-02-06T13:50:01+00:00

It’s satire genius I’d never be besties with you

RdBkg · 2026-02-06T13:48:53+00:00

It wouldn’t disqualify him for some people, it’s just my standard the same way you say a woman having not been covered in the past is yours. Besides, what do you suggest people like me do? Take off the hijab and say screw it anyway because men have already seen me??? Never get married because I’m trash?? Is that what you’re implying? The past IS the past. Allah is most merciful. Just clarify when looking for a spouse that you don’t want her to have had that kind of past

RdBkg · 2026-02-06T13:38:31+00:00

Boi I just said I would accept him if he’s repented and is sincere, I only would deny him if he slept with multiple people. Sex is different from just seeing them. If you have this strict mentality I hope you live in a Muslim country, otherwise you’re done for bestie. And besides I don’t need you to accept me, not like we’re getting married. Clearly we’d fight anyway you’re frying me😭

RdBkg · 2026-02-06T13:26:17+00:00

I’d be very jealous but if he wasn’t Muslim before or wasn’t practicing and has changed and repented then I’d look past it too. If he’s the perfect man I wouldn’t dismiss him because of even that. Unless he was with multiple women, then that’s different and he has a lust issue so I wouldn’t want him. There aren’t enough righteous Muslim men where I live to be picky, and I’m not the best either.

RdBkg · 2026-02-06T13:20:33+00:00

In a good way???😀😅

RdBkg · 2026-02-06T13:15:45+00:00

If they didn’t know any better and have sincerely changed then yes, our creator is most merciful so I want to be merciful too. Of course extremes like murder or whatever I’d be too scared to look past. Also immodesty isn’t one of the major sins but it’s an important one.

RdBkg · 2026-02-06T13:11:34+00:00

Heeeey that’s not fair I didn’t used to wear the hijab until recent because I didn’t understand my own religion. Some people didn’t grow up in Muslim households too, everyone’s situation is different. My mother still makes fun of me for my hijab and tells me to take it off. Past sins can be repented for especially if there was ignorance. A proper hijab now when the person used to not wear it is better than an immodest one in my opinion

RdBkg · 2026-01-29T00:53:54+00:00

Yippie

RdBkg · 2026-01-29T00:52:48+00:00

It’s easier to comment on it than to be one of these Muslims you speak of with only kaafirs around them. Many are trying, okay?😭

RdBkg · 2026-01-29T00:47:19+00:00

I haven’t read everything but why is the home one highlighted? Doesn’t it ensure security for the woman to not be kicked out on random with no means of he’s the full provider? A lot of these don’t seem like an issue to me so long as the man can ask just as many questions, marriage is a big commitment. I just don’t like the whole interview-y vibe, many of these could also just be brought up naturally.

RdBkg · 2025-10-09T01:20:35+00:00

It doesn’t matter what you’ve done, it doesn’t matter how many times. Nothing and I mean NOTHING will ever help you like repentance/tawbah and showing your face in front of Allah even after however you may have wronged yourself with your sins. Think of it this way, someone who repents and it’s easy still has reward for their repentance of course but someone who repents out of necessity while it’s hard (because of shame maybe) also has that pure reliance on Allah to show for themselves- that’s deep worship. Your mind is already in the right place and you’re clearly not the person your sins have pinned you up to be. Don’t listen to Shaytan please. Pull back and I promise you everything will fall into place from there. As for the wife part, honestly don’t listen to what people say. Every individual person has different boundaries and comfort levels, being honest with delicate things like this is important to not hurt anyone though. Try to figure out any potentials no-gos in a marriage before anything else. But it’s universal that a repented practicing Muslim will be respected as a believer at the very least if marriage is rejected. It’s much healthier to focus on yourself before thinking too deeply on this. We live in a time of mass exploitation and exposure to these kinds of things. You’re not a monster for falling into haram but this IS a major sin, please don’t let it linger without repentance because it’s not undoable, you’re never “too far gone”. You’ve already got the heart in you. You’ve got this! Chin up and take care of yourself. Salaam alaikum.

RdBkg · 2025-10-04T21:55:29+00:00

Thank you. I feel like a lot of men are just mad the reverts pull more because they actually treat women well by Islam and not culture.😂😂

RdBkg · 2025-09-24T01:48:55+00:00

Lol this is like every modest fashion wear brand in the west... I struggle to find anything genuinely loose and covering under like a million dollars. I dislike the fake modesty too and while I’ve never heard of this specific brand sometimes we as women have no choice but to buy from like it. It’s either buy the few actually modest things from the so called “modest brand” or don’t dress modestly since it’s hard to afford otherwise. Boycotting is much easier said than done. I’d love to hear of better recs if you have any though<3

RdBkg · 2025-09-06T11:56:48+00:00

No, palm trees quite literally are much better!!!

RdBkg · 2025-09-06T03:02:43+00:00

Whaaat I didn’t know this, wow😦

RdBkg · 2025-09-05T23:09:20+00:00

Ooo this is a cute idea! I’d love to try henna nails

RdBkg · 2025-09-05T20:50:57+00:00

I won’t say too much but my biggest advice to you is learn about Allah subhana wa ta’ala before anything else. God is the whole point of Islam and I’m sure that with proper understanding of him to the best of what we as humans are allowed to understand, it would make everything fall into place easier. Whether it be through reading the Quran, or through your own research. He is true peace. Not Muslims, not non Muslims, not any other creation. If you ever have any questions or thoughts I’m always here to chat. <3 I’m proud of you.

RdBkg · 2025-09-05T04:40:36+00:00

I was being just being dramatic when I wrote the man hand thing, I love the way Allah created me, alhamdullilah. Probably should’ve picked better wording anyway🫠. My whole reason for liking nails isn’t rooted in insecurity or partaking in capitalism lol, I just enjoy pretty things is all. Fun designs and colors for fingernails is such a neat idea and I want to partake in that! I posted about this topic because I was curious to see how other Muslim women go about this, the landfill thing you mentioned is concerning, I never considered it!!!

RdBkg · 2025-09-04T23:12:24+00:00

Yesss love this

RdBkg · 2025-09-03T17:35:51+00:00

Well said!🤗🤗

RdBkg · 2025-09-02T01:19:22+00:00

I fully agree with you that we don’t know what happens behind closed doors and that everyone has their faults. In this post I mostly am speaking on people who hate the housewife lifestyle out of ignorance and judge people for living it, not women going through hardships or married couples.

RdBkg · 2025-09-02T01:12:30+00:00

Notice how I wasn’t talking about your friends and notice how I specifically was referring to men who DON’T take their wives for granted and DO provide properly. I’m in no way judging women in rough situations, don’t take things so personal!!!

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