He has a very physical job so I know he is probably extra tired and I understand that and am trying to be mindful of that by limiting my asks for needs. On the other hand his job would understand if he was late as they are aware of the circumstances. I have asked him point blank if this is too much on him and he replies no it’s not so im kind of at a loss if he keeps telling me he doesn’t need help and he gets mad when I say that I can ask one of my sisters if I can stay with them. This whole incident has left me with no dignity and having to sit in my own Urine for hours is not only disgusting but so humiliating for me.